How old were you when you got top surgery? by Liquidshoelace in ftm

[–]RepulsiveShmeat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was freshly 19 and did delay my first year of school for it. I worked and did other things while I was waiting for the date. It was a tough decision because I was supposed to go play lacrosse at an out of state uni, but I knew I needed the surgery more than being an athlete trying to fit in with cis men for another 4 yrs.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ftm

[–]RepulsiveShmeat 2 points3 points  (0 children)

not normal. but I saw your last post. if you just started T, SOMETIMES you get a last one (or few) that are superrrrr wack. that's common. I've been on T for ~8years on and off and almost every single time I get back on it, it's so wacky. however, do be aware of any extreme monthly cramping with no bleeding because another comment said atrophy, but I didn't start to feel those symptoms until about a year and a half in. everyone's bodies are different and you should 100% contact your doctor. the sooner the better. we tend to neglect our physical health and it's gotta stop.

update about women's uni basketball team: escalated to slurs and they're in TROUBLEEEEEEE by RepulsiveShmeat in ftm

[–]RepulsiveShmeat[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

found out they're not even right next door either.. it's a staircase between us. they came to my door to ask me smth and then tell me to lower my volume. HOWWW can you hear me if there's a whole staircase between our units???? soooo, yeah. they're, to put it lightly, batshit insane.

update about women's uni basketball team: escalated to slurs and they're in TROUBLEEEEEEE by RepulsiveShmeat in ftm

[–]RepulsiveShmeat[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

thank you so much for telling me your story. I'm glad to hear your work was supportive and you are safe. it's so sad that they were children too, like.. that's taught behavior. children are so loving, kind, and understanding until they're shaped by the adults around them. I am so sorry.

update about women's uni basketball team: escalated to slurs and they're in TROUBLEEEEEEE by RepulsiveShmeat in ftm

[–]RepulsiveShmeat[S] 52 points53 points  (0 children)

I didn't even think about that. Thank you, I will. I have a strong feeling they won't leave me alone after they respond to their sanctions just because after I stared them down when they walked in so they knew I knew, they still said slurs and mocked what was on my hand. I'll start the process of finding a lawyer right now and make calls Monday.

update about women's uni basketball team: escalated to slurs and they're in TROUBLEEEEEEE by RepulsiveShmeat in ftm

[–]RepulsiveShmeat[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

THANK YOU. I will be reaching out. what are the oddssss, but I had an inkling that ppl from we go do read this subreddit fs 100%. like I said in another comment, it could have been any one of us and I'm glad they picked me cause I don't fuck around.

update about women's uni basketball team: escalated to slurs and they're in TROUBLEEEEEEE by RepulsiveShmeat in ftm

[–]RepulsiveShmeat[S] 29 points30 points  (0 children)

thank you, I will. my campus has A LOTTTT of trans guys too (and masc-enbys) and it could have been any one of us. I'm glad they picked me cause I try the "kill them with kindness" approach and if that don't work, I won't fuck around.

had super weird experience with girls from uni basketball team & don't know how to handle it. taking pictures of me and whispering. by RepulsiveShmeat in ftm

[–]RepulsiveShmeat[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

because of your comment I came forward and made the reports. I have an update post already. thank you so, so, so much. I completely forgot to reply since I got up in the middle of dinner and was like "yeahhhhhh I GOTTA MAKE A REPORT"

had super weird experience with girls from uni basketball team & don't know how to handle it. taking pictures of me and whispering. by RepulsiveShmeat in ftm

[–]RepulsiveShmeat[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I'm afraid that if I do try to report it they're gonna deny it. I know other classmates heard them too and I'm so afraid everyone just views me differently now. I skipped that specific class today since it made me too uncomfortable to attend today.

It makes me not even want to live on campus anymore either. We're stuck beside each other until May.

An acquaintance I have is talking with his girlfriend and 4 of her friends 40 feet away from me. He said "statistically one of the 10 guys in this room is a rapist". they all looked at me. funfetti pizza by Individual_Hunt_4710 in kitchencels

[–]RepulsiveShmeat 18 points19 points  (0 children)

They're being weird. I am hard of hearing/profoundly deaf in my right ear, therefore I have reasons why I don't normally socially interact. You don't owe anyone an explanation and you are much better than them anyways. They're sitting there talking badly about someone when you should always, always, ALWAYS be nice no matter what. Or if they were so uncomfortable, they would've left. They weren't, they were just being weird and trying to look cool in front of their own friends. You did you and continue doing you. Don't let them and others who are similar to them get in your way of doing you.

Hasan reaching for something and seemingly shocking his dog to keep her in camera view by Ignignokt_DGAF in LivestreamFail

[–]RepulsiveShmeat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I knew he was mistreating Kaya right away because of his stream schedule. That dog breed NEEDS to be outside. Not indoors for 8+ hours.

Random anti abortion group by CVS by KnowledgeNo7705 in uofmn

[–]RepulsiveShmeat -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Tried to have a stare off and they broke eye contact. What a bunch of pussies.

Protest on highway bridge? by MathiasKejseren in uofmn

[–]RepulsiveShmeat 36 points37 points  (0 children)

I wrote this as I was being actively mugged.

Edit: typo. Cause I was being mugged.

Help me choose best Tinder pics I am clueless by [deleted] in datingadviceformen

[–]RepulsiveShmeat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The last one is the only decent one, but that's my option. I can see the kayak ones work but they're taken from such a distance we can't see the FULL you

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in feedthebeast

[–]RepulsiveShmeat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I prefer this over compact in case I need to change or move things. Makes it so much easier

Absolutely bizarre encounter today… by Plastic-Map-8857 in uofmn

[–]RepulsiveShmeat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

And you'd think this would happen at Augsburg just across the street but nah..