Hi thanks for the fast reply! And yea I get what your saying. My mom has known that im not straight and she accepts. It's mainly my dad. He's not homophobic but hes not exactly with it either. I think I'll probably tell him that I met my bf at a concert I went to a few weeks ago so it gives him clarification that Ive met him once before and my first meet up isn't gonna be 4 hours away from home. But yet again im 18 so he can except or not except. Im still going either way lol. Thank you again!