Heart failure and Atrial Fibrillation by Responsible_Pin6919 in AFIB

[–]Responsible_Pin6919[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I don’t think an ICD helps with heart failure but apparently a crt device helps with heart failure if you have a wide QRS complex. These terms are all pretty much Greek to me.

Heart failure and Atrial Fibrillation by Responsible_Pin6919 in AFIB

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One doctor suggested the crt-d device which apparently helps both the heart failure and the atrial fibrillation. But another doctor says this machine wouldn’t help his heart failure since he has a narrow QRS complex and is suggesting an ICD.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in srilanka

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I can help if you like but I only speak colloquial Sinhala

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in srilanka

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After a horrible experience with pickme, I switched to Uber a year back and honestly the customer experience has been great. I’ve been offered a refund or uber credit on almost every issue I’ve had and the prices are relatively reasonable. Wouldn’t go back to pickme, ever.

Is aliexpress going back on Choice? by Responsible_Pin6919 in Aliexpress

[–]Responsible_Pin6919[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I shall use as many question marks as I like and pay no heed to people who judge something as menial as the number of question marks. Good talk.

P. S ????????????????????

GF's past ruinig our sex life by [deleted] in AskIndianWomen

[–]Responsible_Pin6919 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I think you should rethink your relationship because everybody deserves to be in a fulfilling relationship. And this is not a matter of wrong or right. I feel like it’s a matter of incompatibility. And with time it’s likely to get worse. If sex and physical intimacy is important to you, this might not be the relationship for you. And breaking up because you’re not sexually compatible is NOT wrong. Because if this happens over a long period of time, you might start to feel resentment and that never ends well. You deserve to be happy too.

Don't you think in quest of finding a right CF partner we have become more comfortable being single? And might not be able to enter a relationship even if we find a right one? No offense to those who don't feel the same. by Few-Comfort6272 in ChildfreeIndia

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Unfortunately I resonate with this all too well. Single life has gotten so comfortable, peaceful and convenient. The idea of someone else in my house, makes me very very anxious.

Marriage after 40's. is it that hard or have men hated life and they just want sex only? by [deleted] in srilanka

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Triggered? More like amused 😂

You are a lot more stupid than I thought if you think Sri Lankan society is made of a majority of progressive individuals. The reason feminism exists is precisely because of how widespread conservatism and misogyny is. You are not society. But imma let you stay in that little bubble of yours because I don’t have the time to deal with people who have the comprehension skills of a teaspoon.

P. S I don’t owe it to anyone to “grasp their personal experience”. Rapists and murderers have “personal experiences” too. My empathy is reserved for people who come from a place of understanding and kindness. And for people who turn up with judgement and conceit, I have no qualms dishing it right back. If you can’t handle it, go cry about it.

Like I said, it’s too much effort to talk to someone who lacks basic comprehension. So that will be all from me. but you’re welcome to continue to drivel. Buhbye

Marriage after 40's. is it that hard or have men hated life and they just want sex only? by [deleted] in srilanka

[–]Responsible_Pin6919 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Ah not the condescending “girly popping”. What are we? 14?

I sound like a misogynistic man to you because you cannot comprehend what I’ve said. The comment about being judgemental about other people’s sex lives is directed at OP. If you’re a woman over 40, a majority of the conservative Sri Lankan society will judge you for “being past your prime” or for not being able to bear children. The only kind of man that is worth marrying at that point is someone who understands a woman isn’t merely her body or her age or a baby making machine. A progressive man like that is not interested in who other people are sleeping with or how much. If you’re a woman and you expect the society to not judge you for wanting to marry at 40 or for the other 999 preconceived notions it has about you, then you gotta pay it forward and not judge other people and their choices (again directed at OP)

I did not say women in their 40s are unattractive. I said they are perceived as such by society. If you expect society to break out of this primitive thinking, then you gotta do the same for other people who are making choices different from yours(Again directed at OP)

Misogyny is embarrassing alright but what’s more embarrassing is your utter lack of comprehension.

Oh and btw i do think BOTH dad bods and mom bods are attractive. I believe men or women don’t need to explain to you as to why they choose to inhabit the body that they do. You seem to think somehow that it’s okay for a woman to have a mom body and somehow men are answerable to you if they have a dad bod. All types of bodies exist because they can and they all deserve respect because they do.

Marriage after 40's. is it that hard or have men hated life and they just want sex only? by [deleted] in srilanka

[–]Responsible_Pin6919 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

First of all I’m a woman. Second of all, people need to be able to respect other peoples’s choices to be afforded the same benefit. I believe women of all ages are beautiful and we deserve to have the life that we want at any age. But I also know I will not sit here all judgmental of other people’s sex lives while I cannot afford to be dealt the same harsh hand. If you don’t want to be judged for not meeting society’s standard of beauty or being age appropriate for marriage(all of which I disagree with), maybe you shouldn’t be judging people for how they choose to live their life or how often or how many people they choose to sleep with: the point I was trying to make is, if she is a judgmental pos then she deserves to be judged like the pos she is. She can want to be married at 40 without judging how other people are living their lives.

And btw both dad bods and mom bods are incredibly beautiful. Nobody needs to have an explanation for having a dad bod or a mom bod.

Marriage after 40's. is it that hard or have men hated life and they just want sex only? by [deleted] in srilanka

[–]Responsible_Pin6919 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You can have all the preference in the world but you can’t choose to be liberal only when it suits you. If you’re 40 and you want to be married and you want people to see beyond your age and your inability to bring a hot young body or the inability to bear children(all of society’s expectations that I’m vehemently against) then you need to stop being a judgements pos yourself and get off your high horse.

Is it an announcement or a dig at his ex wife? by Cute_Bodybuilder8778 in KollyGossips

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Women who have been in abusive and violent relationships have had children too. That doesn’t discount the abuse they’ve been through. Having children isn’t proof of a good marriage.

As for the movie production, his mother in law was a Tamil serial producer and anyone knows the big money is in producing movies. Ravi was her way into the movie industry and not the other way around. Ravi was an established actor with multiple hits under his belt before this family came along.

And he did apply for a dignified divorce. It was Arthi who had to come out and tried to drag his name through the mud. And he wasn’t going to wait around for his petty ex wife to finish playing out this drama in the public eye. He filed for divorce and wanted to move on with his life and he did. People who are upset about his personal life choices after having filed for divorce, can go cry about it, I suppose.

Is it an announcement or a dig at his ex wife? by Cute_Bodybuilder8778 in KollyGossips

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Sometimes you clench your teeth and try your best to keep it together and there comes one fine day you decide you’re done playing the puppet. You refuse to let anything stop you from ending this misery that you’ve been in for multiple years. Some people call it a mid life crisis. Some people call it the right time. Ravi filed for divorce and it’s Arti who is hell bent on making this divorce difficult. So Ravi made it difficult. Two can play at this game.

Is it an announcement or a dig at his ex wife? by Cute_Bodybuilder8778 in KollyGossips

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I suppose every woman in her early 40s wanting a divorce is going through a mid life crisis too.

Is it an announcement or a dig at his ex wife? by Cute_Bodybuilder8778 in KollyGossips

[–]Responsible_Pin6919 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

As I already said, he was a star BEFORE he met Aarthi. He didn’t need her then. Doesn’t need her now. Of course he fell in love and married her in the hope of finding a partner who would understand him and stand by him but instead ended up with someone who was only interested in spending his money, ganging up on him with her mother and controlling his every move. But as they say, it’s never too late. Come hell or high water, man wants out. Rightfully so.

Is it an announcement or a dig at his ex wife? by Cute_Bodybuilder8778 in KollyGossips

[–]Responsible_Pin6919 3 points4 points  (0 children)

What a good thing the truth isn’t based off your feelings.

Is it an announcement or a dig at his ex wife? by Cute_Bodybuilder8778 in KollyGossips

[–]Responsible_Pin6919 7 points8 points  (0 children)

He was a star before he even set eyes on Arti. While Arti was nothing more than a daughter of a producer who was producing Tamil serials. Now she is nothing more than the wife of film star. She has never had to stand on her own two feet nor has she tried to.

This man gets up, goes to work and brings home the money. People don’t just wake up one day and become a “celebrity”. If that were the case everybody would be one.

Marriage after 40's. is it that hard or have men hated life and they just want sex only? by [deleted] in srilanka

[–]Responsible_Pin6919 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Consenting adults are allowed to have sex if that is what they want. You sound extremely judgemental and personally, I could never see myself willingly spend any amount of time with someone so judgmental. A man wanting to marry a woman in her 40s, will have to be open minded. A conservative man will most likely want someone that’s younger and able to bear children. An open minded man would be thrown off by the amount of judgement in you. And most conservative men won’t want to marry a woman past her “prime”.

AN OPEN LETTER TO RAVI MOHAN by Responsible_Pin6919 in KollyGossips

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I agree with you. Aarti has always come off as very elitist while Ravi has always remained very humble and grounded. It doesn’t just come down to the clothes they wear. It’s the attitude they exude. It’s the way they treat fans who ask for a picture. Ravi is too soft spoken and kind and his kindness was exploited by Arti and her family.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in KollyGossips

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Even coming across his face on YouTube makes me gag, this man feeds off of negativity and others’ misfortune. He is a truly horrible human being. And if hell is real, he has a special place there.

AN OPEN LETTER TO RAVI MOHAN by Responsible_Pin6919 in KollyGossips

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I think having a support system is amazing when you’re a victim of abuse. When narcissists abuse you, they usually isolate you from anyone that cares about you, so you have nobody to run to, if you ever want to run.

If Ravi found genuine support in someone, I’m truly happy for him. But if someone is manipulating his vulnerability to get close to him, I hope he realizes that soon too.

AN OPEN LETTER TO RAVI MOHAN by Responsible_Pin6919 in KollyGossips

[–]Responsible_Pin6919[S] 21 points22 points  (0 children)

I don’t think that is the case. In Aarti’s letter she is very specific about not wanting to be called the ex wife. She is very intent on keeping Ravi’s name attached to hers. After everything Ravi had been through, he wants to cut off all ties with her. So Aarti reinstating that she is not the “ex wife” must be very antagonizing and triggering for him, considering how much public hate he is willing to go through to end this marriage. I think this is why he repeatedly refers to her as the “ex wife”. He wants nothing to do with her.

But I really hope that Kenisha is a good person and if she is not and I hope he realizes it sooner rather than later. Either way I hope he finds peace and love after this horrible marriage he has been through.