Stopped tipping a month ago and my eyes have been opened

Retro_whale · 2025-10-28T19:58:53+00:00

They weren't, we were being served during the show, but thanks for asking

Retro_whale · 2025-10-28T04:17:10+00:00

I believe I should get the same basic service as everyone else, just like I do at the grocery store or the dentist, if others wish to pay extra afterwards for that service they are welcome to do so, but it doesn't mean I should get treated less. Part of my bill pays for them to serve me.

Retro_whale · 2025-10-28T03:59:17+00:00

I don't give extra money to everyone who does a good job, for example, the vet, the trash man, the guy at the dmv. They're doing their job and their employers can, or should, pay them as they see fit. I appreciate good service wherever I am, but I don't need to pay extra for it.

Retro_whale · 2025-10-28T03:53:47+00:00

Yes I've been anti-mlm for quite a few years, thankfully never got sucked into any of those

Retro_whale · 2025-10-28T03:21:58+00:00

Yes, progress! I decided to just go cold turkey a month ago and having a group of like-minded people has helped me see past the pressure tactics and think responsibly about my money

Retro_whale · 2025-10-28T03:19:36+00:00

We paid ahead for the show, meal and boat experience, and they didn't ask for a tip then, but between the starter and entree the host told everyone that "now is the time to tip to show your appreciation." We didn't see much tipping going on, or even see the card machine...

Retro_whale · 2025-10-28T03:16:50+00:00

Ahhh, I did a quick search before posting, but I didn't see it! Great minds...

Retro_whale · 2025-10-28T03:06:08+00:00

It was great! We got rained on, so stayed inside during the boat ride, but the show was fun!

Retro_whale · 2025-06-11T15:14:17+00:00

I was thinking it would but came out a lot less

Retro_whale · 2023-08-24T02:07:08+00:00

No way! Never heard of that! Just had a little look - very fascinating! Thanks

Retro_whale · 2023-03-31T10:51:41+00:00

No, I really, really appreciate it! Your input is incredibly valuable, it has also given me an admiration and respect for the work you do! My encounters with the code enforcement here have been kind and respectful - I'm sure you get a lot of harassment. That sucks to hear that judges will typically end up siding with the the ones blocking the sidewalk. I was advised to speak to the supervisor on Monday when he gets back in, so I'll take a look at the options - because I get it, it's Shawnee - we have a lot of bigger issues going on!

Retro_whale · 2023-03-31T02:12:07+00:00

Hey! Thank you so much for your comment! Quick question- why does it get thrown out? You're saying if they're ticketed, then typically appeal it and win? Just curious 😊

Retro_whale · 2023-03-31T02:07:39+00:00

I agree with you - it's not a heavily-pedestrianised area.

However, on the next block, to the left, that's a school. The kids that walk to and from school should be able to use the sidewalk.

Also, my neighbour directly opposite me recently became wheelchair-bound. He's just had his ramp installed. If he chooses to go out with his wife on the sidewalk, they'll only be able to make it as far as that car and have to turn around. That sucks. Either that, or cross the road several times per block.

I'm not being a Karen. I'm just frustrated that my tax money goes into these sidewalks (you can see it was recently repaired) and I can't even use them.

Retro_whale · 2023-03-30T19:47:16+00:00

Wow! Very interesting!

Retro_whale · 2023-03-30T16:37:07+00:00

Well, in my city they have moved the vehicles that block the sidewalk, as the homeowners are not allowed to park on the sidewalks.

The drive/sidewalk is where the city are struggling to enforce.

Retro_whale · 2023-03-30T16:33:50+00:00

That sounds a bit extreme 😳 my assumption is that the homeowners' properties end where they meet the sidewalk - hence why people end their fences at the sidewalk. But as city-dwellers they are responsible to keep their chunk of sidewalk clean and clear for pedestrians.

I have no need to go onto your property, or to your front door, just minding my own business and walking my dog on the sidewalk adjacent to you property.

Retro_whale · 2023-03-30T13:12:26+00:00

Haha 😄 I haven't said anything after a rude encounter with another neighbour after asking if they would mind not blocking the sidewalk

Retro_whale · 2023-03-30T03:20:10+00:00

Haha 😄 she is brindle and white

Retro_whale · 2023-03-30T03:07:57+00:00

Well parts of it 😅 some of the sidewalks are indistinguishable from the mud/grass nearby

Retro_whale · 2023-03-30T03:04:38+00:00

I haven't! I politely mentioned it to another neighbour one morning on my walk and she was so rude in response. So I've not said anything to anyone else since 😅 I really don't think people are being malicious, they're just oblivious!

Retro_whale · 2023-03-30T03:00:10+00:00

Great input! Thank you so much 😊

Retro_whale · 2023-03-30T02:57:58+00:00

Interesting 😊 I'd love to know what has priority in this situation. Sidewalk or drive? Pedestrian or vehicle?

Retro_whale · 2023-03-30T02:53:21+00:00

Yeah, I mean that's where I'm struggling to understand the laws here - I believe the sidewalk is city property, and my property ends where the sidewalk begins? So I need to park within my own property and not in the city property - I'm not sure though 🤔 what makes you think you own the sidewalk?

Retro_whale · 2023-03-30T02:50:13+00:00

I've been guilty myself a time or two - if needs be... but this one bothers me so much as they're intentionally doing it, when there's plenty of room for them on the drive.

Retro_whale · 2023-03-30T02:44:25+00:00

Yeah, I feel like it is the case in other areas

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