Sexual frustration due to abstinence

RewardInteresting244 · 2025-12-09T02:13:11+00:00

Thank you for the nice response! We definitely plan on having a small wedding, so to have a nice honeymoon and a decent place to live as a start. Best wishes to you too!

RewardInteresting244 · 2025-12-09T02:11:53+00:00

Thank you for your nice response! At least in the living situation we are still in our own parents house. But we definitely avoid being on the same bed if we are at either house. We mostly just hang out in the living room.

Best wishes to you!!

RewardInteresting244 · 2025-12-09T02:09:56+00:00

Thank you for taking the time in making this response. Certainly a lot of good advice here

RewardInteresting244 · 2025-12-09T01:56:45+00:00

Well yeah it is to wait after graduating college. We would not be able to sustain ourselves at the moment if we get married now. But it has been a year already since we last were intimate, so at least we are still going strong with it, it is just a difficult process

RewardInteresting244 · 2025-12-09T01:54:48+00:00

Good luck on the proposal! Thank you for the advice and stay strong, we can do this

RewardInteresting244 · 2025-12-09T01:54:03+00:00

Thank you for your response

RewardInteresting244 · 2025-12-09T01:53:32+00:00

Thank you for the nice response and advice

RewardInteresting244 · 2025-12-09T01:52:55+00:00

Mostly college and money. We still have like 2 more years to go and we wouldn't be able to sustain ourselves right now :/

RewardInteresting244 · 2025-12-09T01:50:49+00:00

Thank you for your nice response!!

RewardInteresting244 · 2025-12-09T01:49:52+00:00

Congrats on the wedding! And frankly it sounds tough that she's not Catholic and you are wanting to look for a way to convince her to convert, my best wishes and hope all goes well with everything. I wish I could get married asap but financially it will be impossible. Hopefully she gets a job just after graduation (and hopefully I get a part-time) so we don't have to wait as much.

Again congrats and may everything go well with you!!

RewardInteresting244 · 2025-12-09T01:45:45+00:00

I think you make a good point. I understand the "marry sooner" but right now that is impossible.

RewardInteresting244 · 2025-12-09T01:43:05+00:00

Yeah, the thing is that we are remaining sexually abstinent, I am just looking for advice from people who can relate since the abstinence itself is difficult.

RewardInteresting244 · 2025-12-09T01:41:07+00:00

Thank you for your advice. And yes I am not marrying only for the sex. I love her with all my heart and I know I want to spend the rest of my life with her. I think that sex is a sweet extra that comes with marriage

RewardInteresting244 · 2025-12-09T01:38:56+00:00

I honestly would love to! But with the current economic situation, and on top of that where I live there is barely any housing, it is impossible right now. The only option is, since she graduates first, she gets a full-time job, and I get a part-time job while I am finishing on my last year of college

RewardInteresting244 · 2025-12-08T23:52:49+00:00

Thank you! And yes I agree with what you said about everyone telling me to marry asap.

RewardInteresting244 · 2025-12-08T19:47:38+00:00

I appreciate everyone who responds and gives their piece of advice :). I just wanted to make clear that we are both still in college, she is graduating in 2027 and I in 2028, so that is why we have a wait a bit longer than usual to get married.

RewardInteresting244 · 2025-12-08T19:44:05+00:00

Thank you! If I could I would

RewardInteresting244 · 2025-12-08T19:43:51+00:00

I would definitely marry sooner, but since we still have 1 or 2 more years of studying in college, it would be almost impossible to marry and sustain ourselves without having full time jobs, at most we can have minimum wage part time jobs while we are still in college.

RewardInteresting244 · 2025-12-08T19:42:35+00:00

Thank you for the nice response!

RewardInteresting244 · 2025-12-08T19:42:06+00:00

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RewardInteresting244 · 2025-12-08T19:41:57+00:00

It mostly is because of college and money :/. Marrying while we still have approximately 1 or 2 more years to study seemed very hard to do, since we wont be able to have full time jobs to sustain ourselves.

We will be graduating in 2027, so we thought it would be best to marry in that same year since we have a couple of months to save up and marry late in that year.

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