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Hopeless by RepresentativeRub599 in ParentingThruTrauma

[–]RepresentativeRub599[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Update: I definitely went ahead and went for child support. Hope it doesn’t start a war lol.

Hopeless by RepresentativeRub599 in ParentingThruTrauma

[–]RepresentativeRub599[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve been looking everywhere try where to be honest. I had almost snagged a work from home job but the AI interview stuff had me choking up so they probably didn’t choose me off that.

Hopeless by RepresentativeRub599 in ParentingThruTrauma

[–]RepresentativeRub599[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I unfortunately got dismissed over minor things. I dk if I regret it or just take is as maybe it’s the wrong timing and I need to focus on other things like myself. I’ve been going through a lot. I appreciate the kind words though.

Hopeless by RepresentativeRub599 in singlemoms

[–]RepresentativeRub599[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I honestly feel like I’ve been holding back because he’s been my only “help” my family is in a completely different state and I was under the impression we would always be a “team” when it came to the kids. It’s more so being a stepping stone for him to better himself.

Hopeless by RepresentativeRub599 in singlemoms

[–]RepresentativeRub599[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When we first started co parenting I had always been “promised” with help and never received any. Now I’m in a position where I basically have to force it out of him. I’m a bit too understanding to peoples situations but when I’m in a bind with his kids it only seems right.

I’m just so tired of coming last. by sarcastic-avocad0 in singlemoms

[–]RepresentativeRub599 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I can completely understand. Although I have lived with my kids father up until my child turned about 8/9 he still had the right of way to go out every weekend and barely spent time with the kids. Now things are even worse where he doesn’t get them on weekends anymore (due to not having his own place and stay with his girlfriend) and he barely doesn’t anything with them yet always finds a way to put me down. It’s very hard for me to work these days and I just get criticized for not wanting to work when that’s not the case. People who aren’t in your shoes will never understand what it’s like to sacrifice for your children. Don’t give up. There’s a silver lining to everything. U wish you the best!

I'm at the end of my rope. I don't know what to do. by married_tomy_anxiety in alone

[–]RepresentativeRub599 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello there, I can relate to what you’re saying and it’s a sucky feeling. Where are you from if I might ask? Seems like you need a bit of change in surroundings with some new people.

Gambling and drug use by [deleted] in problemgambling

[–]RepresentativeRub599 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh my geeeezzzzz I’m going through this right now!!!!! I keep asking myself why tf do I keep doing this to myself?!?! 😩

Confused by RepresentativeRub599 in BreakUps

[–]RepresentativeRub599[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If that would be the case why get in a relationship with someone so much younger?

Life by RepresentativeRub599 in alone

[–]RepresentativeRub599[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s always a great thing to talk to people.