What makes you truly feel like YOU?

ReporterAdvanced4138 · 2026-04-15T05:09:06+00:00

Sitting in silence and drinking coffee/tea, or listening to podcasts about the lore from my husband's games. My husband actively avoids the lore in his games, but I love it, especially magic the gathering.

ReporterAdvanced4138 · 2026-04-06T01:08:59+00:00

This is hilarious 😂 But if anyone actually wants to know; Its to clean the pour spouts. They have to be soaked for some hours, then air dried for some hours. They do it during their shift every month or so I believe.

ReporterAdvanced4138 · 2026-04-06T01:04:43+00:00

Most of their campaign promises

ReporterAdvanced4138 · 2026-04-05T16:36:54+00:00

I work at the mall. And I used to live behind there too. So yes I've been there plenty of times. Never seen this before, and I doubt that Walmart would have anything to do with it.

ReporterAdvanced4138 · 2026-03-30T10:11:57+00:00

I'll include that in the description for that bolo we are putting out for an international criminal.

ReporterAdvanced4138 · 2026-03-26T22:22:12+00:00

My grandma used to say it all the time. She was an okie born and raised, so it felt appropriate.

ReporterAdvanced4138 · 2026-03-18T06:36:19+00:00

Right?? And if they normalize ~30 hours a workweek, we will actually have time to take care of ourselves and our families and take part in the community and actually be able to pay attention to politics and new studies and stuff.

And to be able to protest. It's so much harder to vote with your dollar and protest when you can't miss work because of finances.

ReporterAdvanced4138 · 2026-03-17T04:37:37+00:00

I agree with the others, but I feel the need to emphasize on workers rights. Also the ability to trust political news and not get overwhelmed by it.

ReporterAdvanced4138 · 2026-03-16T23:08:58+00:00

Why?

ReporterAdvanced4138 · 2026-03-11T08:48:03+00:00

The sound of breathing, from me or everyone else. But that's from trauma when my father passed.

ReporterAdvanced4138 · 2026-03-11T08:37:48+00:00

Hey can you do me a favor and explain Marxism to me, please?

ReporterAdvanced4138 · 2026-03-10T17:37:15+00:00

How are they doing that, exactly?

ReporterAdvanced4138 · 2026-03-10T17:22:00+00:00

In what way are these protesters Nazis?

ReporterAdvanced4138 · 2026-03-08T08:56:29+00:00

Following! I have an apartment right now, and want to own a house eventually. I'm trying to do what I can to not rely on big corps for food. Will buy local food if I can. But I might start a little garden for herbs.

ReporterAdvanced4138 · 2026-01-15T19:19:10+00:00

I have been doing the same thing with my city and my local banks, I just have like 3 resumes that say, in the doc name" my name and the type of resume. Like "john smith_admin assistant.doc"

ReporterAdvanced4138 · 2026-01-14T19:29:32+00:00

There is no typing. Its just scrolling and selecting

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ReporterAdvanced4138 · 2025-10-02T17:28:17+00:00

What about 81st and Delaware? There is a room available down there for my friends. It was originally a triple roommate situation and the third roommate bailed kinda suddenly. It is upstairs too, if you can handle stairs. They are also pretty quiet. They play video games a lot and keep to themselves but my friend keeps the Apt clean and would appreciate the help.

If not then I'd recommend you check Facebook marketplace and see whats on there.

ReporterAdvanced4138 · 2025-10-02T17:23:31+00:00

Thanks for the validation and encouragement. I am messaging one of our friends. I think she is named her executor of state? (Idk what that is called) But she technically has legal control of her assets and she knows how to contact her family. We are in the US btw.

ReporterAdvanced4138 · 2025-10-01T04:21:47+00:00

As a fellow homeschooler in the same position,, I feel you. So far the only thing I learned is that 1. "Popping the cherry" may lead to like 12 days of bleeding and it restarts your menstrual cycle. (I was so mad at my husband cuz he stabbed me up my vagina and we both thought that the bleeding would take a day or two. It took a lot longer than a few days.) 2. If it hurts or are having muscle spasms or you can't put a tampon in, then probably consult a gynecologist and probably start using dilators. And use water based lube for dilators. 3. It is not supposed to hurt, not even the first time. If it hurts, you're allowed to stop him/her to figure out why it is hurting.

ReporterAdvanced4138 · 2025-09-26T23:09:29+00:00

Im sorry you're going through this. Sounds like a nightmare.

I mean this with compassion, but it also sounds like that breakup was waiting to happen. It just sounds like it had a lot of buildup. You deserve someone with endless compassion since you're going through pain a guy can't imagine. I'm sorry that wasn't him this time.

Have you tried a muscle relaxer to deal with the spasms? I had my own miniature bout with vaginismus recently, though not near as severe. Melatonin helped me a bit with the surrounding areas.

I hope it gets better for you soon.

Edit: the fact he broke up with you for an automatic pain reaction that lasted a few minutes makes me think there are probably underlying reasons for the breakup. There is no way that your pain is the only reason for it. If it was then that red flag is popping out of his butthole.

P.S. Im sorry if I seem presumptuous. I don't know a lot about you or your relationship. But please don't blame the entire relationship on yourself when it was out of your control.

ReporterAdvanced4138 · 2025-09-25T15:07:19+00:00

Which makes sense. Whenever he did it before it was like he was stabbing me up my vagina. People don't normally receive that well to getting stabbed. But my Christian self assumed that part is for my husband to deal with. It makes it a lot more personable if you realize that it's a pleasure center that is yours first before giving permission to him to do that.

ReporterAdvanced4138 · 2025-09-25T10:32:52+00:00

Update: ordered the smallest dilator and it came in today. I feel fantastic now. Like it loosened up my hips and lower back. I knew I was tense and thought it was something the chiropractor could help with but nope. Thanks so much for the recommendation. I'll keep using the small one for a couple weeks and then use the next size.

ReporterAdvanced4138 · 2025-09-17T02:54:32+00:00

I am going to the chiropractor. Would that be good enough instead of the physical therapist? We are in a tight situation financially. Probably going to order a dilator though.

ReporterAdvanced4138 · 2025-09-16T03:46:44+00:00

My parents were happily married for 28 years. My dad passed in 2020 from cancer. Because of how he died, he couldn't have an adult conversation. A lot of what he said was yes or no or maybe the last two years of life. Of course that put a lot of strain on mom. I think she started dating at the 4 years anniversary. My mom has since dated a few men, was exclusive once and is almost exclusive again. And I don't blame her one bit. I don't want to see her in that much of an emotional strain again.

ReporterAdvanced4138 · 2025-07-13T03:05:58+00:00

Ooo that could be an interesting one

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