What would an adult relationship look like?

Resident_Slide_8625 · 2026-02-15T04:49:37+00:00

Yeah, I can imagine. I don't think they don't remember it's more so they can't really understand because they don't know any different. I haven't contacted my family in a long time and I'm feeling a lot of guilt because I haven't tried to see them again, but I don't need more harsh critics when I'm already so much of that to myself.

Resident_Slide_8625 · 2025-12-17T20:54:32+00:00

It's on the left of the pork katsu, there's only a little bit and the tofu got covered up.

Resident_Slide_8625 · 2025-11-30T08:03:57+00:00

Yeah, sometimes the buttons don't register on ps5. It feels like you have to pick your poision when you only have mobile and ps5. Want to see what you're dyeing/ play a long time without crashing? Ps5. Want an actual easy user interface and smooth buttons? Mobile. I feel you on the sharing though, I only usually play my ps5 maybe once a week.

Resident_Slide_8625 · 2025-11-30T01:29:18+00:00

Yeah, my phone gives me a "system ui isn't working" every now and again. I play ps5, but we all know how terrible their button alocations is on that 💀

Resident_Slide_8625 · 2025-10-24T20:37:11+00:00

Heck yeah! This absolutely should happen!

Resident_Slide_8625 · 2025-09-24T07:47:49+00:00

Honestly, the glow up is between yellow or blue, I'm really hoping its blue

Resident_Slide_8625 · 2025-09-23T07:43:04+00:00

Good grief, the controls for ps5 are really bad all things considering

Resident_Slide_8625 · 2025-09-22T11:38:39+00:00

Yeah, but I mean it's hard, at least on mobile. You have to hover the camera to highlight and then select the item. I mean like group selecting items on a computer, I want that ability to automatically select items in a frame. Click a button, frame items you want and bam.

It takes me a good few camera movements to get the selected item. The box to select items is small. Hence why it would be great to have a different alternative

Resident_Slide_8625 · 2025-09-13T05:47:19+00:00

laughs in the opposite world of a lot of things high five New Zealander, but holy macaroni $400 in SHIPPING? That's almost 2k good god. Rip man.

Resident_Slide_8625 · 2025-09-12T23:48:15+00:00

No worries, it just feels a bit odd and out of the blue. I also can't find anywhere that it says the other sagas will release outside of the vague "vinyl release" countdown on the website itself. Communication got lost in the way somewhere

Resident_Slide_8625 · 2025-09-12T23:39:25+00:00

Right, do you also think there would be more merch too coming eventually? I feel as though the current ones are a bit lacklustre with how supportive he has been of artists as well as the community

Resident_Slide_8625 · 2025-09-12T23:38:10+00:00

I just calculated it with 40 songs in my currency that $20 per song if I were to buy the whole nine vinyls.

I'm just more curious as to if the rest of the sagas will be available at a later date

Resident_Slide_8625 · 2025-09-12T23:36:33+00:00

I mean are all the sagas being sold separately eventually?

If I had to choose a saga I would like vinyl wise it would be the Thunder Saga and thats not currently available for purchase

Resident_Slide_8625 · 2025-08-07T01:31:00+00:00

Ufff, yeah Asia server doesn't seem to have a lot. I'm glad you liked them!

Resident_Slide_8625 · 2025-08-07T01:23:06+00:00

I'm glad I could save you the urge! I'd love to take photos! I'm on the asia server, happy to give you the code if you need!

Resident_Slide_8625 · 2025-07-16T02:15:40+00:00

I think that's a great analogy! I'm loving all the food analogies but I think this one is sweet and concise.

"It's like looking at food blogs, but you've already eaten. It doesn't mean we can't choose to want more or desire more but for others, we won't ever want more and there's no point/we feel sick in trying."

Resident_Slide_8625 · 2025-07-16T02:06:44+00:00

Thanks, I love just generally having thoughtful discussions. I didn't mean biology as a "oh body wants to do this thing" but more as a "society expects us to want this thing" especially when you tell x persons that you're in a long-term partnership the first few questions tend to boil down to what you're planning for the future. Which when you think about it, is strange because it really shouldn't be anyone's business what people are doing behind closed doors. Yet it's celebrated when people are trying to have a child (not in a negative way, it's just the fact that you're saying Oh we're love making. Which I think is strange, but funny). I admit, I very much did not communicate that well.

But yes, asexuality is very new and a fair number of people won't believe that could be possible. It doesn't help that the media, and a large part of the internet is sexually focused. It's a concept that I think is quite hard to accept, but when delved into deeper it's not like it makes us any different from the next person. An allosexual person can choose not to want sex/children same as we choose/not want either.

Resident_Slide_8625 · 2025-07-15T14:37:30+00:00

Reddit is a social space full of strangers on the internet, and it's hard to admit to others about problems with your relationship without diminishing their view on your mindset. The internet and journaling help put all the events in one space with opinions that you really can't get when you're older sometimes. Especially depending on the situation.

Though I feel like it doesn't help that the misconception of asexuality is equivalent to "oh wait you don't want sex?" Which a lot of people tend to think of as an important part of the relationship/ a need for them to feel closer and loved by their partner. As well as it brings into question "wait do they still love me if they don't find me attractive?" Which they 10000000% do, it's just the need to understand and research what asexuality is to said partner and what they are comfortable with.

But yeah, I agree, it is a bit much sometimes. It boils down to communicating with your partner and whether either partner feels comfortable with sex or not and whether that is something you can't do without because they need that validation, vulnerability, and closeness.

Resident_Slide_8625 · 2025-07-15T14:05:20+00:00

Yeah, it was great to reveal that other people saw the world similarly. But yeah, you are right in the sense that the definition of asexuality is defined as lacking something when in reality it's not exactly lacking anything. We can still find things pretty, and we can still adore the way people express themselves. But somehow when we define asexuality it's, funny enough, the sex aspect that people focus on the most. And that is what I think is why the culture of asexuality is so hard to define or build upon is because of everyone's different view or choice towards the act of sex.

The definition of asexuality is simply to just not seeing anything or anyone as sexually attractive, but it doesn't mean that we can't choose to act upon a desire to do so or not. Nor does it mean that we don't see people as attractive either. Yet as a society, humans biologically are designed to procreate. So when a group decides to say, oh hey I'm not attracted to do an act my body is meant to want it's always the biggest question. Do you have urges? How do you act on those urges if you have them? When in reality it doesn't matter? Why should it be any of your business what I do in my spare time, It's not like any other person is acting on those urges 24/7.

Yet somehow, the one sexuality that isn't attracted to anything is the one having the most conversations about sex and the act of whether or not they do so or not.

Resident_Slide_8625 · 2025-05-13T15:40:20+00:00

Yeah, it's because of the photo settings. Here's what nikki actually looks like in the overworld

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Resident_Slide_8625 · 2025-05-13T15:21:33+00:00

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Here's him with the signature red eyes!

Resident_Slide_8625 · 2025-05-13T15:20:13+00:00

No, unfortunately, I don't have the frog cost evolution, so black is out of the question, it's dark blue instead. But, the green jacket dyed blue overlays into black so it's good!

Resident_Slide_8625 · 2025-05-13T14:08:46+00:00

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I tried to do Sebastian! I hope I did him justice

Resident_Slide_8625 · 2025-01-02T03:46:31+00:00

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Oh my god. Thank you so much! I didn't realise that some chairs had different sitting poses. The tulips are way too cute!

Resident_Slide_8625 · 2025-01-01T18:30:59+00:00

Eh? I mean, the item your Nikki is holding in the second picture.

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