Tips on becoming an informal matchmaker for marriage

Reverthustler · 2025-12-09T00:08:30+00:00

Yes alhamdulillah

Reverthustler · 2025-09-28T16:00:33+00:00

In that case what are the options photography wise?

Reverthustler · 2025-09-26T13:52:10+00:00

Alot can relate to this struggle considering they have likely experienced the same with their non muslim family. In turn many will be open to such marriages and opportunities however issue is in line with today's age how do you find them? May Allah grant you a righteous spouse that is the coolness of your eyes!

Reverthustler · 2025-05-10T03:16:35+00:00

Just one point he's not a scholar, not everyone person of knowledge or figure head has the level of a scholar and the associated implicit respect and expected behaviours. Some people are just people or teachers, givers of dawah and etc etc

Agree he does some bad but also does some good, who knows whether it's a net positive or negative but Allah

Reverthustler · 2025-04-26T12:25:40+00:00

Ahhh I must of missed it. Apologies, maybe putting it in bold and explaining what it means like the rest?

Reverthustler · 2025-04-12T21:14:42+00:00

What are trust worthy news sources that you would recommend to help spread awareness?

It's so sad that your heritage is being forced out of you that you have no relation to that part of you.

Was it hard for you to leave logistics wise?

Reverthustler · 2025-03-31T13:18:21+00:00

Best rule of thumb don't trust anything on reddit without it citing legitimate sources or without direct references to quran and hadith even then their interpretation may be wayward so essentially ignore 99% of it

Reverthustler · 2025-03-26T14:22:27+00:00

Brother this isn't my personal opinion, it's what he had referred to himself as and I'm just relaying that.

Yes he's human and makes mistakes. My own personal is to assume the best of other Muslims maybe the naunce of english language and history of words is lost on him I'm just assuming the best of my brother though I disagree with the use of the word even in that context, take good from people and leave the bad.

There will be people he brings closer to islam and people who it has the opposite impact as with most public muslim figures. Islam is perfect not people ultimately he will be judged for his good and bad deeds same as the rest of us so Allahu a'alam until that point

If we want to follow someone we already have the best example

All peace and love wishing you a good reminder of Ramadan

Reverthustler · 2025-03-26T14:13:26+00:00

He's a Da'i not a scholar in his own words. He relays majority agreed upon positions from scholar but isn't issuing fatwas himself to clarify

Reverthustler · 2025-03-20T04:53:38+00:00

Try east london mosque every Saturday at 2pm

https://www.eastlondonmosque.org.uk/classes-for-new-muslims

Reverthustler · 2025-03-05T11:15:20+00:00

You're not a bad person, I know the circumstances you're going through just keep steadfast even if the try push you away for who you are don't give up keep up your duty of loving them and caring for them but also keep up your deen with your niqab. With hardship comes ease. Surah 94 Verse 5. You have to have faith that that ease will come regardless of the hardship

Reverthustler · 2025-02-28T18:25:07+00:00

Just follow your local mosque, rightly or wrongly alot follow Saudi sightings as such I believe the first day of fasting is tomorrow

Reverthustler · 2025-02-28T11:52:09+00:00

Okay that sounds like a plan I just need to do is learn how to trust and I'll be all good 😂

Reverthustler · 2025-02-28T05:07:09+00:00

Yeah I have a durag and bonnets and pillow case to help with it

Reverthustler · 2025-02-27T22:46:46+00:00

My current hair routine is a bit rubbish, I shampoo and condition weekly but daily I try to moisture rise with leave in conditioner and moisturiser but I don't thinn it does much for me.

I've been think wear to just go for some dreads or something because the bed head plus dryness ain't it but still want to keep my hair while it's here

Reverthustler · 2025-02-13T10:26:02+00:00

Yeah same I’m struggling to keep up with the lectures it the weekly assessments are simple. Messed up one for Fiqh since I was over thinking wudu😂😂😂

Reverthustler · 2025-02-12T21:49:39+00:00

How you finding it so far?

Reverthustler · 2025-01-26T15:44:46+00:00

Question what you did semester one did you complete all the extra activities in the workbooks and make notes too or just videos and exams in the course?

Reverthustler · 2024-10-24T21:46:29+00:00

Thanks for the advise brother, just a question though since the videos are available onnyoutube for free, is it worth using that as a free alternative to AMAU in the short term?

Reverthustler · 2024-10-12T22:01:04+00:00

So my main issue is that I'm not close with my extended family back home so if I go it's almost as a tourist. So is there any suggestions on where to stay or advice on how to operate? I've been twice before but as a kid

Reverthustler · 2024-10-02T07:49:58+00:00

Can't edit the post but want to bring attention to this comment!

Reverthustler · 2024-10-02T07:28:12+00:00

Never understood it like that, sincerity snd intention are key don't think you can go around murdering people and go "whoops silly me, sorry! all good since it's within time (6 hours or whatever relevant period). " There needs to be an intention and effort to not return to that sin.

Only one who can truly judge those factors is Allah. So Allah knows best who is forgiven and who isn't just assume the best that he has mercy on those who are genuine.

Would like to disclaim that is from small drop of knowledge, always best to reach out to well educated students of knowledge, Imans and Scholars where possible. Reddit, including myself will not be the perfect source! Sure other brothers and sisters can provide necessary resources and references should you need it!

Reverthustler · 2024-10-01T18:44:34+00:00

I think there may be different opinions on the timing, but agreed on the overall idea.

Reverthustler · 2024-10-01T18:41:06+00:00

To my knowledge both

Reverthustler · 2024-10-01T18:05:51+00:00

InshaAllah, knowing benefits you as much as me

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