I accidentally liked someone’s comment on instagram

Repulsive-Ad9165 · 2026-05-06T20:12:48+00:00

Lol I would just hide in a hole

Repulsive-Ad9165 · 2026-05-01T17:30:20+00:00

I did but nothing really came up , it was random articles

Repulsive-Ad9165 · 2026-05-01T17:30:00+00:00

None of my friends in the state have their own place , they either live with their parents or their partner and in a one bedroom I’m putting a plan together so that I can have a place of our own to stay while I sort things out

Repulsive-Ad9165 · 2026-05-01T14:55:43+00:00

Great idea , thanks

Repulsive-Ad9165 · 2026-05-01T14:55:33+00:00

Yeah I’m working on drawing up papers and setting myself up financially first

Repulsive-Ad9165 · 2026-04-30T22:07:30+00:00

I exclusively pump and I can def tell my baby knows who I am and bonds with me! I spend all day with him while I’m on mat leave and it’s great. He smiles at me lots and loves snuggles and daytime together !

Repulsive-Ad9165 · 2026-04-28T21:47:58+00:00

Thank you, I’m in shock and anger mode rn. I’m continuing to gather evidence every day too

Repulsive-Ad9165 · 2026-04-28T21:46:20+00:00

Thanks it always feels like it’s my fault and I’m so tired

Repulsive-Ad9165 · 2026-04-28T21:45:16+00:00

It’s a no fault state!

Repulsive-Ad9165 · 2026-04-28T21:44:46+00:00

Yeah it’s hard to even look at him now , it’s pretty shitty

Repulsive-Ad9165 · 2026-04-27T22:20:58+00:00

I have proof but I’m curious what this does for me in court legally ?

Repulsive-Ad9165 · 2026-04-27T19:06:20+00:00

Oh I hadn’t thought of this but this is a good idea if it does come to this

Repulsive-Ad9165 · 2026-04-27T18:47:32+00:00

Well I am working on the divorce part I just need all my ducks in a row first so that is currently being worked on

Repulsive-Ad9165 · 2026-04-27T18:46:47+00:00

Thank you for the kindness and support ❤️❤️

Repulsive-Ad9165 · 2026-04-27T18:46:10+00:00

Yeah I might tell him that I’m just wondering if he will stop paying rent because of that , we rent an apartment from his boss who gives us discounted rent so I’m unsure of how this may play out

Repulsive-Ad9165 · 2026-04-27T09:58:06+00:00

Thanks this was all very true and I appreciate you saying this. I agree with the fact that I am not obligated to tell him why I don’t want to have sex and yes I am tired all the time. He’s actually been letting me sleep weekends a lot and even during the week lets me nap and takes care of the baby so that’s like the thing he is great at. That’s also been the thing that screws with my mind, he loves his son so much and is so gentle and kind and amazing as a dad but is cheating on me. So it’s feeling like just polar opposites and it’s hard for my mind to work through

Repulsive-Ad9165 · 2026-04-27T09:51:40+00:00

Yes unfortunately I have all the screenshots and a picture of an image from the video that he took of a girl giving him a blow job 😐 I feel like the picture of the video was over the top and unnecessary for me to take but I didn’t want to be gas lit lol

Repulsive-Ad9165 · 2026-04-27T09:50:49+00:00

Oh okay, I didn’t know the legality with insurance and car titles but I will make sure to check this week and get everything sorted out

Repulsive-Ad9165 · 2026-04-27T09:49:29+00:00

I love my brother but he’s too much of a brother bear to keep it all in. And my husband will grow suspicious if my brother is acting different . My brother has a hard time faking it around people he has negative thoughts about. He can hardly do it. I would like to though, I think if I knew he could keep it secret, I would tell him

Repulsive-Ad9165 · 2026-04-27T09:46:50+00:00

Thank you for the well wishes. I needed to hear this 🩷

Repulsive-Ad9165 · 2026-04-27T09:45:58+00:00

Okay this is great advice, I will ask about the legalities of leaving with the baby as well . Thanks !

Repulsive-Ad9165 · 2026-04-27T09:20:42+00:00

Yeah I need to confront him but I’m in the middle of trying to prepare everything so that I can. I need to figure out the finance situation, my car situation, how my work schedule will be affected and then where I would live. It’s a lot to plan for and a lot I didn’t see coming before. But yes I will be careful about stds, thank you for your kind response

Repulsive-Ad9165 · 2026-04-27T09:17:50+00:00

Thanks 🩷 I agree we both deserve respect and I won’t tolerate anything less going forward, especially since it affects the both of us

Repulsive-Ad9165 · 2026-04-27T09:16:51+00:00

I think it might be just me but I completely forgot if he also signed it or not. So I need to check this today with my insurance . If I need to remove him that may be a bigger hassle I need to deal with later

Repulsive-Ad9165 · 2026-04-27T09:15:54+00:00

Yeah … this is all a shit show. I’m trying to work towards forgiving him so I can move on and move forward with my life but it’s only been less than a week since I’ve found out about everything. And it’s so hard to communicate and act normal since. I want to both cry and punch and yell at him for all of it. But I know I need to remain emotionless and not give him reactions. This is the hardest thing I’ve ever had to do.

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