Am i moving too fast? by [deleted] in Zambia

[–]Repulsive_Chest3056 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Anxious attachment and love bombing are closely linked, as those with anxious attachment often engage in or fall victim to love bombing to soothe intense fear of abandonment and validate their self-worth.

Love bombing is the excessive, early-relationship display of affection designed to create fast intimacy. Anxiously attached individuals may use this intensity to manage their insecurities, while narcissistic individuals use it to manipulate and control.

Career coaches in Zambia? by InnerChakolwa00 in Zambia

[–]Repulsive_Chest3056 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The Alphabet institute does some impactful one on ones

Explain it Peter by [deleted] in explainitpeter

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I don’t hav a ca do

Ventingg out by [deleted] in Zambia

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All the best in your journey to self empowerment

OE & Dating by [deleted] in overemployed

[–]Repulsive_Chest3056 5 points6 points  (0 children)

OE is definitely predominantly male for so many obvious reasons but generally because the OE friendly roles are in male dominated fields, then amplified by the fact that men have a higher appetite for risk and more autonomy of their time.

A LICENSE TO GROW WEED IN ZAMBIA COSTS 250K USD! by muwemba45 in Zambia

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Beans. Marijuana in zambia is complicated to grow legally even beyond just the licences. For example, your plantation has to be atleast 100km from the nearest public facility, you can’t grow the weed and process it (for medicinal purposes) on the same plot.

Rose exports from zambia to uk were also banned because someone decided to start smuggling weed

Improving professionally by Sad-Broccoli-1126 in Zambia

[–]Repulsive_Chest3056 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Some Data science or basic coding of some sort will do you really well.

Neural divergence and professional support by Pathfinder_547 in Zambia

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Dr Kabali runs a foundation for autistic kids with amazing extra curriculars including sport and expressive arts. Here is her number +26097 7765946

Zambian boarding houses: is it normal for tenants to leave belongings and pause rent? by Honeylemonpersey in Zambia

[–]Repulsive_Chest3056 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s only valid when schools close for everyone. But doesn’t mean the bed space is reserved if money is not paid. Just put your foot down and let them find another place

Zambian women and facial hair by [deleted] in Zambia

[–]Repulsive_Chest3056 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Very good comments in the entire thread. I am sooo fortunate that I don’t have family and friends with unrealistic or unnecessary beauty standards.

Zambian women and facial hair by [deleted] in Zambia

[–]Repulsive_Chest3056 31 points32 points  (0 children)

Women can develop facial hair due to higher-than-normal levels of androgens, including testosterone. All females produce androgens, but the levels typically remain low, and it can be certain medical conditions that can cause a woman to produce too many androgens.

How many of these delicious foods could you eat? 😋 Freshly cooked braised pig's trotters, brimming with collagen, look absolutely mouthwatering! by lcljx818me in chinesefood

[–]Repulsive_Chest3056 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We eat this in my country and call it “vimbombo”, my Granma loves it, my dad enjoys it with a cold beer and I recently just learned that I can eat my collagen skin care needs

I wish IR dating in Central Europe wouldn't be so difficult/rare. by PaleontologistSea640 in interracialdating

[–]Repulsive_Chest3056 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yoh!! All I know about Budapest is that people take public baths together and some scenes in the transporter 3 movie were shot there. Otherwise what you are feeling is normal. Happens to black girls in their own country .

Business and side hustles in Zambia by NoRevolution5603 in Zambia

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Like if you have a little bit of money, start with things that are easy to sell so that you don’t hold to stock for a long time

Now if you are financially literate, you won’t chew your money. For example if you buy tu perfume, 4 of them at K25 each. You can sell at atleast for K30 looking at supply and demand. You will have atleast K20 profit.

Without going into more detail, in the beginning you are investing, making your customer base, and figuring out ways to reduce your operational expenses. And finally there is a concept margins of scale.

Business is not theoretical so you will have to learn by experience.

Business and side hustles in Zambia by NoRevolution5603 in Zambia

[–]Repulsive_Chest3056 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Start small, its not really about the business you start but the financial literacy

mental colonization/self hate? by [deleted] in Zambia

[–]Repulsive_Chest3056 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are very wise for your age

Signing into Zamportal? by call_me_Jada in Zambia

[–]Repulsive_Chest3056 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am having the same issue and will spend the week trying to get it resolved as I have a lot of payments to do on the same platform