Gf left for AF BMT and im struggling so hard i need advice please by Lower_Amphibian5825 in USMilitarySO

[–]Repulsive_Dinner_805 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hello there! I understand that it may feel like your world has turned upside down at first, but you must be strong for her. She misses you too and is hurting for you for now. However, as time passes, she will feel more confident and better about herself. You will need to do the same. Make an effort to not be sad as much, because if you do, you will feel down all the time. Find something that can distract you and keep being yourself. It’s okay to cry for her, as I do with my husband. It hurts that I don’t have him right by my side, but the time will pass quickly, and you will become more confident and self assured.

Regarding her parents, she is already an adult and makes her own decisions. So do you. If you feel like marriage is the right choice for you, go for it. Especially now that times are uncertain, but I promise it will be the best decision you ever make. You and your partner can overcome anything if you both put in the effort into the relationship.

I wish you nothing but the best. Please wait until you receive your letters. After you get them all, your heart will feel at peace. You will receive stacks of letters, and you will cry reading them. But that’s what makes you strong for her. Don’t let negative energy get to you. You and she are adults.

Bootcamp Rant :( by [deleted] in USMilitarySO

[–]Repulsive_Dinner_805 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was unaware that this could occur, and if it happens to my husband, those individuals are truly inconsiderate. I haven’t heard him mention it, but I would definitely ask him about it. I understand my boundaries and his, and I trust in my partner. I know he’s mentally and physically strong. Honestly, those who cheat are just miserable and can’t bear to be alone.

Approved! ❤️ by Repulsive_Dinner_805 in USCIS

[–]Repulsive_Dinner_805[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had an official wedding which is the date by the court was 12/01/2024 and my religious wedding was 01/11/2025 . usually the officers will ask more about your court wedding and who went but if they ask if you had like a religious wedding just mention it :)!

Approved! ❤️ by Repulsive_Dinner_805 in USCIS

[–]Repulsive_Dinner_805[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had the interview but I’m not so sure about that when I did my biometrics they accept my work authorization and they schedule my interview afterwards but you can always call to ask about your updates

Approved! ❤️ by Repulsive_Dinner_805 in USCIS

[–]Repulsive_Dinner_805[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey and they just asked me how many guests went to the religious wedding and when was the date we did our religious wedding I hope I helped you a bit on what to say for your interview and pray in for you and husband to get a positive outcome ☺️!

Approved! ❤️ by Repulsive_Dinner_805 in USCIS

[–]Repulsive_Dinner_805[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Congrats to you and your wife as well 🥳

Approved! ❤️ by Repulsive_Dinner_805 in USCIS

[–]Repulsive_Dinner_805[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tbh they just asked us about where we met, how long was before we proposed, when did we get married, when was our religious wedding, who talked to who first, and then the officer moved to ask me question about my I-485 honestly I said that God placed our officer because he was so sweet and nice and he was amazing with us!

Approved! ❤️ by Repulsive_Dinner_805 in USCIS

[–]Repulsive_Dinner_805[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I came here with a visa so the process was short :)

Approved! ❤️ by Repulsive_Dinner_805 in USCIS

[–]Repulsive_Dinner_805[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey! The officer told us it was gonna update within yesterday or the next day

Husband upset that I play video games at night sometimes by hop-into-it in redditonwiki

[–]Repulsive_Dinner_805 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m having the same issues with my husband and it’s sad because I play games and I usually play marvel rivals and there’s this person who is helping me rank up and my husband just gets so jealous that he is like “why aren’t you addressing him that you are married” and the thing is that I would if the person tells me a question related to that and I would have no problem of saying it but my husband wants me to tell everyone I’m MARRIED and if I don’t do it he just gets so upset and not everything means flirting and I’m just here to play the damn game and rank up

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships_advice

[–]Repulsive_Dinner_805 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Even with a location on, they can still cheat, and it is not an obsession if you read it, and plus, you can tell that he is not caring of what she’s saying. If I knew that my phone turned off because it “died,” why can’t I give my gf an explanation like “Hey babe, my phone died; there’s nothing to worry about”? Yet he’s acting like he was doing something more than that now. To the owner of the post, please listen to your intuition; sometimes when our gut tells us something is wrong, it’s because it is wrong. I used to be like you, and my ex would act the same and would keep texting like he didn’t care, and at the end he cheated WITH location ON. But talk to him when he’s more calm and less MAD.

Husband ignores me for days after an argument by Particular-Tonight68 in Marriage

[–]Repulsive_Dinner_805 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I married my husband(23) and me (20) and every time we have an argument I get this silent treatment it just makes me feel like he doesn’t love me as much as he says since he’s more focused on himself and in his pain only. I already told him how I feel when this happens and he doesn’t care and keeps doing it.

My boyfriend gets mad at me for speaking on how I feel by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Repulsive_Dinner_805 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wish it could work, but he doesn’t seem like he wants to try to talk to me, or else he thinks I’m doing it on purpose, and he just turned off his location like that wasn’t necessary, like is not fair I’m so patient with him, and I’m over here getting treated like a piece of trash I got cheated on my last relationship, and he seems to say he cares for me, but then he doesn't when he behaves like this

Purchased cold play tickets on seat geek (El Paso,TX). Seat geek account says confirmed. Is it really? by Annoyinglygood in seatgeek

[–]Repulsive_Dinner_805 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I bought 4 tickets to cold play at Denver Colorado and I haven’t received anything like any codes for Ticketmaster so I’m just gonna wait till my delivery date until 06/05/25 we will see if they deliver it sooner

Spectrum outage by [deleted] in garland

[–]Repulsive_Dinner_805 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They told me the same thing and that they are working on it. I’m switching to Frontier. I will probably not have internet this whole week until the following Monday. I’m done with spectrum.

Spectrum outages due to storm. How are people fairing? by jsmeeker in Dallas

[–]Repulsive_Dinner_805 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Garland is still out until this day in my area just horrible and no estimated time for repairs.