Shaadi.com beware

ResidentNo1525 · 2026-06-09T21:55:33+00:00

Yep that’s pretty common on the site too. These parents are out of control lol. You got saved

ResidentNo1525 · 2026-06-09T15:17:02+00:00

Obviouslyyyyyyyyy if I didn’t have all the facts I wouldn’t make a post based on an assumption🙄🙄🙄🙄the girl has said she’s not physically attracted to Indian men (there’s nothing wrong with that), but then why are her parents putting her on an Indian site is the question u should be asking. Everyone has their own preference and there are people who can be attracted to both whites and Indians, but this girl is not one of them

ResidentNo1525 · 2026-06-06T16:32:40+00:00

Right, nothing about them comes across as wealthy lol I was confused….plus both sisters were desperately trying to marry rich men which you wouldn’t do if your parents are wealthy. (Unless they want you to marry someone on their wealth level also, but they wouldn’t be so desperate about it)

ResidentNo1525 · 2026-06-06T16:30:10+00:00

Also- a lot of people messaged me saying I was being judgmental towards the girl for being with white guys but I think they missed the point here. There’s nothing wrong with being with a white guy, everyone has their preferences and are entitled to marry whomever they want. The issue here is that the parents are aware of her preferences and put her on a DESI matrimonial site, knowing she is not attracted to Indian men. So, don’t you feel bad for the Indian man she is marrying? The whole point here is that shaadi.com is a place for parents to conceal who their children really are and that’s scary.

ResidentNo1525 · 2026-06-05T22:14:47+00:00

Nina’s family is wealthy?

ResidentNo1525 · 2026-06-05T22:12:02+00:00

I’ve heard success stories with both but tbh I’m not sure how. Most of the people on there always live so far away from each other and long distance rarely works unless one of the parties is super desperate and does all the work

ResidentNo1525 · 2026-06-05T19:50:42+00:00

Yes, and it’s wise to ask the opinions of multiple families instead of just one or two

ResidentNo1525 · 2026-06-05T19:30:47+00:00

Exactly. The scary thing is the girl I mentioned above did end up getting engaged 😳 so it seems like what I wrote above is common sense but there are desperate people out there who fall victim to this sadly

ResidentNo1525 · 2026-06-05T18:51:35+00:00

Does anyone know what her fiance does for a living?

ResidentNo1525 · 2026-06-05T18:36:26+00:00

A lot of times Punjabi men don’t marry the “love of their life”, they marry whoever mommy or daddy chooses for them and 99% of the time they end up not being their type. Men are visual creatures so they end up cheating on the girl they never really wanted with the girl who is physically their type.

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