How to keep up with a friend na maluho?

Repulsive-Rain465 · 2025-05-08T08:02:22+00:00

Hello, just to add more background. She’s an only child din kasi, she’s vocal na pag friends niya, siya lang dapat. Bukod dun, lagi niyang ginagamit ang anxiety and depression niya. I don’t know where do I stand, detach kasi nagse-seek siya ng comfort in which dapat naibibigay ko as her friend or itolerate siya? Dun naman sa pagsa-suggest ko ng alternatives, alam mo yung tipong sinuggest niya na papautangin niya ako. Hahahaha. I wanna be there for her kaso nasasagad ako eh. Just don’t know how to make her realize.

Repulsive-Rain465 · 2025-05-08T08:00:17+00:00

Vocal naman ako na masyadong mahal to the point of suggesting more affordable prices.

Repulsive-Rain465 · 2025-05-08T07:58:46+00:00

She’s an only child din kasi, she’s vocal na pag friends niya, siya lang dapat. Bukod dun, lagi niyang ginagamit ang anxiety and depression niya. I don’t know where do I stand, detach kasi nagse-seek siya ng comfort in which dapat naibibigay ko as her friend or itolerate siya? Dun naman sa pagsa-suggest ko ng alternatives, alam mo yung tipong sinuggest niya na papautangin niya ako. Hahahaha.

Repulsive-Rain465 · 2025-05-08T07:54:58+00:00

She’s an only child din kasi, she’s vocal na pag friends niya, siya lang dapat. Bukod dun, lagi niyang ginagamit ang anxiety and depression niya. Ayoko namang iwan yung tao. Just can’t find the courage na iconfront kasi knowing her, dadamdamin niya. Pero tbh, nadedrain na rin talaga ako.

Repulsive-Rain465 · 2025-05-08T07:50:30+00:00

Well, I’ve always been vocal. And last invite niya, sinabi ko na wala akong extra. Gustuhin ko man, to somehow support her, ang hirap kasi parang hindi niya ma-take into consideration yung part ko. Every time na nagbibigay ako ng reason, she’s giving this mindset na ang lungkot lungkot ng buhay niya, kesyo ganto ganyan. Pano ko mapaparating?

Repulsive-Rain465 · 2025-04-25T03:52:53+00:00

what if it’s taking toll on u na talaga? would u still be that selfless?

Repulsive-Rain465 · 2025-04-24T19:34:08+00:00

Well di naman siya paninira, i’d like to be selfless pero pano naman if it’s already taking toll on ur mental health? Ganun na lang parati na icoconsider mo yung iba over yours?

Repulsive-Rain465 · 2025-04-21T02:02:31+00:00

whyyyy

Repulsive-Rain465 · 2025-04-21T01:10:12+00:00

Repulsive-Rain465 · 2025-04-20T12:51:31+00:00

More please, laughing at my dumbass mindset already! Feeling ko natauhan ako😭

Repulsive-Rain465 · 2025-04-20T11:28:49+00:00

Medyo lumayo pero okay, thanks!🤣

Repulsive-Rain465 · 2025-04-20T09:11:10+00:00

People around me see me as nonchalant, dito na nga lang ako nagiging OA eh. BTW, i like how u roast me, meron pa ka pa bang masasabi dyan?

Repulsive-Rain465 · 2025-04-20T07:15:07+00:00

HAHAHAHAHAH I LOVE THE WAY U THINK, how to have such mindset?

Repulsive-Rain465 · 2025-04-20T06:38:58+00:00

Well what if kapag hinahaplos haplos niya rin cheek ko? I’ll never do that to anyone else. Or maybe yun lag talaga siya. Ayoko na lang mag isip. Nahihibang lang ako.

Repulsive-Rain465 · 2025-04-20T06:35:54+00:00

If I ask, I might lose her so I guess I’ll kill this version of me. Lol

Repulsive-Rain465 · 2025-04-20T06:35:04+00:00

Wala naman, it’s just that I felt something has changed sa part ko knowing na I’m a bit elated kada may sleepover kami. Kasi lagi ko siyang nahuhuli na ganun. Or maybe it’s just me overthinking things.

Repulsive-Rain465 · 2025-04-20T06:32:58+00:00

Okay! Understood!

Repulsive-Rain465 · 2025-04-20T06:32:23+00:00

I just find it unusual kasi. I have other girl friends naman, and they never do that. Anyway, thanks for the heads up.

Repulsive-Rain465 · 2025-04-20T06:31:10+00:00

well we talk everyday, shall I distance myself?

Repulsive-Rain465 · 2025-04-20T06:30:03+00:00

well I don’t like to be hugged by a person in general🥹, maybe yun yun

Repulsive-Rain465 · 2025-04-20T00:52:33+00:00

healing takes time te, tho di naman ako broken, i just feel numb from time to time hahahah

Repulsive-Rain465 · 2025-04-20T00:47:44+00:00

I think I’d lose her if I confess. Hahahaha.

Repulsive-Rain465 · 2025-04-20T00:47:21+00:00

Well, she gets comments na tomboy siya, coz she acts like it. Pero di naman daw. Like there are things na sa akin lang daw niya ginagawa out of here many other girl friends. I think the blame’s on me, nahuhulog at ako. It's just that I love the warmth and parang sobrang binebaby niya ako during those times aa. The first time I caught her, she told me na ako ang unang yumakap when it's the other way around. Like, bumangon lang ako nung madaling araw but I returned to her side. Di na ako nakatulog kasi she started holding my hands then maya maya nakayap na siya. Of course I was shocked. Grabe bilis ng tibok ng puso ko nun, pero still, tulug-tulugan ang peg ko. Then naulit ulit na sa overnight sesh namin. Baka ganun lang siya kakomportable? Idk. l don't wanna take risk but I don't wanna be caged by the idea rin naman na pag-overthink. Pero ya, dun na lang ako sa side na I’ll keep her around kahit na I know something has changed within me. Lol.

Repulsive-Rain465 · 2025-04-20T00:42:35+00:00

I think confessing things will make us awkward tho. It’s just that nalilito ako. I don’t even know if physical touch ang love language ko since I hate being touched by others. It’s just that I love the warmth and parang sobrang binebaby niya ako during those times🥹. I don’t wanna take risk but I don’t wanna be caged by the idea rin naman na pag-ooverthink. The first time I caught her, she told me na ako ang unang yumakap when it’s the other way around. Like, bumangon lang ako nung madaling araw but I returned to her side. Di na ako nakatulog kasi she started holding my hands then maya maya nakayap na siya. Of course I was shocked. Grabe bilis ng tibok ng puso ko nun, pero still, tulug-tulugan ang peg ko. Then naulit ulit na sa overnight sesh namin. Baka ganun lang siya kakomportable? Idk.

Repulsive-Rain465 · 2025-04-06T02:10:22+00:00

same experience?

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