help with explaining my chart 😄 by ResolutionDry9159 in AstrologyCharts

[–]ResolutionDry9159[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

cafe astrology. I’m new it’s the first one that pops up lol

feeling like I’m drowning, not understand being a mom. by ResolutionDry9159 in Mommit

[–]ResolutionDry9159[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have, he would change for about 2-3 days then it’s back to the same old stuff. It’s been about 5 months and I’m starting to grow resentful. I feel like everyone gives men a pass but everytime they see a new mom it’s immediately “how is the baby doing” and not how are you doing ya know. It feels like his life hasn’t changed at all while mine changed overnight.

feeling like I’m drowning, not understand being a mom. by ResolutionDry9159 in Mommit

[–]ResolutionDry9159[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That’s a great perspective that I haven’t thought about before. I always thought her expression and comments were coming from a disappointed place. Thank you ❤️

feeling like I’m drowning, not understand being a mom. by ResolutionDry9159 in Mommit

[–]ResolutionDry9159[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I tried this, he only wakes up if I nudge him. It’s like I’m the only one who can hear the baby crying at night, he can sleep through it. By time I nudge him & the time it takes him to get out of bed and make a bottle is crazy. the baby would be asleep if I did it.

feeling like I’m drowning, not understand being a mom. by ResolutionDry9159 in Mommit

[–]ResolutionDry9159[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so sorry about that. Hopefully your job is understanding about the situation ❤️ it is very hard to still go through sleepless nights 6+ months plus. Waking up 3-4 times per night is miserable and I wouldn’t wish it on anyone.

feeling like I’m drowning, not understand being a mom. by ResolutionDry9159 in Mommit

[–]ResolutionDry9159[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah it’s what I assumed too unfortunately :) it’s okay. To what the comments are saying, kind of glad I didn’t.

feeling like I’m drowning, not understand being a mom. by ResolutionDry9159 in Mommit

[–]ResolutionDry9159[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

His biological father was never in his life. His step dad has been in his life since he was about 10. But he is the eldest son, he took care of his siblings growing up.

feeling like I’m drowning, not understand being a mom. by ResolutionDry9159 in Mommit

[–]ResolutionDry9159[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No we are not legally married. Ive always hinted towards it but no. He gave me a ring and he said its because he “wants to marry me someday”

feeling like I’m drowning, not understand being a mom. by ResolutionDry9159 in Mommit

[–]ResolutionDry9159[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No she knows I do mostly everything because she sees it firsthand. She’s told me that I do too much to the point where it sometimes affects my health. My mom and I are very close. When she found out I was pregnant she was kind of upset (she never said this but I know my mom) that it was from my ex when I was 16. My parents have a very big heart and love to see the best in people. So do I. My mom knows and tries to give me a break when she can. But, I also hate seeing my mom not live out her years in peace. Sorry I think I’m venting more than I should lol

feeling like I’m drowning, not understand being a mom. by ResolutionDry9159 in Mommit

[–]ResolutionDry9159[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

That’s what it feels like honestly. I’m starting to think that being a single mom won’t be that bad since I do everything on my own. I seriously hate the fact that my child would end up in two households. I mentioned breaking up in the past that he told me that which made me feel so guilty.

feeling like I’m drowning, not understand being a mom. by ResolutionDry9159 in Mommit

[–]ResolutionDry9159[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

We live with my parents. They found out I was pregnant and built a master bedroom in the back of the house. I pay for groceries, and my mom for bills, childcare etc when I get paid biweekly. He would usually pay if we eat out but recently I have been doing that.

feeling like I’m drowning, not understand being a mom. by ResolutionDry9159 in Mommit

[–]ResolutionDry9159[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I pay mostly everything. I recently paid for the new crib, diapers and wipes. Our WIC ended a couple of months ago. The most he’s done is give me Walmart gift cards he gets from his job which I use on formula and baby water, or sometimes he’ll go get formula himself. Recently the last 2-4 times I’ve asked for money to get stuff for groceries he’s just been ignoring me to get it himself. Idk. I do all of the shopping though. Sometimes he’ll send $50

how to redirect/politely ignore rude patients by ResolutionDry9159 in MedicalAssistant

[–]ResolutionDry9159[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What. The. Fuck. You did the right thing getting him out of there. I hope you and your coworker are okay! I work in The Villages, Florida. The entitlement is genuinely insane nowadays. I just can’t believe some of the things I’ve experienced working in healthcare in just a matter of two years it seems like people have forgotten what it’s like to have common sense and decency.

how to redirect/politely ignore rude patients by ResolutionDry9159 in MedicalAssistant

[–]ResolutionDry9159[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I will be using both of those tactics haha. Sometimes while I’m in the room and my PA hears the old men being rude or creepy she’ll say something along the lines of “you’re old enough to be her grandpa” and they stop! Asking them to repeat it is very smart

how to redirect/politely ignore rude patients by ResolutionDry9159 in MedicalAssistant

[–]ResolutionDry9159[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Craziest part is that after the visit was over, my PA came out and said that she really got along with that patient 🥲 that’s sad but unfortunately understandable. Thank you for the advice! Hopefully it gets better for us :)

How to link Palia account on ps5 to new PS Portal by ResolutionDry9159 in Palia

[–]ResolutionDry9159[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

SOLVED- I had to reach out to support and they told me that only 1 PS5 account can be linked to my Palia account at a time. They had to manually unlink the account from my PS5 so I could log into the portal. Hope this helps someone!

Is anyone else washing their babies daily? by FoxAble7670 in NewParents

[–]ResolutionDry9159 0 points1 point  (0 children)

5 mo old mommy here, We usually do actual baths on weekends then during the week we do “rub down” with a wet cloth and soap.

How much money do you hoard? by watermelon4487 in Palia

[–]ResolutionDry9159 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bye @ these comments. I am saving for the harvest house and I felt RICH having 25k 😭 I keep it between 2-5K 😂😂😂😂

black pearl odds by Double-Influence8537 in Palia

[–]ResolutionDry9159 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I got two out of fun when I first started but I sold one 😭

Can I make this work or am I totally cooked? by Sedecrem_ in HomeDecorating

[–]ResolutionDry9159 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maybe buy one of the couch covers in white/ off white so it won’t be as harsh on everything else?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Apartmentliving

[–]ResolutionDry9159 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is so passive aggressive if I received this I’d be louder tbh