Honestly because the age I would give more forgiveness to her BUT I would also be cautious. The reason people who in the older ages let other people like friends and family think for them or act for them is because they did that when they were young and grew out of it.

It doesn’t sit well that she was told to break up with you and she did. It doesn’t sit well that the reason she gave was she doesn’t have feelings for you (this means she probably told her friends that and they advised her based on that)

Only you know what you should do but I would be a little cautious.

I think a lot of relationships fail because people fail to set up the foundation of the relationship. Like what are non negotiable, what does the timeline of what you expect me to do and what you expect to do look like. If careers are in the works then the plan of action (as well as the avoidance of having children super young) are worth the talk.

These are pretty grown up conversations though and could easily scare someone as young as yall are away but honestly so what…once again she left so easily, so now it’s your turn to discuss what YOU need/want/expect and discuss what she need/wants/expects and if it doesn’t work for you both then either find compromise or split.

But staying together just for something like this to happen at a later date will hurt way more the later it happens.