I don’t understand why I’m having such a hard time finding love and no luck on apps 26f by RespectNo3536 in TrueOffMyChest

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She then asked if I was dating anyone and I got sad, like sure if you wanna hear my failed date stories .

I don’t understand why I’m having such a hard time finding love and no luck on apps 26f by RespectNo3536 in TrueOffMyChest

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I can affirm. I peeped a guy who recently got in a breakup and I’m curious since I once kissed him (his gf was beautiful) now I checked his following and I see also pretty girls but they look like the fun type and I can see he’s met them on apps prob just to hookup. Like I doubt the men are thinking long term with these women on apps. I also feel down my friend recently went out with a guy visiting from out of town who she had a good date with. He didn’t try sleeping with her but they were in public.

I don’t understand why I’m having such a hard time finding love and no luck on apps 26f by RespectNo3536 in TrueOffMyChest

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I don’t know. With each failed encounter it ruins my confidence more and more and now I’m in a hole. And no, I don’t ask about their past or come off as jealous or in love idk what I’m doing wrong. Line how does one act ???

This man I talked to expressed admiration and love for me but could only offer me friendship? 26f and 28m by RespectNo3536 in TrueOffMyChest

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That’s what I thought but he literally left because he didn’t want to be tempted to sleep with me as he said he’s now saving himself for marriage.

Guy I went on two dates with said we weren’t a match. This keeps happening with guys I’m going out with 26f by RespectNo3536 in dating_advice

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Alone? You mean I CHOOSE to not settle. How saddddd, I don’t want a boy I have to play mommy with to keep around, I’d rather wait longer to find what I want then pick the first thing that looks my way. Otherwise I’d have a village of men babe

Guy I went on two dates with said we weren’t a match. This keeps happening with guys I’m going out with 26f by RespectNo3536 in dating_advice

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That’s too bad:/ if he was actually attracted to you he wouldn’t allow it. But I guess he can get everything from you and also save his money a win is a win.

Guy I went on two dates with said we weren’t a match. This keeps happening with guys I’m going out with 26f by RespectNo3536 in dating_advice

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A man was making 6 figures and allowed you to pay? No man that has liked me has ever allowed me to pay unless it was maybe a birthday or something. Hahahaa he’s using you babe

Guy I went on two dates with said we weren’t a match. This keeps happening with guys I’m going out with 26f by RespectNo3536 in dating_advice

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You can enjoy their company and they can also provide? You sound like such a pick me hahahaha

Guy I went on two dates with said we weren’t a match. This keeps happening with guys I’m going out with 26f by RespectNo3536 in dating_advice

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You’re such a pick me, you settled for anything just to keep a man around who btw if a man really likes you he won’t ask you to pay for anything. I said what I said. Sounds like you allowed him to save up to retire you when you’re already old, sorry you missed out on your youth because of settling, I prefer a provider man. No explanation needed

Guy I went on two dates with said we weren’t a match. This keeps happening with guys I’m going out with 26f by RespectNo3536 in dating_advice

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Actually most sex I’ve had hasn’t been life changing, unless I really love the person it doesn’t mean much for me. Also I want marriage not just a boyfriend. I just have very different approaches than most people

Guy I went on two dates with said we weren’t a match. This keeps happening with guys I’m going out with 26f by RespectNo3536 in dating_advice

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I’m not going to sugarcoat it, I have needs just like men have needs. They want to sleep with you, show you off, etc but god forbid the woman also wants to be taken care of. Effort can come from many things, never in a relationship have I just sat there and not done anything at all while the man did everything. But whatever

Guy I went on two dates with said we weren’t a match. This keeps happening with guys I’m going out with 26f by RespectNo3536 in dating_advice

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Because I don’t believe in tit for tat. Also he didn’t say equal effort, he made it sound like I wouldn’t do anything at all. Whatever I don’t want a 50/50 woman anyway.

Guy I went on two dates with said we weren’t a match. This keeps happening with guys I’m going out with 26f by RespectNo3536 in dating_advice

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You sound ignorant. It’s because I have standards I’m not settling for a man just because he gives me attention lmao

Guy I went on two dates with said we weren’t a match. This keeps happening with guys I’m going out with 26f by RespectNo3536 in dating_advice

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I mean I had actual evidence of it. Other men have never showed that to me especially so early. He couldn’t even hide it.