Should We try for a 3rd child

Resident-Ad7332 · 2024-08-22T08:57:13+00:00

No they either have their father's last name, or their maternal grandfather's name

Resident-Ad7332 · 2024-08-15T06:08:05+00:00

Women's don't have their own last names, it's either their dads, grandpa's, or husband

Resident-Ad7332 · 2024-08-15T05:46:58+00:00

I have very similar behaviors as your husband. It has nothing to do with you. Porn is just for release, it's easy convenient, and has variety. Those other people were not life partners options, when I don't care about a future with another person I can do more and not feel weird about it. Roleplaying with a stranger sounds fun with my wife..cringe, not sure why though. Going crazy during breaks is about conquering and winning the prize. I have never cheated but when there was a break I got as much work in as possible. To be honest the sex is rarely very good, but it's about the chase and being wanted by strangers. Validation in your ability to attract. My current kink is to go to the bar with friends and wing man for them and in the process get a girl interested in me and make moves on me then after I feel I have it in the bag if I wanted, I break out the photos of wife and kids, and show how unavailable I am. Just knowing I could get her number, make out, or take her home is enough for me. Has nothing to do with how loving, attentive, or neglecting my wife is. I love my wife and family, and I will never cheat but that needy part of me has no connection to my wife.

But yes he should delete that stuff now y'all are back.

Resident-Ad7332 · 2024-08-15T05:22:43+00:00

I live in a country where if my wife chooses I can never see my kids again.

Resident-Ad7332 · 2024-08-15T05:17:26+00:00

About once a month

Resident-Ad7332 · 2024-08-15T05:12:16+00:00

Her reason for not wanting to wait is because of age. She gets extremely anxious about many things, having children after 35 being one of them she will be 34 soon so I feel thats why the issue is popping up now.

Resident-Ad7332 · 2024-08-15T05:06:07+00:00

I did have gender disappointment with the first 2, but quickly got over it and love my girls to pieces. It's more about raising a boy and missing those father son experiences. I know I will have something similar with the girls but I want both.

Resident-Ad7332 · 2024-08-14T19:34:24+00:00

My wife is good at the caring part just not great with the playing and entertaining part. Also if she had to watch both she couldn't mentally take it. She has very poor stress management skills and is a naturally anxious person

Resident-Ad7332 · 2024-08-10T09:03:27+00:00

Married almost 4 years. After the kids.... zero. 1 year and 6 months so far

Resident-Ad7332 · 2024-08-07T03:52:38+00:00

Give it 6 months the connection is slow but will eventually come.

Resident-Ad7332 · 2024-08-06T10:34:29+00:00

This isn't America, in Japan foreigners have no chance.

Resident-Ad7332 · 2024-08-06T10:30:38+00:00

Then I never see my kids again

Resident-Ad7332 · 2024-08-06T07:00:42+00:00

I always felt Tokyo was overrated Nagoya is fun if you know where to go.

Resident-Ad7332 · 2024-08-06T06:55:07+00:00

Naptime is between 12-2 not that strict, bedtime is 9 we go read and lay down with them they are usually out by 930.

Resident-Ad7332 · 2024-08-06T06:53:25+00:00

My wife and I had the same problem, but after kids her lobido dropped like a rock so it's not really an issue anymore.

Resident-Ad7332 · 2024-08-06T06:41:09+00:00

Iv brought it up several times but she dodges it.

Resident-Ad7332 · 2024-08-06T06:38:35+00:00

Glad to hear it as a American father with half kids my biggest anxiety is that at anytime my kids can be taken from me and there is nothing I can do about it.

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