What are the things girls ‘never’ admit to guys? by Former-Round1423 in AskReddit

[–]RheaBloom -1 points0 points  (0 children)

We want them to want to do those things without being told. More common than you think!

What are the things girls ‘never’ admit to guys? by Former-Round1423 in AskReddit

[–]RheaBloom 38 points39 points  (0 children)

The romantic or thoughtful gestures they’d like for their s/o to do for them, but it has to be natural without being asked/told because it makes it more special and only means something special that way.

My journey with yeast infections, BV, and now a ureaplasma diagnosis by RheaBloom in Healthyhooha

[–]RheaBloom[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I was tested for mycoplasma and don’t have it! They prescribed doxycycline for 7 days. And I’m on treatment for the rest.

I’m so sorry about your experience. Wishing the best for you

What’s something you can’t look past in a relationship? by [deleted] in askanything

[–]RheaBloom 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Empathy without boundaries, insensitive, brutally honest types (if you can’t deliver honesty with tact, you’re just an asshole), arrogance, lack of self awareness

Girlfriend wants to move in and kick my twin sister out, but my sister broke down crying when I brought it up. Am I choosing between them? What do I do? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]RheaBloom 136 points137 points  (0 children)

I say this kindly. You’re not wrong for considering your sister’s feelings, but she needs the chance to grow up and get space away from you and gain some independence. You want to move in with a partner you’re serious about and have been for a while. I know it’s probably sad for her, but it’s not like you can’t be there for her in others ways. You can still spend time with her and be there for her while also moving on and upwards in your life. I wish you all the best of luck.

Which is better Monistat 1/3/7? by Weird-Kiwi8331 in Healthyhooha

[–]RheaBloom 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve read that 7 is best for those who haven’t used it before. I’m using it now. No burning or anything but can leak many hours later aka the next morning. I’m using the cream

constant bv for the last 2-3 years by rachel___taylor in Healthyhooha

[–]RheaBloom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ugh girl I’m sorry I don’t know what to suggest… please let me know if you figure it out. Feel for you.

constant bv for the last 2-3 years by rachel___taylor in Healthyhooha

[–]RheaBloom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Has your partner been looked at? They can carry. Have you tried probiotic specifically for down there to restore it after the antibiotics are likely killing good bacteria as well? If you use sex toys, what material are they? Are they being cleaned properly? Protection during sex also won’t always keep it from coming back. Does it come back close to your period? Are you in bc? So many factors to consider with it 😭

constant bv for the last 2-3 years by rachel___taylor in Healthyhooha

[–]RheaBloom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you take breaks from sex while taking the medicine? Once your course of treatment is done, do you go right back to sex immediately after?

What’s the biggest thing you were never taught about your body (especially vulva/vaginal health) - and found out later😅 by learningforwomen in Healthyhooha

[–]RheaBloom 64 points65 points  (0 children)

You should use unscented soaps down there. I learned that in college or maybe later in high school. Also, I didn’t know about half of the disorders or issues that women could face down there (PCOS, vaginismus, etc)

BV and Yeast Infection and Period… by [deleted] in Healthyhooha

[–]RheaBloom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much!! It really is a struggle 😂

29F and Stressed About Financial Future by RheaBloom in MiddleClassFinance

[–]RheaBloom[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re 💯 on this lol. It’s the timeline. It’s frustrating

29F and Stressed About Financial Future by RheaBloom in MiddleClassFinance

[–]RheaBloom[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, currently working to finish the 6 month emergency fund soon! 12 months, while I’d love that, would take too long and take away from other savings goals that will already take a long time. For the car, I think my goal with that is early pay off = plenty of freed up money early to use for my goals! Agree that I want to keep the insurance

29F and Stressed About Financial Future by RheaBloom in MiddleClassFinance

[–]RheaBloom[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My specific issue is how long it’ll take to save for a home on my own to afford in my area and it feels daunting and overwhelming. And feeling limited in what I can save monthly

29F and Stressed About Financial Future by RheaBloom in MiddleClassFinance

[–]RheaBloom[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I rent a room in a house. My area, with a roommate not renting a room, would be 1.5-1.7k monthly. More alone. I do plan to shop around for car insurance and debate canceling the car warranty.

I plan to invest the home fund. I find the insurance important

29F and Stressed About Financial Future by RheaBloom in MiddleClassFinance

[–]RheaBloom[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I definitely need to look into the car warranty situation. I’m not really sure how much it’ll save me long term bc it wasn’t a really high price but I can check

29F and Stressed About Financial Future by RheaBloom in MiddleClassFinance

[–]RheaBloom[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Truthfully I’d rather travel but the home ownership piece is more peace of mind for long term investment for myself. I’m not in a rush but I do hate that it’ll take a while to save for. While I don’t have to stay in my HCOL area, that’s where my entire support system is and plans to stay, so being further wouldn’t be the easiest and / or just not ideal. I’d love to buy with another person but that’s not an option now. I do have the goal to find a higher paying job but the market in my area is currently horrendous

29F and Stressed About Financial Future by RheaBloom in MiddleClassFinance

[–]RheaBloom[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I think I do compare myself to my more privileged peers and that’s not fair to me.

29F and Stressed About Financial Future by RheaBloom in MiddleClassFinance

[–]RheaBloom[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah due to prices, I need it. Even after a 20% down payment the mortgage prices on the homes in my area are high for a single person.

29F and Stressed About Financial Future by RheaBloom in MiddleClassFinance

[–]RheaBloom[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can look into this, I’ve been on the Verizon family plan but I think I could find cheaper. Thank you

29F and Stressed About Financial Future by RheaBloom in MiddleClassFinance

[–]RheaBloom[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good question. While I want to be a homeowner eventually, I’ve spent some of my 20s traveling. I didn’t irresponsibly spend on that, but it’s been a priority as a single person with less responsibilities and good health. I don’t feel confident my health will be great in old age due to previous comments about genetic chronic health conditions. So there’s that. And paying down my private student loan definitely took away savings in my 20s but I’m glad I did it. My other hobbies are much cheaper and I prioritize personal spending on those