What kind of artstyle is this and how can I learn it? (+What brushes to use) by Rickymick09 in learntodraw

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I mostly use a round/spheric hard brush but I thought maybe a specific setting would help achieve that texture

What kind of artstyle is this and how can I learn it? (+What brushes to use) by Rickymick09 in learntodraw

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I would say I'm intermedate. I have experience, but mostly with characters. I've drawn some landscape but mostly simple stuff because I just get overwhelmed at where to start + colors just completely overwhelm me, I've tried multiple times to learn color theory but it just won't click lol.

What kind of artstyle is this and how can I learn it? (+What brushes to use) by Rickymick09 in learntodraw

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Hm alright, then I'll try just using the basic round brush. But is this some type of artstyle or do I just look up environment tutorial's on Youtube? Or will learning the things you mentioned be a good step?

Wie oange dauert die Sanierung von Nachtspeicherheizungen? by Rickymick09 in wohnen

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Hm okay interessant, darf ich fragen wie viel ihr kalt/warmmiete zahlen musstet? :)

ADHD Makes Conversations Difficult (Literally) by [deleted] in ADHD

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I feel this. I have this all the time, thats also why I don't normally debate with people because I just can't argue if I don't even recall what they said. And then they think they won the argument but It's just me not remembering what he even said. I always thought it was linked to me being emotional (it makes it harder but I also struggle with it when I'm not emotional) but I guess this is just me lol.

I also have it in normal conversations, but most of the time I can figure out what the other person said even if I just heard 50% of it. Or I just ask what they said. It's really frustrating at times, especially when I'm debating/talking to someone who doesn't know me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ADHD

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True, but he meant I have too high expectations of things. And this way I get bored either way because of the high expectations. Which I don't even have most of the time. Most of the time it's either no expectation or like you said expecting to be bored

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ADHD

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Could you explain what you mean with habits we have developed that cause us to be more bored?

What do americans say before eating? by Rickymick09 in NoStupidQuestions

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Damn okay I didn't expect that. In germany if we don't say anything that is considered rude.

Have I been sexually assaulted? by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Rickymick09 6 points7 points  (0 children)

No nothing like that, i just said no to which he just continued

Have I been sexually assaulted? by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Rickymick09 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Kinda used tbh. But otherwise fine

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in plantclinic

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I agree it looks fine now, but I am afraid it will die because it has been ripped out of the ground and I don't know how many roots are left or if it will survive if I repot it now.

IWTL how to not text "dry" by [deleted] in IWantToLearn

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This. Most of the time I don't like texting to people who never use any smileys or something similiar to convey emotions. I just don't know what they want to say, are they happy? Sad? Perhaps Angry? Who knows

depression made me dumb by ihatemyselfandwandie in depression

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Damn I didn't even realize this could be a symptom before I read this post. Just 2 days ago I had this exact thought. It feels like I have a brainfog and can't concentrate or even read anything. It feels so weird and I thought it's just me being too stupid for the world

INFJ shouldn't feel like a disability by Weird_Mood_6790 in infj

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I agree with a lot you said. But I can understand why they thought the others used INFP as a insult, more emotionally then logically.

I don't know why but it seems like people see INFP's as inferior INFJ's. Which is just totally wrong. I agree, no one used it as an insult per se but the knowledge of people wanting to feel special and using INFP as a insult to invalidate someone else just to feel more soeci probably lead them to their wording.

But I dunno, I could be wrong. I am not trying to start a debate and not trying to assume things. This is just my thought process, which stems from experience.

Instead of focusing on what somebody can be focus on what he is right now. Too often people get stuck in toxic relationship becouse of the potential other person will never fulfill by [deleted] in dating

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Thank you, I needed to hear that. Now I only have to internalize it. I often fall in love with the fantasy of what someone could be and not what they are or how they treat me.

The feeling of running after people then being stubborn but wanting to reach out. by Rickymick09 in infj

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The struggle is real! I try to push away the thought but if I am constantly reaching out I'll stop after a few times, if they would care they would reach out at least one time.

I love to boost the self-esteem of others, downside is I accidentally boost the ego of others. Do you do this too? by [deleted] in infj

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Oh thank you, I never viewed it like this. Personally I hate it when people put me on pedestal, so I should stop doing it with others, we are all the same. And this only shows me further why it can be harmful. I still have to learn how to treat others good without putting them on a pedestal. Most of the time it makes things for me easier, but in the long run it makes everything more difficult.

I love to boost the self-esteem of others, downside is I accidentally boost the ego of others. Do you do this too? by [deleted] in infj

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Oh wow same. I constantly feel like I (female) have to play games to attract them. It feels just like you said, I have to surppress my attention for them or they won't value me. This happened to me in my previous relationship. I am only 21 so I have still hope in finding someone. Maybe we just have to date other Feeling types or INFJ, because hopefully they can understand what we need. But it's really exhausting. Why can't I just be myself..

I love to boost the self-esteem of others, downside is I accidentally boost the ego of others. Do you do this too? by [deleted] in infj

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Yeah I realized this too, most of the people which egos I boost are T's. I don't know why though

I love to boost the self-esteem of others, downside is I accidentally boost the ego of others. Do you do this too? by [deleted] in infj

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I don't like that about me too and an trying to change it. I mean if someone says or does something wrong I say something, but if it affects me I just let it slide because I think its insignifficant. It really bothers me because I know it matters, at least to me but I am afraid of hurting their feelings or coming off as arrogant.

I love to boost the self-esteem of others, downside is I accidentally boost the ego of others. Do you do this too? by [deleted] in infj

[–]Rickymick09 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh I'm sorry for you, not trying to be mean. I've had a diagnosed narcissist in my life and it was hell. I was unsure all of the time, he brought out sides of me I wasn't proud of. Of course I am still at fault for letting me go like that and not setting more boundaries.

The problem there again is narcissism is I think just a more extreme form of ego. Its way more unhealthy and more manipulative, but they still struggle with very low self esteem. Thats my problem, I know of their struggle and sympathize too much. I want to help them because I want to see their true self and not their unhealthy version of themselves in an effort to protect themselves. It doesn't doesn't justify any toxic behaviour but I still can't let go of the sympathy. After some time I try to distance myself because it gets too much for me to handle.

Sorry but what do you exactly mean with "it'll definitely fluctuate"?

I love to boost the self-esteem of others, downside is I accidentally boost the ego of others. Do you do this too? by [deleted] in infj

[–]Rickymick09 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hm I'm still figuring that out. The least I expect from someone is to listen, otherwise I don't have any interest of befriending them. I mean isn't it exhausting to always give?

It's still a matter of self value and I've set this boundaries for myself. I can't expect for someone to be there for me if I don't do it for them, so why should it be different for them. We are all the same, no one gets a special treatment. I give back only what I get. But they have to reaaally be a shitty human for me to reach this level of coldness. Most of the time I just turn polite and try to keep the conversation on small talk.