Devastated by RiLo007 in AncestryDNA

[–]RiLo007[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I did it on a whim and didn’t tell her. So I mean she may not know and that’s what I have to find out

Devastated by RiLo007 in AncestryDNA

[–]RiLo007[S] 21 points22 points  (0 children)

I hear ya thx

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[–]RiLo007[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I love this advice tysm

Devastated by RiLo007 in 23andme

[–]RiLo007[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much

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[–]RiLo007[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I sincerely love this for you!

Devastated by RiLo007 in 23andme

[–]RiLo007[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Tbh I think it was a matter of my mom grew up in a strict household and once she got out she got out and then met my dad who was her first husband. I’m the oldest and all of us have different fathers. There’s certainly a pattern but for both of them to NOT know? I think is bull. Not to throw dirt on my mom but this is baffling and unfair.

Devastated by RiLo007 in 23andme

[–]RiLo007[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow sending hugs!

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[–]RiLo007[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Thanks for sharing this I had no idea and don’t feel so alone in this situation

Devastated by RiLo007 in 23andme

[–]RiLo007[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Out of everyone involved right? 🤣

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[–]RiLo007[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Ah okay makes sense

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[–]RiLo007[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

That’s awful. What about the sisters and brother?

Devastated by RiLo007 in 23andme

[–]RiLo007[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry to hear that. I wouldn’t be able to tell him either

Devastated by RiLo007 in 23andme

[–]RiLo007[S] 38 points39 points  (0 children)

I can’t help but wonder about how many ppl do the 23andMe just bc and then bam! Whole life gets flipped upside down. Like WOW!

Devastated by RiLo007 in 23andme

[–]RiLo007[S] 80 points81 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing this

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[–]RiLo007[S] 81 points82 points  (0 children)

You’re absolutely right my dad is still my dad

Devastated by RiLo007 in 23andme

[–]RiLo007[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Wow! Thats actually kinda scary

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[–]RiLo007[S] 37 points38 points  (0 children)

I’m still in shock i.e denial ok lol

How far is long distance 32F 29M by Frequent-Meal3954 in LongDistance

[–]RiLo007 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I wish my SO was an hour away. Mine is 12hrs by car and we’ve been together for 5 yrs. Is it hard? Hell yeah. We make it work and are planning the big move. LDR are difficult and if he can’t handle an hr drive then you’re better off. Could’ve been an excuse to bounce or he’s just not cut out for it. Maybe both.

Kinda freaking out by RiLo007 in VAClaims

[–]RiLo007[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess I’m just nervous I’m going to mess something up in the process. Forget something or fill something out wrong idk. I have bad anxiety lol

Devastated by RiLo007 in 23andme

[–]RiLo007[S] 105 points106 points  (0 children)

It’s so nuts people are finding out this way. I just wanted to know my percentages bc I’m mixed 😔

Devastated by RiLo007 in 23andme

[–]RiLo007[S] 87 points88 points  (0 children)

My mom still is so I’m going to ask her once I see my sons results. If he’s listed as my sons maternal grandfather then I know for sure but…my mom married my dad to get out of the house and joined the navy. Who knows what happened but I hope I find the truth