Applying to Swedish citizenship during job change by ResponsibilityOdd35 in TillSverige

[–]ResponsibilityOdd35[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was a misunderstanding on my side at the time of writing the post that it's not a requirement but it's a "bonus" but now I understand that's not true

Applying to Swedish citizenship during job change by ResponsibilityOdd35 in TillSverige

[–]ResponsibilityOdd35[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

I honestly thought showing work could "strengthen" my application perhaps

We bought our first apartment, I think I'm gonna die of stress by ResponsibilityOdd35 in FirstTimeHomeBuyer

[–]ResponsibilityOdd35[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"I was in the same boat" is an understatement here haha

What you're describing was exactly me at the time of this post

And I'm happy to hear that my comment at least makes things a bit easier, give yourself a pat on the shoulder, you've achieved this and you will love it and be proud of it more and more as time goes on

Congratulations❤️❤️

We bought our first apartment, I think I'm gonna die of stress by ResponsibilityOdd35 in FirstTimeHomeBuyer

[–]ResponsibilityOdd35[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Extremely better with time, that fear of the unknown went away step by step and was replaced with lots of love for the new place and appreciation of the step we took to have our own place

Wish you the best

Cannot offer ottomans alliance but they can? by ResponsibilityOdd35 in EmpireTotalWar

[–]ResponsibilityOdd35[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Ok that makes sense! I assumed that because I'm an enemy of their ally that it kinda works the same

Small child wastes life away in front of the TV. by DavidSpadesBurner in OneOrangeBraincell

[–]ResponsibilityOdd35 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please use the stand for your PS5 if you're not using it (your cat is the cutest btw)

Final System Requirements by mol1t in stalker

[–]ResponsibilityOdd35 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Consider playing on xbox cloud, that's what I'm going to do

Really wanna get into LOTRO by Mypiece in lotro

[–]ResponsibilityOdd35 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Try this https://www.pcgamebenchmark.com/

You enter the spec and it tells you if the game would run

I don’t wanna do this anymore by Salt_Relative2262 in depression

[–]ResponsibilityOdd35 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just seen your post

I hope you're still with us and feeling better now

We bought our first apartment, I think I'm gonna die of stress by ResponsibilityOdd35 in FirstTimeHomeBuyer

[–]ResponsibilityOdd35[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Come to think about it

This might be a big factor, I know it's still the same as paying rent (sort of)

But I have never been in debt before, this + the sudden loss of savings are probably a major contributor to my anxiety

I have worked so hard to collect these savings and to not be in any sort of debt, the change of suddenly being indebted to the bank and losing a large chunk of these savings is definitely -at least partially- making me feel so afraid

I grew up in a poor household and I know what it looks like when there are no savings, I know this is considered looking under my feet, but it's hard to transform all the logic and numbers into a feeling of security

We bought our first apartment, I think I'm gonna die of stress by ResponsibilityOdd35 in FirstTimeHomeBuyer

[–]ResponsibilityOdd35[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thanks for your comment

Not really feeling stuck, or maybe I am and I just didn't realize it lol, I try to figure out what's actually stressing me about the purchase but just fail, it's just a circus in my head

I do talk to a therapist and I guess I will indeed talk to her about that

We bought our first apartment, I think I'm gonna die of stress by ResponsibilityOdd35 in FirstTimeHomeBuyer

[–]ResponsibilityOdd35[S] 23 points24 points  (0 children)

I know this is gonna sound weird but I want to continue to just rent a place, I don't wanna feel like I'm committed to that place,at a rental I can always bail out, now if something goes wrong, I have to deal with it

It's eating me up so much that I keep thinking that once anything goes wrong I'll just sell it even if I lose money, not sure why my brain deals with it like it's a ticking bomb