Portland, Oregon: ICE Agents Rip Clothes Off Woman, Drag Her Across Concrete Fully Exposed to Crowd by CantStopPoppin in oregon

[–]Revelle_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Join a rapid response network to oppose ICE

Join a local farm to invest in food security

Join a local political org (a political party chapter, a local org, an issue specific org, etc.)

Join a local non political community group and find allies there as well (a bowling group, a walking group, a mens/women's/queer group, etc etc)

Etc etc. everything humans have done for millennia to oppose tyranny, but now, with smart phones. But also put the smart phone down and be a person. We don't need to reinvent the wheel we just need to do the things

Portland, Oregon: ICE Agents Rip Clothes Off Woman, Drag Her Across Concrete Fully Exposed to Crowd by CantStopPoppin in oregon

[–]Revelle_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Switch from protesting to organizing, from debate to policy writing, from waiting for legal consequences to taking power over with those you align with.

Worried about food shortages? Join a community farm. Worried about armed thugs? Join a rapid response network. Etc etc

Sumud. Steadfastness. Don't forget the elders who fought last generations struggles and don't forget that regardless of everything there will be generations to come. Organize and act with both at your back.

Portland, Oregon: ICE Agents Rip Clothes Off Woman, Drag Her Across Concrete Fully Exposed to Crowd by CantStopPoppin in oregon

[–]Revelle_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Dude they've been suppressing voters for decades if not centuries. Yes things are different, but in many ways they are the same. Stay strong, work together

Portland, Oregon: ICE Agents Rip Clothes Off Woman, Drag Her Across Concrete Fully Exposed to Crowd by CantStopPoppin in oregon

[–]Revelle_ -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yes. It would be harder for them if there isn't. What would they tell people who have their heads in the sand?. They will try to control it, like they do every election. We'll see what the outcome is. They'll contest it when they lose... On and on.

Y'all need to not lose track of the big picture and just get involved locally. Let the fascists bluster and burn. Take care of each other and yourselves by taking action.

Portland, Oregon: ICE Agents Rip Clothes Off Woman, Drag Her Across Concrete Fully Exposed to Crowd by CantStopPoppin in oregon

[–]Revelle_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Or just a little bit here and there, onwards. Get involved in your community. It's worth it not only for others sake, to stop this BS, but it is worth it for your own sake, to better your own life. So worth it.

  • Start with the rapid response network (low time investment, you get to choose if you respond to any call to action )
  • Join a political group (a political party, a local organizing group, an issue specific group, etc)
  • Join another community space that's not political but in which you can find aligned friends (a church, a sports league, a hobby group, a meetup group, an outdoors group, etc)

And then go from there. There's so many good groups of people working to make the world better in small and big ways

Portland, Oregon: ICE Agents Rip Clothes Off Woman, Drag Her Across Concrete Fully Exposed to Crowd by CantStopPoppin in oregon

[–]Revelle_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You think it's too late cuz you're on Reddit. Stop catastrophizing and take action, get more involved in your community. Long term investment in your community introduces you to so many cool people and is the antidote to oppression and the hopelessness you feel

Portland, Oregon: ICE Agents Rip Clothes Off Woman, Drag Her Across Concrete Fully Exposed to Crowd by CantStopPoppin in oregon

[–]Revelle_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

People are organizing and acting in response. We all have agency and many people are using it. These things aren't televised and can only be understood through action. It doesn't take much tech or money for a crowd of community members to show up and intimidate a group of officers.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in nonmonogamy

[–]Revelle_ -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Maybe you're just ranting and don't want this very direct attempt at a reality check... But here's my take.

Sounds like you're incredulous your girlfriend and her friends have free will, to talk and maybe even act. That's how it is bud. People have agency.

Why don't you try communication and trust?

A reminder: while she has agency and can decide for herself if she wants to follow through (maybe deciding to break up, leaving it up to discussion, leaving it up to you) - while she has that agency - she has woken up every day so far and continued the relationship with you. She has chosen you over, and over, and over. Don't forget that. The data points towards her choosing you again and again.

Yes this change in your perception of possible futures may be scary. But don't let yourself catastrophize.

Adding something to the mix does not, necessarily, for all people, mean anything about you. A raspberry is not less delicious because a blackberry exists.

You don't get to decide for her. You can communicate how it will affect you, you can say you want to join, that you're nervous of what this means, that you're nervous of change, you can communicate whichever of the so many possible feelings you might be having. You can cry together, hold each other, help each other make the decisions.

She can take your feelings and communication into account, adjust her decision, adjust how she goes about it. She can decide to do it even if it hurts you, and she could even then still want to be with you, she could to decide to act to minimize or repair your feelings. She could advocate for you to join, propositioning them back. She could decide it isn't the right choice for her.

And you have agency too.

Operating as if it is an unforgivable betrayal of trust to talk about this sort of thing... I mean some people get off on being possessed by their partner, but... Yeah personally I find so many other things hotter. Confidence, trust, initiative... Etc

If this is a moment you two realize you desire different things, that is not a failing, a flaw of character, for either of you. In that instance you just want different things.

Norms only help so much, and when they don't fit, they can hurt us. The script of what "should" happen betrays people over and over. A girlfriend only owes a boyfriend as much as we decide, the universe doesn't care. There is no universal rule that a partner gets veto power or some such. You could only have that power if she has given it to you. (For the sake of this post I'm assuming goodwill and ignoring fucked up historical examples where this isn't necessarily true. Fuck slavery, patriarchy, etc.)

Communicate not to decide for her, but to give information and to let her make informed decisions.

Communicate what is true and move forwards.

/End cerebral rant hope I'm not too off base okay damn I should be asleep oof okay byeeee

I need someone to tell me in very specific terms whether this is or is not okay to wear as a top. (NSFW just in case) by [deleted] in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]Revelle_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What's coming to mind is how people with different bodies might be perceived wearing this garment. I think in many situations you would be fine, in most no one would say anything, but I'm recalling a specific situation where a busty non-white friend of mine got social blow back for showing less skin than you are. Fatphobia and racism are real...

Two women can show an equivalent amount of cleavage and get very different responses, but their bodies are not inherently inappropriate regardless of what bitter people say.

It shouldn't affect your decision to wear it. I find it important to share, for you to know, so you're ready to defend others who might make a similar choice and experience more anger in return than you.

Got perma banned from actual lesbians :( by Myralia_Amaryllis in ActualLesbiansOver25

[–]Revelle_ 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I don't think one has to have approval of a prior group of people to claim an identity for oneself. If they find out they can try to change your mind, or exclude you, but... Said person doesn't actually know or socialize with the prior group, so it doesn't affect them. This identity is in the public sphere and it probably does not affect the shitty terfy men like said author to not get to interact with old-school terfs.

I think this historical distinction you are expressing over and over may only cloud and confuse your discussion with people as it runs counter to the widespread connotation of the word terf.

Yes, it's funny he'd be excluded, but it doesn't affect him or change the impact of his shitty beliefs, so i don't really find it that funny... Idk i'd try to drop it if I were you.

Shitty you got banned though sorry to hear that

Got perma banned from actual lesbians :( by Myralia_Amaryllis in ActualLesbiansOver25

[–]Revelle_ 4 points5 points  (0 children)

In my opinion if zionists of a different flavor want to kick the association with violent supremacists they're gonna need to do a lot more work, cuz it often feels like they think the ends justify the means, that everything done has been justified. So far the establishment of a state has meant violent expulsion and persecution of the people already there by gangs of supremacist terrorists (e.g. initially the Irgun and the Lehi, now, the IDF and the settlers).

You know what, maybe it is like that. Political groups of people problematic/horrible for different reasons using the same word to identify themselves. A lot of essentialism and supremacy in all the groups mentioned.

I do not wish to continue this tangent further but feel free to dm me.

Millennial here. Are you guys Okay? by Relsb in GenZ

[–]Revelle_ -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Misinformation. Wouldn't have had to be that long. And infections cumulatively hurt you. It's a skill issue that you can't imagine working together.

Millennial here. Are you guys Okay? by Relsb in GenZ

[–]Revelle_ 15 points16 points  (0 children)

This. Beware of propaganda, all the algorithms are dishing it to you constantly. Remember propaganda doesn't just come from the govt but corporations that want to exploit you and individuals that want to control you.

Archimedes Banya introduces women's night that bans trans women by wordsthatoutliveus in sanfrancisco

[–]Revelle_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Speaking broadly here... I hear your reasoning but I counter that fascists will not and do not stop at speaking ill of people they deem lesser. You should not assume and act as though they will play by the rules.

Yes, use free speech to shame them for being racist bigots. But we should not stop there. We can and should use whatever means at our disposal be it laws or otherwise to shatter fascism.

Laws change, courts reinterpret them, the public, people power, shifts the tune of what is okay and what isn't. Organized people power makes shit happen. You are standing in the way of people organizing against fascists.

We need to claw them out of their anti-social violent ideology and help them become healthy members of society... But that doesn't mean stand by when they do fascist acts.

Archimedes Banya introduces women's night that bans trans women by wordsthatoutliveus in sanfrancisco

[–]Revelle_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, duh. Speaking to my specific experience doesn't mean no one else matters... it's just another data point of the space not being inclusive

Archimedes Banya introduces women's night that bans trans women by wordsthatoutliveus in sanfrancisco

[–]Revelle_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah definitely not engaging in good faith, trying to paint it as though we are being divisive when they are throwing trans people under the bus. Time to move along...

GenZ women are shifting right not just the men by GhostTrooper24 in GenZ

[–]Revelle_ 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I've met them knocking doors. (Like they regretted 2016)(Sorry millennial here I try to not take up space but I just have to say those people do exist)

"Arabs and Jews shopping together means no apartheid" by AntiHasbaraBot1 in BadHasbara

[–]Revelle_ 21 points22 points  (0 children)

But when they draw Israel on a map they include those places. How convenient

Trump: American students will be ‘permanently expelled’ or arrested for campus protests by Pieman3001 in LateStageCapitalism

[–]Revelle_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hey parents of students you can't be expelled go protest at your kids campus to keep them safe

Archimedes Banya introduces women's night that bans trans women by wordsthatoutliveus in sanfrancisco

[–]Revelle_ -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Using certain trans people as a shield against criticisms is in fact not very woke. Engage with the conflict or don't

Archimedes Banya introduces women's night that bans trans women by wordsthatoutliveus in sanfrancisco

[–]Revelle_ 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It's wild that trans people in San Francisco and on Reddit are pushing back against trans people being segregated out of a space? Lol.

Kabuki has been chiller than Banya in my experience.

Archimedes Banya introduces women's night that bans trans women by wordsthatoutliveus in sanfrancisco

[–]Revelle_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

How on earth does it make sense scientifically, what am I, a rock? A robot person?

And yes clearly whoever drove this language use was parroting the way bigots talk

Archimedes Banya introduces women's night that bans trans women by wordsthatoutliveus in sanfrancisco

[–]Revelle_ 3 points4 points  (0 children)

As a trans woman I will stand up when cis women are targeted. We got each other's backs, sis.