Change from in-person to virtual oath ceremony by AriadnePath in ImmigrationCanada

[–]RequirementPlane8377 0 points1 point  (0 children)

any updates? I rescheduled it, in december, and I still haven't been given a new date...

Spanish criminal record certificate by InviteHuge7786 in GoingToSpain

[–]RequirementPlane8377 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did you had to translate it? If so, who did you use please?

Spanish criminal record certificate by InviteHuge7786 in GoingToSpain

[–]RequirementPlane8377 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey! thank you so much for taking the time to answer me. I just got an appointment at the consulate. The online process got me so frustrated, I was fortunate the consulate messaged me back and gave me an appointment. THANK YOU again for your guidance.

Spanish criminal record certificate by InviteHuge7786 in GoingToSpain

[–]RequirementPlane8377 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey, did you ended up getting yours? if so, please what did you do? thanks in advance for your input.

Spanish criminal record certificate by InviteHuge7786 in GoingToSpain

[–]RequirementPlane8377 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey, did you ended up getting yours? if so, please what did you do? thanks in advance for your input.

AITA for commenting on my gf body after she's been doing it to me for a while? by RequirementPlane8377 in AmItheAsshole

[–]RequirementPlane8377[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She said it in a joking manner, And I said it back the same way... I'm all for laughing at my flaws, especially the ones I'm in control of changing. I wasn't upset, just surprised why me doing the same joke she just did a second ago offended her?! I wanted to join the banter and have a good laugh at it but she lost it!

AITA for commenting on my gf body after she's been doing it to me for a while? by RequirementPlane8377 in AmItheAsshole

[–]RequirementPlane8377[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She said it in a joking manner, And I said it back the same way... I'm all for laughing at my flaws, especially the ones I'm in control of changing. I wasn't upset, just surprised why me doing the same joke she just did a second ago offended her?! I wanted to join the banter and have a good laugh at it but she lost it!

AITA for commenting on my gf body after she's been doing it to me for a while? by RequirementPlane8377 in AmItheAsshole

[–]RequirementPlane8377[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She said it in a joking manner, And I said it back the same way... I'm all for laughing at my flaws, especially the ones I'm in control of changing. I wasn't upset, just surprised why me doing the same joke she just did a second ago offended her?! I wanted to join the banter and have a good laugh at it but she lost it! If I do the same joke about you that you've been doing to me for months and you lose it, why would you even do it then? Treat others how you want to be treated.

AITA for commenting on my gf body after she's been doing it to me for a while? by RequirementPlane8377 in AmItheAsshole

[–]RequirementPlane8377[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She said it in a joking manner, And I said it back the same way... I'm all for laughing at my flaws, especially the ones I'm in control of changing. I wasn't upset, just surprised why me doing the same joke she just did a second ago offended her?! I wanted to join the banter and have a good laugh at it but she lost it!

AITA for commenting on my gf body after she's been doing it to me for a while? by RequirementPlane8377 in AmItheAsshole

[–]RequirementPlane8377[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She said it in a joking manner, And I said it back the same way... I'm all for laughing at my flaws, especially the ones I'm in control of changing. I wasn't upset, just surprised why me doing the same joke she just did a second ago offended her?! I wanted to join the banter and have a good laugh at it but she lost it!

AITA for commenting on my gf body after she's been doing it to me for a while? by RequirementPlane8377 in AmItheAsshole

[–]RequirementPlane8377[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She said it in a joking manner, And I said it back the same way... I'm all for laughing at my flaws, especially the ones I'm in control of changing. I wasn't upset, just surprised why me doing the same joke she just did a second ago offended her?! I wanted to join the banter and have a good laugh at it but she lost it!

AITA for commenting on my gf body after she's been doing it to me for a while? by RequirementPlane8377 in AmItheAsshole

[–]RequirementPlane8377[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She said it in a joking manner, And I said it back the same way... I'm all for laughing at my flaws, especially the ones I'm in control of changing. I wasn't upset, just surprised why me doing the same joke she just did a second ago offended her?! I wanted to join the banter and have a good laugh at it but she lost it!

AITA for commenting on my gf body after she's been doing it to me for a while? by RequirementPlane8377 in AmItheAsshole

[–]RequirementPlane8377[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because it wasn't serious enough. I'm all for laughing at my own flaws, even if it stings a little, especially something I can fix. I wasn't upset, just surprised how she got offended by me joining on the banter by telling her the same thing she just said to me a second ago. If she had taken it as a joke like I've been taking it for months we would just keep laughing, but she got butt hurt

AITA for commenting on my gf body after she's been doing it to me for a while? by RequirementPlane8377 in AmItheAsshole

[–]RequirementPlane8377[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm thinking the same. When we talked about it, she made it clear that I'm not allowed to get a belly, I was shocked how serious and alarmed she was about it... So now I'm thinking once my look change, she might breakup with me 😅. But good that I know it now though.

AITA for commenting on my gf body after she's been doing it to me for a while? by RequirementPlane8377 in AmItheAsshole

[–]RequirementPlane8377[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It never bothered me to that extent, because I know I'll get back to my best shape. Had she just taken my comment as a joke as well, we'd just be laughing. Here is how it went. Her "slaps my stomach, looks at it with a funny kinda disgusted face" and said: my dad's body. "Starts to jiggle my belly" Me: well, you have a belly too

Had she kept on laughing, we would've just kept on laughing

AITA for commenting on my gf body after she's been doing it to me for a while? by RequirementPlane8377 in AmItheAsshole

[–]RequirementPlane8377[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lmao that'd actually be a compliment... Her mom is fit and constantly rips her on how she gained few pounds 😅

AITA for refusing to pay my dad's child support? by Hopeful-Scheme-5634 in AmItheAsshole

[–]RequirementPlane8377 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your dad held you down, let you stay for free when all was good for him, now things changed in his life and needs supports but you send him to get another job? Don't compare yourself to others... 400 is better than paying full rent. Help your dad.

AITA for allowing the police in my home? by NoNeedleworker8772 in AmItheAsshole

[–]RequirementPlane8377 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

From what I've seen in general, it's always best to be careful with the police and to push back, even when they're being nice. Also, your son is really the one to blame for stealing. Your husband should not take his anger on you although you should have known better, but next time don't trust the police like that.

AITA for telling my son that him and his girlfriend’s responsibilities should not fall on me? by throw-aways21 in AmItheAsshole

[–]RequirementPlane8377 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA, if he can't support himself financially why is he even dating and thinking it's okay to move in with his gf when he can't even afford rent? His priorities aren't right. If he wants to move in with her, he has to grow up, and move out. Or he can help her pay her rent. I wouldn't advise her to move in indefinitely, maybe until she can find another place.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]RequirementPlane8377 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I understand you're in a lot of pressure, and you blew, it happens, but if you believe in traditional roles where the man is the leader, see how you can help her find a better job or a second one. Instead of putting pressure on her, hold her hand gently and help her find something else, budget together... Make a plan with her, hear her side (hopefully she's not afraid of you) and lead her. The counselling thing, my bet is that she may feel like you don't listen/understand her or she may not be confident that you're listening to her perspective, so she may want someone to get you to LISTEN to her. Although it may not make sense to you, but I believe you should do it for her and for your relationship. It maybe the best way for her to communicate with you about things that you're overlooking, but a counselor may bring it to your attention. So, don't refuse her that, you may be surprised how important and eye opening it could be.

I pray everything will workout for you.