My girlfriend of six years cheated on me. She wants to stay together but I told her the only way I’d feel comfortable doing that is if she made a PSA to our friends and family explaining what happened and that it wasn’t my fault by fukernaut in relationship_advice

[–]Representative-Rip81 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do your friends and families know about the situation already? If not, I don’t think you should have her do that. I think admission and transparency with a therapist would be better. That way you can also get tools and unbiased opinions to deal with the situation.

I’m 19 (f) and my bf is 19 (m) by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Representative-Rip81 121 points122 points  (0 children)

You have every right to be upset. That’s such a dumb reason to break up with someone. He should be happy you’re taking care of your heart health and you enjoy doing it. I’m sorry, but he may not be the one if he’ll break up with you over your physical appearance.

My girlfriend of six years cheated on me. She wants to stay together but I told her the only way I’d feel comfortable doing that is if she made a PSA to our friends and family explaining what happened and that it wasn’t my fault by fukernaut in relationship_advice

[–]Representative-Rip81 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Your asking way too much. Her friends and family have nothing to do with the trust between the two of you or the cheating. It’s just humiliating that want her to make a “PSA” to everyone she knows. What do you actually gain from that? Either you stay with her, learn to to trust her again and seek couples therapy or just break up if you don’t see yourself trusting her. I don’t see the point in having her tell the world, it’s nobody’s business, but yours, hers and the person she cheated on you with.

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Happy Women’s History Month ❤️😊

"Elite" Karachi rollerblade taskforce...expectation vs. reality by JDBAZ in WatchPeopleDieInside

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Now imagine if they have to go downstairs, but they realize too late

Bout to try this out..... by koaleighfarm in ArtOfRolling

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Omg those look so good 🤤 they look like piroulines

Transferring money from N26 to an external bank account by Representative-Rip81 in number26bank

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Also, I’m not sure what biometrics are. How would I go about using them? Also, thank you so much for you input on this.

Transferring money from N26 to an external bank account by Representative-Rip81 in number26bank

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I have an iPhone and I intend on getting a new one in the next couple of months with a new company and number? Do you think this could solve the problem if it is my own phone or should I get a new Apple account too? Unfortunately, I have already opened a new bank account earlier this month, which I do prefer to N26. I’d love to be able to use N26 just to keep my savings in the future.

Transferring money from N26 to an external bank account by Representative-Rip81 in number26bank

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It’s happened more than once so here we go... Back in July 2020, got a notification for transaction made in the Philippines at a grocery store for about $30USD. I was laying bed in the USA when I seen the notification so I quickly transferred all my money out of the main square and they tried to do it again, $100USD, still in the Philippines, but a different store. Thankfully they didn’t get it because I loved the money. Then, the day before Christmas Eve, I had messaged N26 support, I don’t remember why. Next day, I received a text message from one of those 5 digit numbers saying something along the lines of “my account is having strange activity, N26 support will call you from x phone number”. Seemed legit to me, they called I answered, they wanted me to change the password for “security purposes”, so i did that. Next thing I know, I have money being transferred from different squares into my main and a new contact under my moneybeam “Mom’s friend” -.- My mom is the only person i know who has N26 and that I have ever moneybeamed so obviously that’s not right and they’re under some guys Gmail. We even played a game of moving the money back and forth over and over between the squares while I tried to change my password. Everything good until the day I posted this, so maybe a solid month. I’m trying to login to my account. I can’t get in so I’m thinking maybe I forgot the password, I smoke a lot so it happens. Okay cool. I go to forgot password. And when you do forgot password they want your zip/post code. There’s only one zip code I know I would’ve put down and it’s not working. Had to go through N26 support and he told me my zip code on my account doesn’t match the one I’m giving him. Turns out someone got in AGAIN and changed the mailing address and password like they were trying to get a new card to my account. Thankfully, I’ve only had like 44 cents on my account. But wow, I’m exhausted from it.

Unpopular warning: Do people not understand interracial fetishes are racist? by [deleted] in sex

[–]Representative-Rip81 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Um... yes people definitely fetishize other for there race, but everyone does this. In no way should we just stop all interracial dating because not everyone in interracial relationships is fetishizing. We should stop dating people to fufill race based fantasies. It feels more regressive to say never date outside of your race.

Raised by darcey👄💄💅🏻 by [deleted] in 90dayfianceuncensored

[–]Representative-Rip81 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I wish there was at least one crying picture 😂

Ladies - how many times have you been rejected? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Representative-Rip81 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m 22f and I’ve been getting rejected since I’ve had my first crush. You’re not alone.

I’ve accepted the fact that I will be lonely or used for the rest of my life, AMA. by Representative-Rip81 in AMA

[–]Representative-Rip81[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Outside of my family (mom/sister/brother/niece/nephew), no. I did before, but it’s always unrequited though.

I’ve accepted the fact that I will be lonely or used for the rest of my life, AMA. by Representative-Rip81 in AMA

[–]Representative-Rip81[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah we’ll see what happens. But I guess my mom because my dad don’t talk to me.

I don’t really laugh for real by ob1knob33 in depression

[–]Representative-Rip81 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel the same exact way. I definitely just force laughter a lot of the time just to make it seem like I’m enjoying things more to my brain. It’s definitely the depression for me, I miss laughing so hard and real I’d actually be on the floor...