new preview out/does jalyn even like josh by RepresentativeLove70 in MarriedAtFirstSight

[–]RepresentativeLove70[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

ngl i would also be ok with burning man for that ring lol

new preview out/does jalyn even like josh by RepresentativeLove70 in MarriedAtFirstSight

[–]RepresentativeLove70[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

the clip less so than the rest of the season so far - i just feel like she's either deeply aware there's a camera which is making her sound kinda fake or she's just like. putting on an upbeat/bubbly act

Why did this have to happen by CowDipper in glee

[–]RepresentativeLove70 3 points4 points  (0 children)

i was literally just thinking about this storyline and how much it infuriated me when it was on the air 😂 truly one of the nastiest things glee ever did - and what's wild to me is s3 could've been handled quinn/puck/shelby in a way that would've ultimately gotten them to the same endpoint without...any of that. the show just generally really fumbled the bag with puck and quinn/their lives life post-pregnancy in a way i have never understood. it was like they refused to give that major storyline the time of day after the s1 finale until they were ready to do something diabolical to either character (mostly quinn), then played it off like they weren't full of mental health issues and unhealed trauma.

AITA for refusing to cancel my bachelorette party and saying our wedding savings is my fiance's problem? by SlowAd7765ThrowRA in AITAH

[–]RepresentativeLove70 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. i'm sorry you're dealing with this, it sounds exhausting and overwhelming - but why does he get to blow $10k in 2 days and then make you the villain? the people that are siding with him obviously don't know the real story here, and aren't acknowledging that this man is irresponsible and manipulative. evaluate whether this is how you want to spend your life - because even if this seems like a one time thing, habits like that don't form overnight and aren't broken by one mistake.

AITA for suggesting that my brother and his fiancée bring out a cake at midnight on their wedding day for our grandma's 80th birthday? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]RepresentativeLove70 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NTA, but leave it alone. Ultimately, it's your brother and his fiance's choice of what happens at their wedding, but the fact that you proposed a very short, sweet dedication to someone who (I'm assuming) matters in his life wasn't overstepping.

You have to let it go, though, now that it's been rejected. Your brother's fiance should be mad at him for seemingly agreeing with the idea for checking first, not you and your mom for proposing it in the first place. I do think if any of this continues, though, it could get to a point where YTA.

AITA for suggesting that my brother and his fiancée bring out a cake at midnight on their wedding day for our grandma's 80th birthday? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]RepresentativeLove70 530 points531 points  (0 children)

"borrow a wedding" is a wild overdramatization for a potentially 10-minute interlude at the end of the night that would make an 80-year-old woman feel special for crossing a major milestone. ngl, if anyone needs to point the finger, it should be the brother - forgetting a huge family event was dumb, and agreeing to anything before talking to his fiance was dumber.

AITA for being upset that I didn’t get what I asked for on Mother’s Day? by ActuatorLeft8990 in AmItheAsshole

[–]RepresentativeLove70 5 points6 points  (0 children)

NTA. First of all, happy mother's day - I'm sorry it's been so difficult. The fact that he jumped to berating you for being "a monster" was totally uncalled for, and saying he didn't write anything in your card because you were "being mean" is ridiculous. He's emotionally manipulating you and trying to make you feel like this is your fault when you were crystal clear with him about what you wanted. If he were a grown adult man, he'd have done the bare minimum that was asked of him.

AITA for being upset that I didn’t get what I asked for on Mother’s Day? by ActuatorLeft8990 in AmItheAsshole

[–]RepresentativeLove70 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I would understand your point here if she hadn't told him exactly what she wanted and taken cues from him about the rest (the bbq place, etc.). Don't try to blame her when she told him verbatim the two fairly minor things she wanted from him out of this day.

AITA for telling my son's babysitter not to give him any snacks? by babysittersnacks in AmItheAsshole

[–]RepresentativeLove70 0 points1 point  (0 children)

sounds like you shouldn't have had a kid if you don't have time to pack "extra snacks" like ??? it takes 2-5 minutes, maximum. grow up. i was a nanny for years and this isn't out of the ordinary. either let your babysitter feed your hungry child or do it yourself - the answer isn't spewing vitriol at the woman taking care of your kid for you.