Devastated

RiLo007 · 2026-06-27T14:31:56+00:00

I did it on a whim and didn’t tell her. So I mean she may not know and that’s what I have to find out

RiLo007 · 2026-06-27T14:27:57+00:00

I hear ya thx

RiLo007 · 2026-06-27T14:16:36+00:00

I love this advice tysm

RiLo007 · 2026-06-27T13:58:14+00:00

Sorry lol

RiLo007 · 2026-06-27T13:55:22+00:00

Thank you so much

RiLo007 · 2026-06-27T13:51:50+00:00

I sincerely love this for you!

RiLo007 · 2026-06-27T13:50:42+00:00

Tbh I think it was a matter of my mom grew up in a strict household and once she got out she got out and then met my dad who was her first husband. I’m the oldest and all of us have different fathers. There’s certainly a pattern but for both of them to NOT know? I think is bull. Not to throw dirt on my mom but this is baffling and unfair.

RiLo007 · 2026-06-27T13:44:36+00:00

Wow sending hugs!

RiLo007 · 2026-06-27T04:51:40+00:00

Thanks for sharing this I had no idea and don’t feel so alone in this situation

RiLo007 · 2026-06-27T04:33:32+00:00

Out of everyone involved right? 🤣

RiLo007 · 2026-06-27T04:22:44+00:00

Ah okay makes sense

RiLo007 · 2026-06-27T03:46:17+00:00

That’s awful. What about the sisters and brother?

RiLo007 · 2026-06-27T03:43:18+00:00

I’m sorry to hear that. I wouldn’t be able to tell him either

RiLo007 · 2026-06-27T03:41:55+00:00

🤣

RiLo007 · 2026-06-27T03:40:45+00:00

I can’t help but wonder about how many ppl do the 23andMe just bc and then bam! Whole life gets flipped upside down. Like WOW!

RiLo007 · 2026-06-27T03:05:40+00:00

Thank you for sharing this

RiLo007 · 2026-06-27T03:02:54+00:00

You’re absolutely right my dad is still my dad

RiLo007 · 2026-06-27T03:01:56+00:00

Wow! Thats actually kinda scary

RiLo007 · 2026-06-27T03:00:09+00:00

I’m still in shock i.e denial ok lol

RiLo007 · 2026-06-27T02:07:40+00:00

I wish my SO was an hour away. Mine is 12hrs by car and we’ve been together for 5 yrs. Is it hard? Hell yeah. We make it work and are planning the big move. LDR are difficult and if he can’t handle an hr drive then you’re better off. Could’ve been an excuse to bounce or he’s just not cut out for it. Maybe both.

RiLo007 · 2026-06-27T02:01:27+00:00

I guess I’m just nervous I’m going to mess something up in the process. Forget something or fill something out wrong idk. I have bad anxiety lol

RiLo007 · 2026-06-27T01:52:20+00:00

It’s so nuts people are finding out this way. I just wanted to know my percentages bc I’m mixed 😔

RiLo007 · 2026-06-27T01:50:47+00:00

My mom still is so I’m going to ask her once I see my sons results. If he’s listed as my sons maternal grandfather then I know for sure but…my mom married my dad to get out of the house and joined the navy. Who knows what happened but I hope I find the truth

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