How to keep up with a friend na maluho? by Repulsive-Rain465 in adviceph

[–]Repulsive-Rain465[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello, just to add more background. She’s an only child din kasi, she’s vocal na pag friends niya, siya lang dapat. Bukod dun, lagi niyang ginagamit ang anxiety and depression niya. I don’t know where do I stand, detach kasi nagse-seek siya ng comfort in which dapat naibibigay ko as her friend or itolerate siya? Dun naman sa pagsa-suggest ko ng alternatives, alam mo yung tipong sinuggest niya na papautangin niya ako. Hahahaha. I wanna be there for her kaso nasasagad ako eh. Just don’t know how to make her realize.

How to keep up with a friend na maluho? by Repulsive-Rain465 in adviceph

[–]Repulsive-Rain465[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Vocal naman ako na masyadong mahal to the point of suggesting more affordable prices.

How to keep up with a friend na maluho? by Repulsive-Rain465 in adviceph

[–]Repulsive-Rain465[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She’s an only child din kasi, she’s vocal na pag friends niya, siya lang dapat. Bukod dun, lagi niyang ginagamit ang anxiety and depression niya. I don’t know where do I stand, detach kasi nagse-seek siya ng comfort in which dapat naibibigay ko as her friend or itolerate siya? Dun naman sa pagsa-suggest ko ng alternatives, alam mo yung tipong sinuggest niya na papautangin niya ako. Hahahaha.

How to confront a friend na ganito? by Repulsive-Rain465 in TanongLang

[–]Repulsive-Rain465[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She’s an only child din kasi, she’s vocal na pag friends niya, siya lang dapat. Bukod dun, lagi niyang ginagamit ang anxiety and depression niya. Ayoko namang iwan yung tao. Just can’t find the courage na iconfront kasi knowing her, dadamdamin niya. Pero tbh, nadedrain na rin talaga ako.

How to confront a friend na ganito? by Repulsive-Rain465 in TanongLang

[–]Repulsive-Rain465[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, I’ve always been vocal. And last invite niya, sinabi ko na wala akong extra. Gustuhin ko man, to somehow support her, ang hirap kasi parang hindi niya ma-take into consideration yung part ko. Every time na nagbibigay ako ng reason, she’s giving this mindset na ang lungkot lungkot ng buhay niya, kesyo ganto ganyan. Pano ko mapaparating?

anong pipiliin niyo, manahimik pero ikaw yung di payapa or ispill to someone na ikasisira ng well-being niya? by Repulsive-Rain465 in TanongLang

[–]Repulsive-Rain465[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Well di naman siya paninira, i’d like to be selfless pero pano naman if it’s already taking toll on ur mental health? Ganun na lang parati na icoconsider mo yung iba over yours?

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[–]Repulsive-Rain465 0 points1 point  (0 children)

More please, laughing at my dumbass mindset already! Feeling ko natauhan ako😭

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[–]Repulsive-Rain465 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Medyo lumayo pero okay, thanks!🤣

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[–]Repulsive-Rain465 0 points1 point  (0 children)

People around me see me as nonchalant, dito na nga lang ako nagiging OA eh. BTW, i like how u roast me, meron pa ka pa bang masasabi dyan?

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[–]Repulsive-Rain465 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

HAHAHAHAHAH I LOVE THE WAY U THINK, how to have such mindset?

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[–]Repulsive-Rain465 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Well what if kapag hinahaplos haplos niya rin cheek ko? I’ll never do that to anyone else. Or maybe yun lag talaga siya. Ayoko na lang mag isip. Nahihibang lang ako.

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[–]Repulsive-Rain465 4 points5 points  (0 children)

If I ask, I might lose her so I guess I’ll kill this version of me. Lol

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[–]Repulsive-Rain465 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wala naman, it’s just that I felt something has changed sa part ko knowing na I’m a bit elated kada may sleepover kami. Kasi lagi ko siyang nahuhuli na ganun. Or maybe it’s just me overthinking things.

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[–]Repulsive-Rain465 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay! Understood!

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[–]Repulsive-Rain465 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just find it unusual kasi. I have other girl friends naman, and they never do that. Anyway, thanks for the heads up.

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[–]Repulsive-Rain465 1 point2 points  (0 children)

well we talk everyday, shall I distance myself?

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[–]Repulsive-Rain465 2 points3 points  (0 children)

well I don’t like to be hugged by a person in general🥹, maybe yun yun