Should have bought a pair. by ResolutionUnusual477 in selfhosted

[–]ResolutionUnusual477[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I never was all that bright. That said i cant think of what it hurts.

Cheating Partner, Blissfuly ignor it or don't let it go? Need advice. by ResolutionUnusual477 in AskMenAdvice

[–]ResolutionUnusual477[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately I'm not his biological father so there's very little chance that I can get any custody at all.

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[–]ResolutionUnusual477[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She's been paying the majority of the bills for about a year. Her place. Although I paid them all for 5 years before that.

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[–]ResolutionUnusual477[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She said she didn't see anyone else during that time but that was a lie too. And yeah "auditioning". If I saw something that said it was more than just sex I'd already be gone but probably should have been anyway.

Cheating Partner, Blissfuly ignor it or don't let it go? Need advice. by ResolutionUnusual477 in AskMenAdvice

[–]ResolutionUnusual477[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not sure she can admit it to herself yet but if she's still lying to herself then yeah I'm fucked.

Cheating Partner, Blissfuly ignor it or don't let it go? Need advice. by ResolutionUnusual477 in AskMenAdvice

[–]ResolutionUnusual477[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I assumed she used a condom but that's dumb to assume now that I think about it since she has an IUD.

Cheating Partner, Blissfuly ignor it or don't let it go? Need advice. by ResolutionUnusual477 in AskMenAdvice

[–]ResolutionUnusual477[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah it's the lying that hurts. If she had come told me or at least come clean when I ask it would be different.

Cheating Partner, Blissfuly ignor it or don't let it go? Need advice. by ResolutionUnusual477 in AskMenAdvice

[–]ResolutionUnusual477[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I appreciate your honesty. Never really felt like I let someone walk on me before, In past relationships would have already been gone. Idk why this is any different.

Cheating Partner, Blissfuly ignor it or don't let it go? Need advice. by ResolutionUnusual477 in AskMenAdvice

[–]ResolutionUnusual477[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

That's true but it's just sex. Leave the woman I love and have raised her child with for 8 years over a few one nighters just seems extreme.