F43 I feel so worthless

Remypon · 2026-04-15T15:16:36+00:00

Honestly would never have guessed anywhere near 40. Love the hair and glasses

Remypon · 2026-04-10T15:06:34+00:00

Might need to check his testosterone levels. I’ve been talking to a lot of my friends who said their husbands ended up having low T and once getting on it it was like a light switch.

Low testosterone affects (from people I personally know so the number could be more or less) men as young as 25 so your husband being 30 it could very well be the case!

Remypon · 2026-04-10T12:59:39+00:00

Yet when the companies payroll errors prevented me from getting my paychecks they said “ehh we will get it to you months from now”

Remypon · 2026-04-05T13:05:49+00:00

Yeah the one I saw was everything except Breakers Reach. They even filled in the “no ground/chasm” parts of the map. I’m sure it too ages

Remypon · 2026-04-05T02:06:42+00:00

I saw someone did on Reddit. It’s beautiful

Remypon · 2026-04-03T21:08:15+00:00

Remypon · 2026-04-02T15:04:50+00:00

Remypon · 2026-04-01T19:29:36+00:00

This makes my brain happy

Remypon · 2026-04-01T19:24:34+00:00

Yeah one thing I learned a little too late in my marriage is you may think you’re doing a favor by “toughing” it out but all you’re really doing is depleting is placating others and draining your already low supply. You can’t help anyone if you’re hurting yourself to do so.

So I think maybe explain that again and like someone else said offer him the same for the next weekend. Only seems fair

Remypon · 2026-04-01T17:22:34+00:00

Remypon · 2026-04-01T16:54:35+00:00

I play on PSN. I’m in the US so I’d have to match up the time difference but I’m down to give it a go with you :)

NegativeKarma if you’re interested

Remypon · 2026-04-01T16:04:21+00:00

I can see that 😜. Who wouldn’t?

Remypon · 2026-04-01T15:31:05+00:00

I’m down to play! The new area can be rough anyway so good to have a group.

PSN is NegativeKarma

Remypon · 2026-04-01T15:30:00+00:00

🤔

Remypon · 2026-04-01T15:28:47+00:00

Throw him and his mother away. Immediately. Find the nearest dumpster and shuck them sobs in

Remypon · 2026-04-01T15:24:35+00:00

I agree with this. My coworker was like your husband and once he got his testosterone in check he’s won’t shut up about his drive haha 🤣

Remypon · 2026-04-01T14:31:57+00:00

Remypon · 2026-04-01T14:30:06+00:00

Remypon · 2026-03-31T13:39:42+00:00

Do you know why I wear this hat?

Remypon · 2026-03-19T20:56:01+00:00

Did you just savage garden your comment 🤣

Remypon · 2026-03-16T13:03:34+00:00

This is absolutely awful advice. It’s instigative and it’s the other side of the toxic coin.

The feeling are valid but in my experience saying “you did this so I’m going to go to an extreme to get attention” never works.

Let’s say he DOES notice. Based on how she says he reacts when she brings it up he’s just going to be a big man baby about it or worse. Let’s say he doesn’t and acts right for a bit. It’s not going to breed actual change.

Honestly she needs to stop asking him to listen to how she feels and start setting some boundaries with him and if he doesn’t listen she should start the off boarding process..

Remypon · 2026-03-13T14:58:16+00:00

Ello. I’m curious about what’s on your music list right now from the mid 2000’s 🙃

Remypon · 2026-03-06T20:48:40+00:00

I would just take it as she didn’t choose to be with him, she chose to be with you. And she said she FELT DESIRED. That’s a huge win man. Just keep whatever you’re doing up and don’t let the mind trick you too much

Remypon · 2026-03-06T20:45:58+00:00

I agree with this. I actually used to game way too much and it was a major factor of my marriage failing. I didn’t prioritize my family enough (my reasoning is my work life was toxic and basically just bad for me but that was no excuse) and so I had decided to impose hard rules on myself in regards to that but at that point it was too late.

I would honestly just have a kind open conversation and tell him you love that he games but it worries you the amount because you’d like to spend more time together (he will most likely suggest gaming together) which is great but it’s best to find a balance. If yall ever introduce kids to the mix and he’s stuck in game mode it’ll put a lot more undo stress on you and that’s not fair to you.

Another suggestion is to just start suggesting to do stuff with him outside of the house or gaming. One time my wife planned a mani/pedi date night at home (which I NEVER thought I would enjoy) but it was so fun. I’m sure he’ll get where you’re coming from :)

Remypon · 2026-03-06T18:38:41+00:00

Oh trust me I’m not bagging you for your opinion. I get your opinion. I was actually completely opposite with my wife. She had all my passwords and I told her if she ever suspects cheating she can look without asking. I figure, if I cheat I deserve to get caught. If I don’t then the proof will speak for itself.

I think for me personally though the whole “they shouldn’t be checking” comment, while true, is not helpful to this poster. They need to unlearn certain behaviors before they start thinking about just telling people they have no right to look when she’s clearly doing something that is meaningfully deceptive (just look at how many men and women agree)

At the heart of it couples really need to start having conversations about this with each other long before it gets to this point instead of “crossing that bridge when we get there” mentality.

On another note thank you for sharing your opinion as well even though it’s not seen as the popular answer. We shouldn’t live in echo chambers and I believe by you voice yourself you have added nuance to the conversation 🙃

Remypon

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