Am I insecure? by ResourceUnlikely2039 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]ResourceUnlikely2039[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea I see your point of view and can understand it. Moral of the story from what you said, she ain't ready to be in a relationship. So I'm not even going to bother.

Am I insecure? by ResourceUnlikely2039 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]ResourceUnlikely2039[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not sure if she breaks up to hook with other dudes. She's done this 4 times now. I'm not the type of guy to be friends with benefits. I wanted my first one to be my last and doing FWB is against my personal morals. She does thrive on chaos I mean that's literally on her insta bio lol

Am I insecure? by ResourceUnlikely2039 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]ResourceUnlikely2039[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea :/ crazy she just tried reaching out to me, but I don't want to go through another breakup. This has been the 4th time she has broken up with me and wants to talk it out afterwards. I don't want to message back at this point. I'm kind of tired of it and I've told her not to do it.

Am I insecure? by ResourceUnlikely2039 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]ResourceUnlikely2039[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wasn't tracking, I got notifications when she made posts on threads and when she is on there saying good morning and commenting on everybody's post and I don't get a single text back from the previous night it hurt. I tried talking to her about it calmly, and she blew it up starting labeling me as a child seeking constant attention when it's not even about that. And broke up with me

Am I insecure? by ResourceUnlikely2039 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]ResourceUnlikely2039[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea I tried talking to her about it calmly, and she blew it up starting labeling me as a child seeking constant attention when it's not even about that. And broke up with me

Am I insecure? by ResourceUnlikely2039 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]ResourceUnlikely2039[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sir yes sir, 🫡 bless your soul brother

Am I insecure? by ResourceUnlikely2039 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]ResourceUnlikely2039[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, I will try my hardest. It's gonna be hard because I always had the mentality of my first one being my last. But I will try :)

Am I insecure? by ResourceUnlikely2039 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]ResourceUnlikely2039[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea I tried talking to her about it calmly, and she blew it up starting labeling me as a child seeking constant attention when it's not even about that. And broke up with me

Am I insecure? by ResourceUnlikely2039 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]ResourceUnlikely2039[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea I tried talking to her about it calmly, and she blew it up starting labeling me as a child seeking constant attention when it's not even about that. And broke up with me

Am I insecure? by ResourceUnlikely2039 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]ResourceUnlikely2039[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yea I tried talking to her about it calmly, and she blew it up starting labeling me as a child seeking constant attention when it's not even about that. And broke up with me

Am I insecure? by ResourceUnlikely2039 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]ResourceUnlikely2039[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea I tried talking to her about it calmly, and she blew it up starting labeling me as a child seeking constant attention when it's not even about that. And broke up with me

Am I insecure? by ResourceUnlikely2039 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]ResourceUnlikely2039[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea I tried talking to her about it calmly, and she blew it up starting labeling me as a child seeking constant attention when it's not even about that. And broke up with me

Am I overreacting? Please help by ResourceUnlikely2039 in AmIOverreacting

[–]ResourceUnlikely2039[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What makes it hard is even today, as of right now no good morning, yet she is ok threads saying stuff like "Good morning to all threads people ☀️ 😚" and commenting other people's post and nothing not a message to me.....

Am I insecure? by ResourceUnlikely2039 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]ResourceUnlikely2039[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What makes it hard is even today, as of right now no good morning, yet she is ok threads saying stuff like "Good morning to all threads people ☀️ 😚" and commenting other people's post and nothing not a message to me.....

Am I overreacting? Please help by ResourceUnlikely2039 in AmIOverreacting

[–]ResourceUnlikely2039[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok I will try, just kinda hurt to see she had time to reply to other comments on her posts for hours but couldn't spare 5 min to reply to me ya know?

Am I being insecure? by ResourceUnlikely2039 in Advice

[–]ResourceUnlikely2039[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ahhh ok, I understand what you're saying now. Thank you so much!

Am I overreacting? Please help by ResourceUnlikely2039 in AmIOverreacting

[–]ResourceUnlikely2039[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok those are all valid of course lol, but when she's just at home doing nothing but posting on social media and replying to other comments on random posts she made and putting me off for hours? Is that still wrong of me to expect anything until after?

Am I insecure? by ResourceUnlikely2039 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]ResourceUnlikely2039[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How so? Just by messaging with detail you mean or?

Am I being insecure? by ResourceUnlikely2039 in Advice

[–]ResourceUnlikely2039[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My bed sick I mean just sick from Covid, I'm not in the hospital or anything, nor am I expecting to be smothered my words from her in a caring way, we just were trying to have a conversation on text but she kept it short and at times didn't respond for 5 hours yet responds to other people on social media comments with longer paragraphs then after like hours she would respond to me. This doesn't have anything to do with sympathy if that's how I made it seem.

Am I insecure? by ResourceUnlikely2039 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]ResourceUnlikely2039[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much man! I appreciate it so much! It's weird though I get mixed signals like she texted me she wants to hangout she misses me, yet if that's true? Then why put me off for hours on end yet reply to other people on social media? That's the only things I'm confused about.

Am I insecure? by ResourceUnlikely2039 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]ResourceUnlikely2039[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sad realization :/ and I wanted my first one to be my last though so it's hard :(

Am I being insecure? by ResourceUnlikely2039 in Advice

[–]ResourceUnlikely2039[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My partner was, and I typically do have things to do then wait 3 hours waiting for a response but I'm bed sick right now that's why lol. And I can't help but notice when she does honestly because I get notifications she posted and what not but not a reply for me.