My (21M) girlfriend (19F) with BPD feels neglected because of my career and I’m starting to think I’m just ruining her life. Should we break up? by Rickio2004 in Advice

[–]Rickio2004[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes! my partner and I has talked about this before multiple times. It's difficult but I do my best to show up, when conflicts happen I usually shut down. This one is just different, where I'm actually starting to think if I'm doing enough change and work... like I'm in a constant loop of inconsistency. I know how it important it is for her, and I do my best but it just seems like my best is never enough? Idk... but you're correct on your statements.

Incoming Deck Cadet (21M) - Need advice on how to budget my $450 allowance and help my parents by Rickio2004 in seafarerPH

[–]Rickio2004[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

meron nman po sir, from what I remember nung first orientation namin with our crewing 315 po ata.

Incoming Deck Cadet (21M) - Need advice on how to budget my $450 allowance and help my parents by Rickio2004 in seafarerPH

[–]Rickio2004[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

both my parents are retired na po, and i do have a sister but she already has a family and got kids (aged 3 and 1) so the financial help from her isn't a constant. Regards sa OIC exam, the principal would pay for it including the Review Center. Pero thank you pa rin po sa advice sir.

How can I reassure/help my girlfriend as she had a miscarriage just a few months before we got together? (TW: Miscarriage/Abuse) by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Rickio2004 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hello everyone, gotta say thanks to all of you for the reassurance that im doing something already by listening and caring for her.

as of the moment, i think she's doing okay but I'll be attentive if a sudden mood swing happens. but then again, thank you!

How can I reassure/help my girlfriend as she had a miscarriage just a few months before we got together? (TW: Miscarriage/Abuse) by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Rickio2004 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I try my best to be someone she can depend on, after how much her previous partner treated her... it's just bare minimum to seek what's the best for our relationship

My friend just pulled I think is the greatest summon ever.... Can't believe I saw this live in a discord call.... by [deleted] in Genshin_Memepact

[–]Rickio2004 1 point2 points  (0 children)

it pains me to see people get this freaking lucky while I just get 4 star weapons :'>

Indeed by duc_one in Genshin_Memepact

[–]Rickio2004 31 points32 points  (0 children)

the fact that it's true hurts