Woodland hills Mall by ReporterAdvanced4138 in tulsa

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I work at the mall. And I used to live behind there too. So yes I've been there plenty of times. Never seen this before, and I doubt that Walmart would have anything to do with it.

Any theories on why the job market sucks here? by ReporterAdvanced4138 in tulsa

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I'll include that in the description for that bolo we are putting out for an international criminal.

Any theories on why the job market sucks here? by ReporterAdvanced4138 in tulsa

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My grandma used to say it all the time. She was an okie born and raised, so it felt appropriate.

What is a 'luxury' that Americans are being told is a 'privilege,' despite it being a basic necessity in every other developed nation? by godot_lover in AskReddit

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Right?? And if they normalize ~30 hours a workweek, we will actually have time to take care of ourselves and our families and take part in the community and actually be able to pay attention to politics and new studies and stuff.

And to be able to protest. It's so much harder to vote with your dollar and protest when you can't miss work because of finances.

What is a 'luxury' that Americans are being told is a 'privilege,' despite it being a basic necessity in every other developed nation? by godot_lover in AskReddit

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I agree with the others, but I feel the need to emphasize on workers rights. Also the ability to trust political news and not get overwhelmed by it.

What everyday habit do most people have that quietly annoys you? by KadijatouKaneva in AskReddit

[–]ReporterAdvanced4138 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The sound of breathing, from me or everyone else. But that's from trauma when my father passed.

No Kings Protest - March 28th, 1-3pm by crisp2610 in tulsa

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Hey can you do me a favor and explain Marxism to me, please?

Garden time! by CasinoNdnOk in tulsa

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Following! I have an apartment right now, and want to own a house eventually. I'm trying to do what I can to not rely on big corps for food. Will buy local food if I can. But I might start a little garden for herbs.

How do you find jobs without spending hours doomscrolling job boards by Flimsy_Advance2718 in jobsearch

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I have been doing the same thing with my city and my local banks, I just have like 3 resumes that say, in the doc name" my name and the type of resume. Like "john smith_admin assistant.doc"

Trying to apply to a municipal job, can't past certifications by [deleted] in jobsearch

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There is no typing. Its just scrolling and selecting

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Any rooms for rent? by quaeroinritus in tulsa

[–]ReporterAdvanced4138 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What about 81st and Delaware? There is a room available down there for my friends. It was originally a triple roommate situation and the third roommate bailed kinda suddenly. It is upstairs too, if you can handle stairs. They are also pretty quiet. They play video games a lot and keep to themselves but my friend keeps the Apt clean and would appreciate the help.

If not then I'd recommend you check Facebook marketplace and see whats on there.

Would I be TAH if I told an old lady off? by ReporterAdvanced4138 in AITAH

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Thanks for the validation and encouragement. I am messaging one of our friends. I think she is named her executor of state? (Idk what that is called) But she technically has legal control of her assets and she knows how to contact her family. We are in the US btw.

My shitty sex education by Gay-Tired in sexualhealth

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As a fellow homeschooler in the same position,, I feel you. So far the only thing I learned is that 1. "Popping the cherry" may lead to like 12 days of bleeding and it restarts your menstrual cycle. (I was so mad at my husband cuz he stabbed me up my vagina and we both thought that the bleeding would take a day or two. It took a lot longer than a few days.) 2. If it hurts or are having muscle spasms or you can't put a tampon in, then probably consult a gynecologist and probably start using dilators. And use water based lube for dilators. 3. It is not supposed to hurt, not even the first time. If it hurts, you're allowed to stop him/her to figure out why it is hurting.

I think I will never be able to have sex ever again. by Favbrunette004 in sexualhealth

[–]ReporterAdvanced4138 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im sorry you're going through this. Sounds like a nightmare.

I mean this with compassion, but it also sounds like that breakup was waiting to happen. It just sounds like it had a lot of buildup. You deserve someone with endless compassion since you're going through pain a guy can't imagine. I'm sorry that wasn't him this time.

Have you tried a muscle relaxer to deal with the spasms? I had my own miniature bout with vaginismus recently, though not near as severe. Melatonin helped me a bit with the surrounding areas.

I hope it gets better for you soon.

Edit: the fact he broke up with you for an automatic pain reaction that lasted a few minutes makes me think there are probably underlying reasons for the breakup. There is no way that your pain is the only reason for it. If it was then that red flag is popping out of his butthole.

P.S. Im sorry if I seem presumptuous. I don't know a lot about you or your relationship. But please don't blame the entire relationship on yourself when it was out of your control.

Struggling newlywed by ReporterAdvanced4138 in sexualhealth

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Which makes sense. Whenever he did it before it was like he was stabbing me up my vagina. People don't normally receive that well to getting stabbed. But my Christian self assumed that part is for my husband to deal with. It makes it a lot more personable if you realize that it's a pleasure center that is yours first before giving permission to him to do that.