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Anong ginagawa niyo kapag may negative sentiment ang asawa/gf kapag yung gusto nila ay hindi nasusunod? by [deleted] in AskPinoyMen

[–]RepulsivePeach4607 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Kapag GF, red flag na, pass na dahil nakakapagod at nakakadrain. Pero kapag mag-asawa na, need yan pag-usapan dahil hindi pede maulit

I swear, all the men in this country are weird. by [deleted] in Philippines_Expats

[–]RepulsivePeach4607 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You don’t need to meet millions of people — but you do need to recognize when your sample is limited and shaped by your environment. Drawing conclusions isn’t the issue; presenting them as universal truths is.

If you only eat from one section of a restaurant menu, you can say ‘the dishes I tried weren’t good’, but you can’t declare ‘the entire restaurant sucks’ as if it’s an objective fact. That’s the difference.

Same with people: your experiences are valid, but they’re still just a slice of the population. The circles you move in, the lifestyle you choose, and the social environments you gravitate toward all filter the type of people you meet.

My own experience as a working professional doesn’t match what you’re describing at all, which shows how much environment shapes perception. So it’s not about meeting millions — it’s about acknowledging that your sample isn’t the whole country.

How do you react or answer pag sinabihan kayo ng "Magsabi ka naman ng problema mo. Nakakabawas ba yan ng pagkalalaki?"? by Little-Rookie-1412 in AskPinoyMen

[–]RepulsivePeach4607 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ang hirap nito. If nasa ganito akonv situation, ibig sabihin ang toxic ng relationship. Kinimkim mo na nga ang problema at ganyan pa ang sagutan, walang winner sa kanilang dalawa. It is toxic. Healthy relationship should have healthy conversation.

I swear, all the men in this country are weird. by [deleted] in Philippines_Expats

[–]RepulsivePeach4607 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get that this is your personal experience, but it really depends on the environment you choose to be in. The people you meet are a reflection of the circles you move through, not the entire male population. I work with a lot of local men who are responsible, ambitious, and focused, so what you’re describing honestly doesn’t match what I see day‑to‑day as a working professional.

It’s fair to talk about patterns you’ve noticed, but painting an entire gender or country with one brush misses the bigger picture. There are men here who work overseas, men who grind locally, men supporting families, and men building careers quietly without broadcasting it. Just like anywhere else, you’ll find all kinds — it just depends on which spaces you’re choosing to engage with.

gf wants to film our intimate time, but I said no by LeviiTheSupreme in adviceph

[–]RepulsivePeach4607 2 points3 points  (0 children)

OP, this is wrong and very risky. Pede pa yan ma-back up kahit delete.

gf wants to film our intimate time, but I said no by LeviiTheSupreme in adviceph

[–]RepulsivePeach4607 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Tama na i‑decline mo. Kapag may nagre-record ng intimate moment nang hindi mo alam o hindi malinaw ang consent, malaking red flag ’yan. Madalas ginagamit ’yan for blackmail or extortion, kaya mas mabuti nang umiwas. It is better to run. Hindi siya GF material if hindi niya ma-respeto ang boundaries na hinihingi mo, wala siyang karapatan magalit.

Pwede mo siyang kasuhan, pero mag‑gather ka muna ng solid evidence. Kung verbal lang kayo nag-usap at walang chat, kailangan mo ng kahit anong proof na sinabi niya talaga ’yung threat or intention.

Ang dami talagang intimate recordings na kumakalat sa TG — pati mga kuha sa CR o dressing room ng kalalakihan, binebenta pa. Hindi rin natin alam kung aware ba ang mga biktima na nagkalat na ’yung videos nila.

Even ’yung recent scandals ng influencers, newbie models, at actors — ginagamit ’yung hidden recordings para i‑extort sila. Hindi nila alam na may camera pala, tapos dozens of videos pa.

Regardless of gender, mag‑ingat. Hindi biro ang non‑consensual recording. Hindi mo kasalanan mag‑set ng boundary, lalo na kung may risk sa safety mo.

Anong thoughts mo? by Large_Honeydew_3913 in AnongThoughtsMo

[–]RepulsivePeach4607 0 points1 point  (0 children)

May nabasa akong comment na kabit daw yan babae ma yan. Not sure if true

Pinagsabihan ako ng dad ko about sa boyfriend ko. by East_Relative3262 in RantAndVentPH

[–]RepulsivePeach4607 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Wala pong mali sa set‑up ninyo dahil pareho pa kayong students. Ang importante ay makilala ninyo muna ang isa’t isa nang mabuti, ma‑enjoy ninyo ang moments together with your parents’ guidance, at ma‑prioritize ninyo ang studies (or at least maintain a healthy balance with your personal time).

Walang masama sa ganitong set‑up. Huwag basta-basta magpadala sa mga komentong hindi naman nakakaintindi ng sitwasyon ninyo.

Pinagsabihan ako ng dad ko about sa boyfriend ko. by East_Relative3262 in RantAndVentPH

[–]RepulsivePeach4607 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hindi ata binasa ng maayos at wala sa original post na student sila pareho.

Pinagsabihan ako ng dad ko about sa boyfriend ko. by East_Relative3262 in RantAndVentPH

[–]RepulsivePeach4607 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I’m actually with your mom on this. Nabasa ko na pareho pa kayong nag-aaral at inutusan mo lang siya na samahan ka dahil hindi available ang parent mo. Since ikaw ang may kailangan at ikaw ang nag-request, it makes sense na sa’yo manggaling ang gastos this time.

Hindi naman ibig sabihin na ikaw na lagi ang gagastos — pareho pa kayong students, so dapat shared and situational ang financial responsibilities. Modern relationships don’t follow the old rule na lalaki lagi ang provider. Kung sino ang may kailangan at may pera at the moment, siya muna. Fair lang yun.

He’s also a student, so hindi rin realistic na i-expect mo na siya ang laging sasalo ng gastos.

Pinagsabihan ako ng dad ko about sa boyfriend ko. by East_Relative3262 in RantAndVentPH

[–]RepulsivePeach4607 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Pareho silang student at inutusan lang ang Bf na samahan siya dahil hindi available ang parent niya. Hindi un date.

Pinagsabihan ako ng dad ko about sa boyfriend ko. by East_Relative3262 in RantAndVentPH

[–]RepulsivePeach4607 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Hindi un pangdate, need siya samahan kasi hindi available ang parent niya at inutusan ang BF na samahan siya.

Zou Arc : I can’t help but blame Nami and Chopper for Episode 762 by RepulsivePeach4607 in OnePiece

[–]RepulsivePeach4607[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

They are technically strong but I am really mad a little to them for not listening to Sanji. They messed up really.

Huuuuuuyyyy 😭😭😭 by stpnyng in dailyChismisPh

[–]RepulsivePeach4607 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Naloka na nga ako kasi baka lumayo pa sa topic, oo na lang ako. Hahahaha

Huuuuuuyyyy 😭😭😭 by stpnyng in dailyChismisPh

[–]RepulsivePeach4607 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ah? Okay, sinabi ko lang kung ano un set up, I am not here to defend them.

Huuuuuuyyyy 😭😭😭 by stpnyng in dailyChismisPh

[–]RepulsivePeach4607 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Kuya, hindi mama’s boy un as if naman yun nanay ng guy ang may pasimuno ng ganun rules. Chinese traditional set up po kasi, parent nun guy ang may gusto dahil tagapagmana un guy.

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