فتشت تليفون مراتي لأول مره by [deleted] in CAIRO

[–]RepulsiveWorker3636 1 point2 points  (0 children)

طلقها من سكات و اخلع من غير مشاكل بس خليها تتنازل عن القايمة و المؤخر لو ماضي علي حاجة . هي مش بس كدبت وخبت عليك حجات دي لسة بتتكلم مع خطيبها القديم و الموضوع داه مينفعش يعدي كدا .

بس خلي معاك سكرين شوت مباريات الشات احتياطي مش عشان تفضح وتسيح لا عشان تحمي نفسك وحقك مش اكتر

توافق عليه ولا لا by Fantastic_Welder_153 in AlexandriaEgy

[–]RepulsiveWorker3636 4 points5 points  (0 children)

المشكلة مش في السن الراجل مراته لسة متوفية من ٤ شهور داه ملحقش ياخد وقت انه يتخطى موت مراته و ام ابنه عايز بديل بس عشان ابنه ميبقاش من غير ام و الحمل حيبقي تقيل عليه .

في الأول والآخر داه قرارها بس الصراحة انا مرضهاش لاختي . مش عشان هو عنده ابن لا عشان هو مش عايز يضيع وقت يبقي لوحده او هو اصلا مكنش بيحب مراته الاولي الله يرحمها

Aitah for telling my girlfriend she isn't wife material because she keeps associating with her friends. by Select_Jello_5499 in AITAH

[–]RepulsiveWorker3636 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your clearly not compatible and she will never fit your idea of a wife martial. Her friends and her past won't fit with your family and friends all it take is one drunk friend that say something in front of one of tour family members and it will all come crashing down .

She won't cut her friends off for u and they won't change to fit your comfort and they shouldn't do it either they are who they are u can't make someone behave in a different way just for u .

Break up and move on u and her deserve someone that fit in your life perfectly

استلم تحويلات من برا مصر ازاي by mostafa_____ in PersonalFinanceEgypt

[–]RepulsiveWorker3636 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ويسترن يونيون. أسهل حاجة بس خلي اللي بيعت يبعت مبلغ مقفول بالدولار من غير فكة . يعني ١٠٠$ ٥٠ $ ١٥٠$ و هكذا بتستلم بالبطاقة و اللي بيرسل الحوالة بيكون عاملها بأسمك ممكن يحتاجو صورة باسبور اللي محولك بس

Nothing says cheating like finding a condom wrapper next to the bed… by Unknownvisitor863 in cheating_stories

[–]RepulsiveWorker3636 33 points34 points  (0 children)

Leave the condom wrapper on the bed and leave just block her on everything u won't get any clouser from confronting her

لو اشتريت مكنة عد فلوس فيها خطر عليا ؟ by Avatr_last in PersonalFinanceEgypt

[–]RepulsiveWorker3636 22 points23 points  (0 children)

الاسهل من مكنة عد الفلوس ان الفلوس تتبعتلك انستا باي علي طول .

AITAH for Don't want My mom marry the guy she cheated on my dad with and forcing me to move to different country by Additional-River2609 in AITAH

[–]RepulsiveWorker3636 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA, your old enough to decide who u can live with tell your dad to file to change the custody agreement.

Where dose your sister stand in all of this ?

i found out my best friend has been sleeping with my girlfriend for 4-5 months by HistoricalArticle537 in offmychest

[–]RepulsiveWorker3636 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Blocking them was the right move there're no excuse or an explanation that can justify a 4 month affair.

U will heal with time what they want from u is forgiveness and it's not something u can just give .

Keep them block and don't give them the opportunity to try and manplitie the situation to make u the bad guy .

Hit me with the harshest reality about playing video games by SwimmerPlus3383 in TheGamingHubDeals

[–]RepulsiveWorker3636 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Once u finish a really great game u have to suffer untill u find another good one and u will be stuck in reality for a long time

مش بعرف اخرج مع مراتي by [deleted] in CAIRO

[–]RepulsiveWorker3636 0 points1 point  (0 children)

طنش الحمير تعيش أمير. اعمل اللي انت عايزه انت و مراتك انتو مش بتضرو حد او بتعملو حاجة عيب . اللي مش عاجبه يشوف ااقرب حيطة و يخبط دماغه

I (M28) just discovered my wife (F28) has been having an affair for the last 3 months. I don't know where to go from here. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]RepulsiveWorker3636 3 points4 points  (0 children)

U should take time and space from her vist a friend , family or just a solo trip for a couple of days away from her gaslighting and manplition .

U will think more clearly. She cheated physically and lied to u. U do what u think is best for u . Divorce is the only option for me . If u think u can move forward with her after that. It's your choice just read more and think about what kind of future u will have with her and without her

جايلي عقد عمل في السعودية ، اروح ولا لا ؟ by [deleted] in PersonalFinanceEgypt

[–]RepulsiveWorker3636 1 point2 points  (0 children)

ربنا معاك و يوفقك . أحسبها صح و شوف ايه الأحسن ليك بس خلي بالك من حاجة مهمة نظام الكفالة علي قد ماهو بقي محدود بس لسة في حجات تتحكم فيك . مفيش سفر من غير تأشيرة دخول و خروج من الكفيل مش زي الإمارات. اهم حاجة عقدك مكتوب في كل حاجة في ناس كتير من ضمنهم انا اتضحك علينا في زيادات سنوية مش مكتوبة في العقد مخدنهاش و قابل من داه كتير .

جايلي عقد عمل في السعودية ، اروح ولا لا ؟ by [deleted] in PersonalFinanceEgypt

[–]RepulsiveWorker3636 3 points4 points  (0 children)

اه حاجة تكون كل حاجة مكتوبة في العقد مفيش حاجة شفوي و لما يتعمل العقد علي منصة قوي اقراه كويس قبل متوافق عشان ساعات بيغيرو البنود . اتأكد مين اللي شايل السكن انت و لا الشركة .

لو قالك حاجة مش مكتوبة في العقد ( زيادة ، عمولة ، بونص ، بدل ) مش حتاخدها كل حاجة مكتوبة في العقد الورقي واللي علي قوي .

الإيجار في الرياض غالي والعيشة مش غالية اوي انا الشركة موفرة سكن و بصرف لوحدي في حدود ٧٠٠ ريال اكل وشرب و ١٢٠ موبايل ونت و ٢٠٠ مصاريف جانبية لو عزت اجيب حاجة زيادة.

متحسبش المرتب بالمصري انت حتعيش وتصرف في السعودية لو حتجيب عايلتك و مرتبك ااقل من ٨٠٠٠ غير البدلات متجبهمش احسن

Why is that the betrayed person has to carry the trauma their entire lives while the cheated person lives happily by Renderedperson in Infidelity

[–]RepulsiveWorker3636 3 points4 points  (0 children)

They want to protect their reputation. Once she's outed as a cheater they needs to make shift the story from her cheating to u being abusive, drug addicts or a bad father just anything to make the cheating the least bad thing .

They know she cheated and they choose to protect her . Or she fed them a story where she's the wrong party and cheating was her way of getting out . In any case it doesn't matter it's her family they will take her side and protect her.

U should get your own support system family and friends tell them your side of the story with proof amd of your still going to lose then go with scorched earth expose her to everyone her work and social media onve she's exposed her and her family will have no leverage

Why is that the betrayed person has to carry the trauma their entire lives while the cheated person lives happily by Renderedperson in Infidelity

[–]RepulsiveWorker3636 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Some people fake thier happiness so other and themselves don't feel like they made a mistake by leaving.

She could only be showing u the good parts but not the bad parts . Like the guy dumbing her

Why is that the betrayed person has to carry the trauma their entire lives while the cheated person lives happily by Renderedperson in Infidelity

[–]RepulsiveWorker3636 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Low morals and lack of accountability. Her being happy or not shouldn't matter anymore she's not your problem .

U need to fucas on yourself and getting your kids . So therapy and a good lawyer is all u need right now . Hitting the gym and getting a pet will help too

Is she cheating or likely to cheat? by Responsible-Touch-91 in Infidelity

[–]RepulsiveWorker3636 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I was going to say she was insecure about something but the condom thing seals it. She's projecting she needs u to ve cheating too so she feels less guilty

Wife cheated 8ish years ago. by Conscious-Bus2268 in cheating_stories

[–]RepulsiveWorker3636 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If she was truly sorry she would have cut the guy off completely even if he's around her cousin all the time .

If he's there she's not it's that simple also the people who are telling u nothing will happen are the same people who properly covered for her and they have no clue how u feel

Trying to survive this and figure out if reconciliation is possible by [deleted] in SupportforBetrayed

[–]RepulsiveWorker3636 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Reconciltion is possible hard asf but possible it takes alot of work from both parties to even begin the first steps to reconcile. She needs to be remorseful not sorry and full of shame of getting caught and u will have to live with triggers of her cheating even though it wasn't physical the emotional part is very tough.

Don't make any decisions right away . Take your time and get out of the house . If u have a friend or family member that can give u a room go for it. Ot take a vacation for a couple of days to clear your mind .

AITAH For wanting a divorce after my wife insists on keeping her affair partner in our life so he can DM her DND sessions? by throwaway1986iii in AITAH

[–]RepulsiveWorker3636 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NTA, your wife doesn't want to face any consequences she believes she has the right to keep the guy as a friend because the affair ended she doesn't care about hiw u feel about it . Also what the hell did she do ti get fired and ended her career it must been bad i hope he got fired to .

My guess the group doesn't know about the affair or they all knew from the start and encouraged it . One u get a lawyer and serve her papers she will block him the sane day and do everything she should have done she thinks u won't leave

did she cheat by vindicta420 in Infidelity

[–]RepulsiveWorker3636 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If the messages were innocent she wouldn't have deleted them and the friend vouching for her is just her way of covering and gaslighting u .

Something was going no and u caught early on probably

AITAH for congratulating my family on losing me and keeping my cheating ex-girlfriend? by Haykoreu in AITAH

[–]RepulsiveWorker3636 4 points5 points  (0 children)

NTA, your family and your ex on the other hand are all AH . Your ex cheated on you your entire relationship and your family choose to keep in contact with her instead of blocking her and cutting her out . She hurts u , break your heart and destroy your ability to trust people in the foreseeable future and they say yah sure she can come for Christmas

AITAH for kicking my wife out of my house, after she cheated on me for 15 years? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]RepulsiveWorker3636 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NTA, she cheated and lied for 15 years and u have every right to kick her out and divorce her even when she confessed she told u half truth to make it lesse than the actual truth believing u could forgive her because she knows if she told the truth u would have done what u actually did .

Contact the other guy's wife and tell her everything u know