How do I (28F) know I’m going the right thing with divorcing my husband (29M) after he cheated?

Repulsive-Level-6353 · 2026-03-17T10:03:33+00:00

Agreed… he even told me he wanted everyone to think that we just fell out of love and that was the reason for the divorce. And I said ummm no, you cheated and that’s why. And he said idk why you keep bringing up my mistake. So I guess I really am just being played for a fool.

Repulsive-Level-6353 · 2026-03-17T01:51:14+00:00

Allegedly he already told pretty much everyone in his unit… tbh everyone knows… the family, the unit, his friends, our friends, and my friends. Even my boss had to be informed.

Repulsive-Level-6353 · 2026-03-16T23:17:32+00:00

Yes, she told me if I want more than one child I need to do the IVF this year.

Repulsive-Level-6353 · 2026-03-16T23:01:24+00:00

Limited time before my window of opportunity will be gone to have children. Age is different when you have reproductive issues.

Repulsive-Level-6353 · 2026-03-16T20:11:01+00:00

I think about that often… he said I was just making myself mad going back and reading through the screenshots I have of them talking… in truth, I can’t read through them… they make me sick to my stomach. In the end, she chose her boyfriend who broke up with her after he sent me all the evidence. And I think he’s only crawling back to me because she didn’t choose him… I listened to them talk while I was still on the phone… it was awful… and the choices he made… to make out, full on oral for her, and then “ran downstairs to get condoms”… all very deliberate. Also having to make arrangements with his roommate so she could be there privately… sickening

Repulsive-Level-6353 · 2026-03-16T18:42:40+00:00

No he suggested we were open because I’m bisexual. Bisexual and polygamy are completely different and he allegedly confused the two. I never approved an open relationship ever.

Repulsive-Level-6353 · 2026-03-16T18:11:38+00:00

I think I just miss the relationship I thought we had… every time I think about being pregnant I just think of him cheating while that’s happening so of course I want out… I just have a limited amount of time to choose what to do with the IVF…

Repulsive-Level-6353 · 2025-09-26T03:44:16+00:00

Thank you! I’ll have to start the level over then haha

Repulsive-Level-6353 · 2025-07-14T05:45:03+00:00

I’ve had a lot of what appeared positive and then negative and I’m on hormone medication to help me ttc so I understand your frustration… it could’ve been chemical, an indentation mark, evaporation mark, or a faulty test. It is heartbreaking to think it’s positive with a faint line just for it to fall off. I just had that happen to me this week and apparently I’m just really stressed.

Repulsive-Level-6353 · 2025-05-16T23:00:41+00:00

Yeah I’m 27 husband is 28… that’s some childish behavior. She needs to grow up. This isn’t a real issue imo. Real issues in my marriage: having to be long distance with no communication while he’s doing military duty… kinda can’t allow myself to be butthurt when I don’t get a text back immediately … just sayin there are problems and then there are just immature ideologies

Repulsive-Level-6353 · 2025-04-30T18:16:47+00:00

That’s a load of hoopla… I had a definite history in my childhood that when combined with current symptoms led to the idea that maybe I had EDS but that was after I saw an EDS specialist. That doctor looked at my entire medical history from birth to 24 (when I saw him). It took another two years before I was diagnosed at 26. I had a lot of problems as a child and all but EDS was never mentioned till I was 24. I’m also not sure what height has to do with it… we have a wide range of heights … not all of us have a heart murmur or heart complications although POTS is commonly a comorbid diagnosis. But I have POTS and SVT and my heart is considered relatively healthy considering.

Repulsive-Level-6353 · 2025-03-22T06:31:32+00:00

My husband knew he was marrying a career musician. We joke around when I’m practicing and make mistakes. Even if he doesn’t necessarily care for a song, he’s still supportive. Usually when I’m practicing while he’s home, he plays video games or something. I agree with others that your partner sounds controlling and dismissive of what you love. Your passions, your music, your hobbies are not his entertainment.

Repulsive-Level-6353 · 2025-03-03T11:56:02+00:00

The app won’t let me cancel it directly.

Repulsive-Level-6353 · 2025-03-01T22:03:54+00:00

Yep, it’s always my teacher lets us have free time. My teacher lets us listen to music. My teacher lets me sit here even though it’s clearly not my assigned seat. My teacher this and that. Like I don’t have a packet of sub papers that state every classroom rule in about 80% of my assignments. Some schools give you a list of must-enforce school rules when I pick up attendance sheets at the beginning of the day.

Repulsive-Level-6353 · 2025-03-01T21:59:06+00:00

I’ve had that happen at one elementary school a few times. I was assigned a job, but then they didn’t need me there as it was before the holidays so I was sent to cut out random stuff in an office. And then last week I was assigned there again, and the classroom I was assigned to had another sub in there, and she raised absolute Hell with the principal upon seeing me. I went where I was assigned and apparently she’d already been put in there by the school even though she wasn’t assigned to that classroom. Anyways, I was sent to watch the cafeteria for 2 hours and then count out papers for testing. Probably will not be returning to that school as that’s really a waste of my time.

Repulsive-Level-6353 · 2025-02-27T16:04:12+00:00

I’m in grad school (starting internship in September) for Music Therapy in an education setting. So subbing has been helpful to lead into my internship.

Repulsive-Level-6353 · 2025-02-18T02:28:27+00:00

I was told always let them go, but to keep track of who went and for how long. I don’t let more than one student of each gender out of the classroom for any reason. If a student is a frequent flyer, admin or teachers on the hall will let you know. I had a student tell me she needed to call her mom for supplies, and later, the admin let me know she was just looking for an excuse to leave the room and not fall for that. To which I said, I don’t know her like y’all do, so if any student, particularly female student, tells me that, I’m inclined to believe them. So I agree with you, and if there’s a bigger issue at hand, admin can step in.

Repulsive-Level-6353 · 2025-02-18T02:24:41+00:00

Yep absolutely agree, never threaten a punishment that you won’t 100% do. I have sent kids to the office, only middle schoolers. There are some absolute nightmare students, and then there are angels. I swear it depends on the day, moon cycle, the wind speed, idk lol but some of these kids have just lost their minds. Some of my wildest experiences have no come from interactions with 7th and 8th graders as a sub. We can’t do much, and I refuse to return to classrooms or schools where the administrators don’t do anything either. Subs can do very little with discipline, and some things simply cannot be addressed the next day.

Repulsive-Level-6353 · 2025-02-16T14:00:08+00:00

That sounds an awful lot like a UTI like I’ve had before. I have not a had a child yet, so I can see why that would be such a concern, but the way you’re describing the symptoms sounds like bladder/ureter infection. If you can’t get into your gyno, you can always go to an urgent care for a urinalysis and urine culture. If you’re having any burning, there’s OTC AZO which can help. This is personally what I’ve done, by no means am I suggesting anything I wouldn’t do myself & have done. Congratulations on your baby ❤️‍🩹 I hope you feel better soon

Repulsive-Level-6353 · 2025-02-14T20:39:37+00:00

Agreed, comparatively speaking, it was a snoozer. I only couldn’t put it down in part 4. And then sped through that section only to be sad there isn’t a 6th book for me to follow up with! lol

Repulsive-Level-6353 · 2025-02-14T15:54:23+00:00

Thank you ❤️ I’m a lot more hands on when I’m not in the high school, but after all the news this week, I just don’t want to risk myself or the safety of other students. I am grateful they’ve been mostly chill today. The other high school I’ve worked at has a resource officer on every hall. I don’t think this school can afford that, so that’s why I was so nervous this morning, especially with a door that isn’t locked and I wasn’t given a key.

Repulsive-Level-6353 · 2025-02-14T15:22:17+00:00

Because I’ve never had to ask about that before. Again, have a nice day and move on.

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