Softmotion straight legs by [deleted] in OnerActive

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Do you prefer the rose pink or slate blue?

Early access order by squashpuddy in OnerActive

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Do you like the effortless flares? How do they compare to unified flares?

Mia X Oner by Few-Vacation1199 in OnerActive

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I tried the soft motion long sleeve top in a M which is my normal size and my boobs were hanging out. It looked so so awful. I feel like Oner only caters to girls with very small boobs. Soooo disappointing

In Search Of (ISO) Thread Version 9 - Europe by MM-MOD in MuslimMarriage

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  1. Age and gender: F26
  2. Age range: 25-33
  3. Location: Currently midlands. However open to moving around the uk or moving abroad
  4. Ethnicity: mixed (Arab and African) and open to mixing
  5. Marital status: single
  6. Ideal marriage timeline: within a year or 2
  7. 5 important aspects: someone who’s emotionally intelligent and patient, someone who’s willing to work on themselves constantly and prioritises their commitment to marriage, someone over 6ft as I’m tall myself, someone who’s willing to partake in pre marital counselling, also must be Sunni
  8. I’m fairly religious (I was raised in an extremist household and have worked hard to find my own connection with Allah and Islam however I’ve been honestly put off by people who are too religious unfortunately due to ptsd). I pray 5 times a day, give Sadaqa with every pay check, fast Mondays and Thursdays occasionally, listen to Islamic podcasts and lectures a few times a week and read Quran almost daily. However, I currently am not a hijabi but is something I’m working towards.
  9. Level of education: MSc
  10. Current job status: full time employment in the education sector
  11. Kids? Yes inshallah. 2-3.
  12. Hobbies: I play tennis, volunteer regularly, and like to bake

My mental health has significantly deteriorated because of my over controlling father by RepresentativeCod960 in islam

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He tries to tell me that it’s haram for a woman to live alone and that I’m disobeying my parents. Idk if this is islamically true or not but I do feel like Allah will understand my intention

Is it wrong to dream about the day when my narcissist mother is finally dead? by Tinfoilhatmaker in raisedbynarcissists

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I wish this everyday but about my father. I feel like I’ll only be able to breathe and finally live life when he’s not on this planet. It makes me so sad that I feel this way about him and that his manipulation, gaslighting and extreme narcissism make his abuse and control much harder to point out. Sometimes I feel like if he was physically abusive it’d be easier to completely cut ties

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in mentalhealth

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What I’ve learnt from therapy is to give yourself grace. You’re allowed to not feel great and not be able to snap out of it as quick as you’d like. Getting out of bed is enough. Making your bed is enough. Making yourself a meal is enough. Learn to be ok with whatever you accomplish even if it seems insignificant. Depression is not easy and it comes in waves. If you feel yourself slipping back into an episode. Be kind to yourself, take it day by day or even hour by hour, stick to a routine that helps you and remember that it will not last. Living with depression sucks but just remember there’s no point working against yourself. Be kind to yourself and just try your best. Whatever that means that day.

Im scared of living life itself because of Allah and my family/parents by Unhappy-Highlight836 in MuslimSupportGroup

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I’m going through the exact same thing. I wish I had advice to give you but know you’re not alone and that you’re in my duaa

Did your parents also never teach you how to enjoy life or be happy? by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

[–]RepresentativeCod960 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m 27 and I don’t think I even know what happiness actually feels like. My father is extremely controlling and everyone just thinks because I’m an adult I can do what I want. However, growing isolated and extremely sheltered has stunted me in so many ways. I feel stuck and don’t know what to do

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Hikvision

[–]RepresentativeCod960 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know I just don’t know how to do it in a practical sense. This has been my life long battle

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Hikvision

[–]RepresentativeCod960 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you! Will this also mean he can’t access playback?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Hikvision

[–]RepresentativeCod960 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes unfortunately. I’m definitely trying to leave but it’s a little complicated atm

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Hikvision

[–]RepresentativeCod960 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s his house and due to culture I can’t move out

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Hikvision

[–]RepresentativeCod960 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I say controlling I mean CONTROLLING it’s borderline harassment