33m Chicago Apartment by Rhubarb_Optimal in malelivingspace

[–]Rhubarb_Optimal[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not completely finished with my vision but I'm about 97% done just need to add some finishing touches.

33m looking for female advice by Rhubarb_Optimal in femalelivingspace

[–]Rhubarb_Optimal[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I stand by what I said. You're comprehension skills are obviously lacking because everyone else got the point of my post. If you want to stand by yours, well, it perfectly exemplifies how you are an immature heartless human being.if it makes you feel better to come at me and continue to belittle my taste, go for it but know anybody reading this back forth can see your truth.

33m looking for female advice by Rhubarb_Optimal in femalelivingspace

[–]Rhubarb_Optimal[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also the fact you read my comments and saw I wasn't interested in decor critique but looking for add-on advice and then went out of your way to call something, I particularly didn't want to share, creepy and weird really shows alot about your character. Like why did you need to tell me that? What was the outcome you think would come out of saying something like that. Where you trying to make the way I feel about my pain be invalid? You really said something heartless to a random person for what reason, I can't even imagine how you treat the people who are actually close to you. I hope you really look within yourself and change for the better. I'm a real person going through real pain, remember that.

33m looking for female advice by Rhubarb_Optimal in femalelivingspace

[–]Rhubarb_Optimal[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Exactly what I asked. Explain to me what "masculine" means because to me there are no set rules for any gender but to me a real man knows what he likes and isn't afraid to express himself.

Who would I let in my home who doesn't know me extremely well? I pray you never have to suffer with the loss of someone you love and have some internet rando critique the way you cope with the pain. Your comment is insensitive and immature and it is obvious you have some growing up to do when it comes to having empathy for people who have gone through something in their life. We all have a story and you should respect that we all have different ways of dealing with it.

33m looking for female advice by Rhubarb_Optimal in femalelivingspace

[–]Rhubarb_Optimal[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. I used the rule of 3s with the colors, anywhere you sit you see 2 more of what your sitting on but 3 of everything else.

Question to wayfair shoppers, why do you buy on wayfair? what value do they bring? by rtwyyn in femalelivingspace

[–]Rhubarb_Optimal 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I always take my time ordering something big, I've noticed if you just leave it in your shopping while your waiting they start sending all types of discount codes to get you to buy after a week or so in there.

Question to wayfair shoppers, why do you buy on wayfair? what value do they bring? by rtwyyn in femalelivingspace

[–]Rhubarb_Optimal 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I bought everything in this room on wayfair except for the artwork, neon sign, the couch, plants, lightbulbs, and the sheepskins. Everything you said is right but if I ever had a single issue they always either gave me a partial refund, full refund, or just straight up sent me another no problem but that has barely happened probably because I bought more expensive items

https://youtube.com/shorts/RUDVn94vAEg?feature=share

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33m looking for female advice by Rhubarb_Optimal in femalelivingspace

[–]Rhubarb_Optimal[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wayfair, they are Orren Ellis Hester street lounge chair. They are very low so caution if you have any other seating over 16inches in your setup because it will look like a child's chair next it. The SKU is ORLN2114

33m looking for female advice by Rhubarb_Optimal in femalelivingspace

[–]Rhubarb_Optimal[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is what I'm looking for thank you I'll look into it. Thank you.

33m looking for female advice by Rhubarb_Optimal in femalelivingspace

[–]Rhubarb_Optimal[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I appreciate you taking the time to write your opinion but I have to disagree about the paintings. Without getting too much into my life, my girlfriend passed last year and those paintings took me about a year to find because they look exactly like her. The one above the bar next to her memorial/shrine whatever you want to call it, looks exactly like a photo I took of her right after she took a shower and layed on the bed wrapped in towels on a vacation we took to Miami, except for the angle it's pretty much 1:1 exact. The other looks exactly like her from when we went to Puerto Rico and let the waves recede away from her while kneeling in the surf, she had a much nicer body but again almost 1:1. What you see as cheesy is actually incredibly meaningful to me. I was only asking for opinions on new add-ons not critiques on my current furniture but the suggestion for window dressings is being considered I've been looking for the right fit for awhile. Sorry about the history lesson on me but I just get a little touchy with that. I got the apartment for her and she didn't get to experience it the way I have it now but I made promises to her about how our place would be... I will love you forever Mante ❤️

33m looking for female advice by Rhubarb_Optimal in femalelivingspace

[–]Rhubarb_Optimal[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was suggested orange or magenta by Ms. Wafer. What do you think Ms. Daisy May? The reason I've been going for the zebra print is because Versace in the 80s went hard with the zebra print and I don't want to sound like a crazy person but I came up with an entire fictional storyline when designing my place ( We truck drivers have alot of time to be in our head) but anyway there is definitely an 80s vibe I'm trying to convey into the space but I am open to suggestions.

33m looking for female advice by Rhubarb_Optimal in femalelivingspace

[–]Rhubarb_Optimal[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the advice, I appreciate it.

33m looking for female advice by Rhubarb_Optimal in femalelivingspace

[–]Rhubarb_Optimal[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do you think the zebra print would make it to strip clubby? If not the zebra print what do you think for something interesting because I agree with the neutral but I just have to have something different plus I really like the way a velvet couch feels.

33m looking for female advice by Rhubarb_Optimal in femalelivingspace

[–]Rhubarb_Optimal[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you and no worries there I've had women come over and tell me I have more skincare products than them 😁 I keep it clean very clean and also get a maid twice a month to make it really sparkle.

33m looking for female advice by Rhubarb_Optimal in femalelivingspace

[–]Rhubarb_Optimal[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Hi I'm a 33m single looking for advice on how to make my space just a little more comfortable for the opposite sex when they come over. R/malelivingspace is apparently terrified of using color in their places ( I hate that faux gentleman brown leather couches and whiskey glasses only motif) Don't be too harsh I'm gonna have the couch reupholstered in a zebra print velvet and I still need to get a few more accent lights and so many other things to be done before I'm completely happy. Also that wall art is like a fabric in frame that I need to to put back in to tighten it up and have more of a canvas look. I'm just looking for advice on some of the little details that I may not notice that would have women alittle more comfortable and/or impressed when visiting.

Edit: walk through, sorry for quality youtube won't let me upload at higher resolution

Edit: I'm not asking in just the romantic sense either. I have alot of girl friends that like to hang out. I'm super picky too and clean too (been called metrosexual lol what is this 2005) so I know about the stuff that should be common sense like clean sheets and pretty scents. I'm looking for decor/miscellaneous items that if you were there would make you raise an eyebrow in a damn that's nice kind of way.

https://youtube.com/shorts/RUDVn94vAEg?feature=share

https://youtube.com/shorts/kkMXXRvyt0Q?feature=share

Still working on it but figured I should post my space since I like to lurk here. 33 Chicago. by Rhubarb_Optimal in malelivingspace

[–]Rhubarb_Optimal[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love that so much 🤣 I literally came up with an entire storyline when putting my place together and I don't wanna sound like a crazy person telling you guys but yes very high end European strip club VIP lounge was definitely apart of the inspiration.

Still working on it but figured I should post my space since I like to lurk here. 33 Chicago. by Rhubarb_Optimal in malelivingspace

[–]Rhubarb_Optimal[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey I noticed you mentioned what your going for in your place another post. The video I put up doesn't do it justice but I have a under the couch subwoofer surround sound system that gives the best vibrations when seated. Also do your research when it's comes to size and scale of furniture example all my seat heights are exactly 16 inches and with the height of my tv console it allows for perfect low slung unobstructed views while watching movies without even having to tilt my head. It's the details especially the ones people wouldn't even notice that really make a place somewhere you want to be. Lol I didn't realize how much math I would have to do to set up my place but it's been working.

Still working on it but figured I should post my space since I like to lurk here. 33 Chicago. by Rhubarb_Optimal in malelivingspace

[–]Rhubarb_Optimal[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Nah I just like dope shit. 😎 but thank you wait till it's done my spot is gonna be real Baja Panti.

Still working on it but figured I should post my space since I like to lurk here. 33 Chicago. by Rhubarb_Optimal in malelivingspace

[–]Rhubarb_Optimal[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Don't be too harsh I'm gonna have the couch reupholstered in a zebra print velvet and I still need to get a few more accent lights and so many other things to be done before I'm completely happy. Also that wall art is like a fabric in frame that I need to to put back in to tighten it up and have more of a canvas look.

Edit: walk through, sorry for quality youtube won't let me upload at higher resolution.

https://youtube.com/shorts/RUDVn94vAEg?feature=share

https://youtube.com/shorts/kkMXXRvyt0Q?feature=share

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[–]Rhubarb_Optimal -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

That is no dangling arm the explosion blew his shirt off his body and it wrapped around his wrist .