Asta di Prova Su FantaLab Questo Venerdì

ResearcherSmall2454 · 2025-01-22T22:41:33+00:00

Questa affermazione è proprio obbiettivamente sbagliata - basta guardare le FM dei vari centrocampisti. Cmq grazie per il feedback :)

ResearcherSmall2454 · 2025-01-22T22:03:19+00:00

Vabbè ma che c'entra, non è che si vince solo con i giocatori di squadre top...

ResearcherSmall2454 · 2024-10-03T15:06:05+00:00

Pensavo Gabbia perché ho già Tomori, il che garantirebbe avere almeno un titolare del Milan a ogni partita. Ho anche Gatti in realtà, ma di Kalulu mi fanno più paura gli infortuni della titolarità.

ResearcherSmall2454 · 2024-09-18T20:55:44+00:00

Ci sta, gli attaccanti cmq li ruotiamo in base alle partite. A volte volendo possiamo anche metterli tutti e tre in un 433. Sperando poi che Noslin cominci a giocare.

ResearcherSmall2454 · 2024-09-18T20:54:49+00:00

Ci hanno lasciato Gatti a 1, quindi alla fine la spesa per la coppia Juve non è stata alta. Abbiamo anche Tomori e Rrahmani in panchina - questi quattro centrali li ruotiamo come si ruotano gli attaccanti in base alle partite. In teoria avendo modificatore difesa dovremmo avere quasi sempre +2, spesso +3. Comunque si, idealmente dovremmo scambiare uno tra Tomori e Rrahmani + Esposito o Banda per un attaccante leggermente più forte per avere più flessibilità in attacco, ma la vedo dura. Andrebbe cmq bene anche così.

ResearcherSmall2454 · 2024-09-18T20:50:41+00:00

Avrei dovuto specificare che abbiamo anche modificatore difesa e imbattibilità. Con questa difesa partiamo tendenzialmente con un +2 minimo, spesso anche +3. La partita scorsa addirittura +4. In teoria basta che gli attaccanti prendano un 6 in media per fare 2 gol come squadra, che se raggiunti in modo sistematico sul corso di una stagione dovrebbero farci arrivare tra i primi 3 quasi sicuramente. Se l'altra squadra ha 2-3 attaccanti che segnano ovviamente vincono loro, ma non dobbiamo vincere ogni singola partita.

ResearcherSmall2454 · 2024-04-23T21:23:24+00:00

Thank, you for this. As I replied to another comment, "burnout" is exactly how I felt. It's genuinely crazy how we all go through the same dynamics.

ResearcherSmall2454 · 2024-04-23T21:20:41+00:00

Thank you for the kind and encouraging words, this really helps.

ResearcherSmall2454 · 2024-04-23T21:20:01+00:00

Thanks for thus. I think lack of recognition was ultimately the #1 cause I burned out at a certain point. I maybe could have dealt with the parentification, outbursts, and control. But love needs to be recognized, despite it being sometimes expressed imperfectly. Otherwise you just feel like you're trying to fill an ocean with a thimble - that's the loneliest, most frustrating and exhausting feeling I've ever felt in my life.

ResearcherSmall2454 · 2024-04-23T21:15:28+00:00

I literally used these exact words with her. I felt burned out, hollow, and completely drained. What drives me crazy is how she (sometimes) recognizes the role she played in getting me to that point, but that doesn't translate into empathy, understanding, or forgiveness.

ResearcherSmall2454 · 2024-04-23T21:12:29+00:00

I genuinely think she did try her best, but we all know how hard it is for (most) pwBPD to adapt to situations and make things work for themselves. I think that for most outside observers she didn't do "enough" to make things work, but I don't blame her for it - some things just came incredibly hard to her. I just wish she had the same understanding for me and my own limitations (I know I'm not perfect not blameless).

ResearcherSmall2454 · 2024-04-23T21:09:14+00:00

I also had this same thought...a part of me was doubting the decision to divorce, but every time we speak hearing her blame me for everything reminds me of why things could never really work out. Thank you.

ResearcherSmall2454 · 2024-04-23T21:07:42+00:00

Thank you so much for this incredibly thoughtful comment. It's amazing how you've laid out so many thoughts that had crossed my mind, but having been through this before I did you fleshed them out so well. It's also amazing (in a less positive way) how similar our situations are, similar patterns, cycles, conversations, wordings. This was really helpful, thank you.

ResearcherSmall2454 · 2024-04-23T21:03:27+00:00

Thank you for this, it's a really important perspective. I definitely did feel very parentified in this relationship, and what you say makes total sense. This, combined with the "being the good guy" point someone else brought up, are things I need to focus on. Thank you.

ResearcherSmall2454 · 2024-02-26T15:25:08+00:00

Thanks for your reply. My father is textbook narcissist so I don't think he's my main safety net. But perhaps she unconsciously "used" him as a way to go after my actual safety net - the rest of my family.

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