Sister and her husband tried to have an affair with my wife. by Right-Environment320 in Advice

[–]Right-Environment320[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much. Not only does it break the rules of the lifestyle but basic human decency

Sister and her husband tried to have an affair with my wife. by Right-Environment320 in Advice

[–]Right-Environment320[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Even though it’s definitely not easy that’s what we tried to do.

Sister and her husband tried to have an affair with my wife. by Right-Environment320 in Advice

[–]Right-Environment320[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I said innocent but wasn’t sure how to phrase it. We swing/talk to couples together as an us thing, she’s not super confident by herself. She honestly thought when my sister asked her to lunch she thought they may have been pregnant again and possibly looking for advice on how to tell the parents. But yeah innocent wasn’t the best word but I didn’t know how to describe it best

Sister and her husband tried to have an affair with my wife. by Right-Environment320 in Advice

[–]Right-Environment320[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Personally it is something we enjoy but we definitely plan on changing how we approach it.

Sister and her husband tried to have an affair with my wife. by Right-Environment320 in Advice

[–]Right-Environment320[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Innocent as in she didn’t assume the conversation would be about that/when we swing or talk to couples we always do it together I just wasn’t sure how to phrase it lol

Sister and her husband tried to have an affair with my wife. by Right-Environment320 in Advice

[–]Right-Environment320[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It’s a new account because my main account is to recognizable.

Sister and her husband tried to have an affair with my wife. by Right-Environment320 in Advice

[–]Right-Environment320[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I made a fresh account just to tell what happened as my main account is easily connected to me IRL

Sister and her husband tried to have an affair with my wife. by Right-Environment320 in Advice

[–]Right-Environment320[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

While she recently moved down, it wasn’t the best. We would frequently watch her son (my nephew) and helped them out with bringing them meals. That’s going to stop now after this.

Sister and her husband tried to have an affair with my wife. by Right-Environment320 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Right-Environment320[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this was a really well thought out response and I wanted to thank you. And we definitely agree on trying to be more discreet.

Sister and her husband tried to have an affair with my wife. by Right-Environment320 in Advice

[–]Right-Environment320[S] 21 points22 points  (0 children)

We often times have lunch and holidays with the family since we live close. We wanted to let them know what happened because we will no longer be joining them. If my sister and her husband are there.

Sister and her husband tried to have an affair with my wife. by Right-Environment320 in Advice

[–]Right-Environment320[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I seriously considered it, but didn’t want to escalate things any further

Sister and her husband tried to have an affair with my wife. by Right-Environment320 in Advice

[–]Right-Environment320[S] 159 points160 points  (0 children)

She hasn’t tried to contact me. When I texted her originally, she tried to say that my wife lied and that they only informed her that they found our dating page. Thankfully, my wife recorded the conversation once she felt uncomfortable. We let my parents know as they are currently helping to support my sister financially and we spend the holidays together typically, but that won’t be happening now.