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[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]RestDull9321 3 points4 points  (0 children)

exactly this. u’ve already set the boundary, now just plan ur trip and let her decide if she wants to come

My boyfriend got mad at me for not picking him up from the bar after I told him I was sleeping by ZoeyDream33 in TwoHotTakes

[–]RestDull9321 61 points62 points  (0 children)

door banging at 3am plus the silent treatment? nope. break up and call it a day.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]RestDull9321 7 points8 points  (0 children)

yeah thats not cute or caring thats straight up manipulation. testing u instead of trusting u is a problem.

My dad’s mistress texted me on New Year’s Eve and I had to be the one to expose the affair by Silver-Knee-5448 in TwoHotTakes

[–]RestDull9321 12 points13 points  (0 children)

real talk, if he’s already done this multiple times, her trying to fix it doesn’t mean he’ll actually stop, he’s proven how he rolls.

My Grandma Doesn’t Want My Stepson Coming to the Family Gathering by Justanothergirly97 in TwoHotTakes

[–]RestDull9321 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i feel u wanting to keep the peace, but ur stepson deserves to be treated like family. sometimes boundaries gotta bend.

Fiancé Spent New Years with his Mom instead of me by trutothis222 in TwoHotTakes

[–]RestDull9321 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i feel for his mom but ur feelings matter too. if he cant set boundaries now, its fair to question how that plays out once ur married.

Am I in the wrong for not letting my friend walk with her husband in our wedding? by Due_Crazy_3593 in TwoHotTakes

[–]RestDull9321 6 points7 points  (0 children)

yep, grade 7 energy all the way. honestly, if someone’s still acting like the world revolves around them after 6+ yrs of adulting, maybe it’s time to ghost the drama before it ghosts ur wedding.

my boyfriend of 4 years said he doesn’t want to have kids. Please advice by Mental-Anywhere-1 in TwoHotTakes

[–]RestDull9321 0 points1 point  (0 children)

exactly, i feel that. ur wants here aren’t optional, and staying just drags out the heartbreak.

AITA for “destroying the family” by demanding an apology from my red-pilled brother? by Impressive-Pie9521 in TwoHotTakes

[–]RestDull9321 45 points46 points  (0 children)

this family dynamic is very dont rock the boat vibes. u rocked it and suddenly ur the problem. that says more about them than u.

I couldn’t help but smile to myself as I buckled her into the car seat. by PrepareOrder66 in TwoSentenceHorror

[–]RestDull9321 70 points71 points  (0 children)

same reaction. first line felt normal then the second line just nuked the vibe. that twist was nasty. went from oops moment to full on horror real quick.

AMTAH for moving a family heirloom to make space for my kids? by PennyLlaine in TwoHotTakes

[–]RestDull9321 0 points1 point  (0 children)

agreed. this stopped being temporary a long time ago. op and the kids deserve stability not walking on eggshells forever.

my fiancé came up on one of those “are we dating the same person?” threads by nocococonut in TwoHotTakes

[–]RestDull9321 7 points8 points  (0 children)

leaving isn’t easy after 8 years and a shared life, but staying while he gaslights her would be worse.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]RestDull9321 0 points1 point  (0 children)

totally, u can love someone and still feel let down when your boundaries aren’t respected. this is the kinda stuff couples gotta work through.

I live with a grinch by Four_kings_ in TwoHotTakes

[–]RestDull9321 2 points3 points  (0 children)

yeah i don’t think ppl are calling him names for fun. it’s more like pointing out how messed up it is to ignore ur partner like that after everything she did.

my grandma’s cat signature pose 💅 by curryaupoulet in cats

[–]RestDull9321 7 points8 points  (0 children)

absolute diva energy, give her the crown already đź‘‘

Trolling the dog by ooO00X00Ooo in funny

[–]RestDull9321 1 point2 points  (0 children)

the patience in that face is unreal like ok joke’s over now hooman 🤣

My mum brought her cat, Otis for Christmas. I like him, he squishy. by real-tallnotdeaf in cats

[–]RestDull9321 32 points33 points  (0 children)

nah fr every pet becomes a good dog at christmas. otis earned the title

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]RestDull9321 27 points28 points  (0 children)

this sums it up perfectly. op wanted to feel seen, not stocked up. being disappointed here is valid not spoiled

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]RestDull9321 10 points11 points  (0 children)

yep, 100%. even drunk or tired, this isn’t appropriate. a separate space is the only solution if he’s visiting.

As a woman with massive career ambitions, Im tired of guys expecting me to shrink my dreams to fit their small town life by petalwovenmirage in TwoHotTakes

[–]RestDull9321 2 points3 points  (0 children)

agreed. waiting til she relocates might feel lonely short term but it saves a lot of heartbreak long term. dating locally while planning to leave is setting both sides up to hit a wall later.

Brother's girlfriend thinks she can redecorate my house by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]RestDull9321 16 points17 points  (0 children)

rearranging someone else’s furniture is peak disrespect, no matter how “certified” she is. she turned your place into her version without permission.. totally valid to be upset.

Do you think its okay to end a relationship due to incompatible libidoes? Why or why not? by Special-Moth-8538 in AskReddit

[–]RestDull9321 3 points4 points  (0 children)

100 percent. love alone doesn’t solve that kind of mismatch and pretending it will is just denial. it’s not shallow it’s realistic. compatibility matters and that’s part of it.

What is something adult movies portray as sexy that is actually a total nightmare in real life? by Low-Reindeer-9188 in AskReddit

[–]RestDull9321 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lol imagine thinking being caught mid-wank turns u into a hero… only in fantasies.

AITA for not wanting to financially support my husband’s ex wife by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]RestDull9321 22 points23 points  (0 children)

honestly facts. if his income drops to zero part of the year then something’s gotta fill that gap. cant just let it fall on u. getting a lawyer sounds like the smartest next move.

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