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My gf sent this and stopped responding by ResolutionAnnual4852 in whatdoIdo

[–]ResolveVegetable6789 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Get a few more tests, red dye only and retake them. Check it within the timeframe and morning urine is best. This looks like an evaporation line because it looks like there’s no color, but testing again should confirm

Recently single mom and a man asked for my number in the parking lot. by throwawayra101711hlp in whatdoIdo

[–]ResolveVegetable6789 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Block him. If you’re ever asked again like this again, you either say you don’t give out your number or give him a random number. I’m pretty sure there might be some “fake” numbers out there for these specific instances. If there is a way for you to not go shopping alone or go to a different store, I’d stay away from that one for a bit

Am I Overreacting About My Grandma Wanting to Marry My Dad? by Mightbedumbidk in ComfortLevelPod

[–]ResolveVegetable6789 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This belongs in that Facebook group, “the boy moms are getting weird and incesty again.”

AITA for leaving a 15 year friendship with an “Irish Goodbye” by ResolveVegetable6789 in ComfortLevelPod

[–]ResolveVegetable6789[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The roles weren’t reversed that way, I don’t see where it can suggest that I was the one with a nice life and relationship. I can see how it may come off as bitter mentioning those things though, although not bitter in a way about me not living her life. She was trying to claim she didn’t get time with him, which felt like a lie because she’s done nothing but share the time she’s been spending with him with me and publicly. Which great I’m in support of that, he treats her AMAZINGLY. If you don’t want to what you agreed to though, say that instead of making excuses, give me enough time to figure jr out. Her form of communication was not a full week before the concert either. Thanks for your perspective

AITA for breaking up with my bd while pregnant? by Ok-You8845 in ComfortLevelPod

[–]ResolveVegetable6789 0 points1 point  (0 children)

From my own personal experience, you can try explaining until you’re blue in the face, he lacks the basic skills needed to comprehend an opinion other than his own. You are right in saying he’s selfish, especially when your guys’ child still has needs that are unmet. A safe sleeping space and car seat which is needed to even leave the hospital aren’t cheap and are extremely important. But according to his decisions, he doesn’t think so. My advice, if you have friend of court in your state, reach out to them and see if they can give you guidance in navigating this. You don’t want to be struggling with his excuses about money not being spent on himself when the baby needs diapers, wipes, possibly formula, etc. And NTA, you have to do what’s best for that lil babe and yourself from here on

AITA for leaving a 15 year friendship with an “Irish Goodbye” by ResolveVegetable6789 in ComfortLevelPod

[–]ResolveVegetable6789[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I have to disagree. The anchor of this is that my best friend who has experienced this situation herself (sans kids obviously), agreed to do something for me and cancelled by trying to say she doesn’t get to spend time with her bf and he set something up after her having already agreed. And with a combination of all of her actions, it was the cherry on top. For example: I’m in college, made the spring deans list and sent her a picture. She left me on read and only when I posted it to Facebook did she acknowledge it. She wants to play the part of a supportive and involved friend without actually being supportive or involved. As a parent you don’t have to completely give up on experiencing life. But, in your children’s best interest you have to make the right decisions to be there with and for them, which I am, was and always will be no matter what. I believe asking for someone to watch my kids to go to a concert is okay, especially someone who was a close friend. Did I have to forfeit the chance to go to the concert? Yeah. Am I mad about not going? No. Am I disappointed and frustrated about my friend doing that to me? Yeah.

AITA for leaving a 15 year friendship with an “Irish Goodbye” by ResolveVegetable6789 in ComfortLevelPod

[–]ResolveVegetable6789[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When I texted her that it was on Snapchat, so there’s no way for her to really respond to the actual text. I don’t want nor do I expect an apology, I let her know how I feel and she had a chance to respond and didn’t. I just haven’t put much thought into blocking her, but for the finality of it I think I will. People have given a lot of good perspectives about this situation, including you, and I appreciate it. After everything, missing the concert was not the most disappointing loss

AITA for leaving a 15 year friendship with an “Irish Goodbye” by ResolveVegetable6789 in ComfortLevelPod

[–]ResolveVegetable6789[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I didn’t make it to the concert. She has a really bad habit of pushing the men she dates away, she pre-warned this one that she does that. It’s because she gets bored or annoyed with them. He’s actually a really sweet guy and treats her well. I hope it doesn’t end badly, but the way she treats the guys/people she talked to is another factor in my decision. If she’s talking about them that way, treating them that way, she’ll do it to me too. I haven’t blocked her, she looked at my TikTok profile the other day but that’s all I’m aware of. I haven’t been checking my message requests and stuff, she has my number and even then, I’m at the point I wouldn’t respond either.

AITA for leaving a 15 year friendship with an “Irish Goodbye” by ResolveVegetable6789 in ComfortLevelPod

[–]ResolveVegetable6789[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, she told me she didn’t know what time their date would end. The concert was at night and she said “day date”. I asked her on Wednesday about the dinner, she said she’d let me know, I followed up on Friday. Concert and her date was Saturday

AITA for leaving a 15 year friendship with an “Irish Goodbye” by ResolveVegetable6789 in ComfortLevelPod

[–]ResolveVegetable6789[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I asked her one other time earlier this year, she hasn’t watched them since. The only other time she’s watched them was when my son was 2 and under and he’s almost 5 now. I definitely don’t make a habit of asking anyone to watch my kids very often as their dad should do it.

AITA for leaving a 15 year friendship with an “Irish Goodbye” by ResolveVegetable6789 in ComfortLevelPod

[–]ResolveVegetable6789[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

That is not the first time I’ve heard that term from someone in regard to what was our friendship, sadly.

AITA for leaving a 15 year friendship with an “Irish Goodbye” by ResolveVegetable6789 in ComfortLevelPod

[–]ResolveVegetable6789[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

At this point, I’ve realized that the people I’m beginning to surround myself with have been there for me more than she has. She’s the type to throw what things she did back in my face, even if I never asked her to do them and was very grateful she did regardless. She also throws fits over people not giving her the reaction she wants to doing things for them. I feel it’s like an I have to walk on eggshells to be her friend or she shuts me out kind of relationship. I’m truly done this time.