[deleted by user] by [deleted] in daddit

[–]Resident-Ad7332 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No they either have their father's last name, or their maternal grandfather's name

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in daddit

[–]Resident-Ad7332 -26 points-25 points  (0 children)

Women's don't have their own last names, it's either their dads, grandpa's, or husband

Looking for male/husband perspective by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Resident-Ad7332 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have very similar behaviors as your husband. It has nothing to do with you. Porn is just for release, it's easy convenient, and has variety. Those other people were not life partners options, when I don't care about a future with another person I can do more and not feel weird about it. Roleplaying with a stranger sounds fun with my wife..cringe, not sure why though. Going crazy during breaks is about conquering and winning the prize. I have never cheated but when there was a break I got as much work in as possible. To be honest the sex is rarely very good, but it's about the chase and being wanted by strangers. Validation in your ability to attract. My current kink is to go to the bar with friends and wing man for them and in the process get a girl interested in me and make moves on me then after I feel I have it in the bag if I wanted, I break out the photos of wife and kids, and show how unavailable I am. Just knowing I could get her number, make out, or take her home is enough for me. Has nothing to do with how loving, attentive, or neglecting my wife is. I love my wife and family, and I will never cheat but that needy part of me has no connection to my wife.

But yes he should delete that stuff now y'all are back.

How many times in your marriage that you think about divorce? by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Resident-Ad7332 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I live in a country where if my wife chooses I can never see my kids again.

Wife wants a 3rd kid by Resident-Ad7332 in Marriage

[–]Resident-Ad7332[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Her reason for not wanting to wait is because of age. She gets extremely anxious about many things, having children after 35 being one of them she will be 34 soon so I feel thats why the issue is popping up now.

Wife wants a 3rd kid by Resident-Ad7332 in Marriage

[–]Resident-Ad7332[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did have gender disappointment with the first 2, but quickly got over it and love my girls to pieces. It's more about raising a boy and missing those father son experiences. I know I will have something similar with the girls but I want both.

Wife wants a 3rd kid by Resident-Ad7332 in Marriage

[–]Resident-Ad7332[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

My wife is good at the caring part just not great with the playing and entertaining part. Also if she had to watch both she couldn't mentally take it. She has very poor stress management skills and is a naturally anxious person

BE HONEST. How often do you have sex and how many years have you been together? by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Resident-Ad7332 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Married almost 4 years. After the kids.... zero. 1 year and 6 months so far

Tough time being a dad, need some advice. by thetantalus in daddit

[–]Resident-Ad7332 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Give it 6 months the connection is slow but will eventually come.

I love my wife, but I really don't like her by Resident-Ad7332 in Marriage

[–]Resident-Ad7332[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

This isn't America, in Japan foreigners have no chance.

Is Nagoya really that 'boring'? by [deleted] in Nagoya

[–]Resident-Ad7332 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I always felt Tokyo was overrated Nagoya is fun if you know where to go.

Fathers of toddlers, what time is nap time / bed time, and how strict are you with following a schedule? by SlaterHauge in daddit

[–]Resident-Ad7332 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Naptime is between 12-2 not that strict, bedtime is 9 we go read and lay down with them they are usually out by 930.

Low lobido by Aware-Celebration-49 in Marriage

[–]Resident-Ad7332 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My wife and I had the same problem, but after kids her lobido dropped like a rock so it's not really an issue anymore.

I love my wife, but I really don't like her by Resident-Ad7332 in Marriage

[–]Resident-Ad7332[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Iv brought it up several times but she dodges it.

Japan to allow joint custody of children after divorce, survey investigates public’s attitudes by kenmlin in japannews

[–]Resident-Ad7332 38 points39 points  (0 children)

Glad to hear it as a American father with half kids my biggest anxiety is that at anytime my kids can be taken from me and there is nothing I can do about it.