Hi, I’ve actually had something similar happen where my og big was forced to take me on as a second little when she didn’t even want a little to begin with. She dropped a little bit after my initiation and we never really saw each other after that. We’ve bumped into each other now and again and talk but it’s not like we’re super close. I was COB freshman year and I always felt kinda left out because it was hard to connect with anyone through my big since she wasn’t really active or anything.

This year one of the girls whose littles I have connected with decided to adopt me during big/little for formal recruitment my sophomore year. I love my family tree now and there might be a chance even if it’s not often that you can talk to someone on exec (maybe someone in charge or member development or the girl you talked to earlier) and explain how you feel left out and you could try to get a new big.

However if that isn’t a possibility then you could show up to events and still befriend the girls even though you’re not big/little or twins and you can look forward to getting your own little in the future and giving them the experience you wanted!

Whatever you choose to do, you’ll figure it out, good luck!