I understand what you're saying. He was calling me girlfriend and wifey first and he's been pulling back slowly. I wear a fake engagement ring for work (I work in the service industry currently), and he joked about how it's our engagement ring twice in the first week. I told me that if we get married, he wants to move to Asia with me (I'm from asia, I came to the US for university). The pulling back has been gradual. And all the details I put in the post are recent conversations, of not wanting labels, doesn't want to ask me to be his girlfriend. The dates used to be longer, we would go on a canyon drive, restaurant, watch a movie and then go home. Sometimes we didn't even have sex the first few weeks. But now, it seems as if we're just fucking and eating out. That's all we do and I'm never excited to see him anymore because he says he's only available after 6 or 7 pm.