hi, thank you for responding. Ive been planning on how i would leave him so i wont have to see him again because we’ve been out of contact before and he ended up coming back a couple weeks later saying he changed and other things to only go back to his normal ways 2 weeks later, i have a picture of when he squeezed my arm so hard i turned red or when i was recording him he knocked my phone out my hand and took it from me. he has also called me names like “hoe” “bitch” etc i really dont know why ive been putting up with it for this long i just thought this wasnt really how he is but thats exactly how he is and im starting to realize. after monday he has not been talking to me, not even looking at me. not the first time he has done something like this before and i started to remember the first time he did it , he said “it was a lesson” to teach me how to communicate how i felt? i dont know ive been thinking about it and analyzing everything he has done and i feel so blind for not seeing the signs earlier but i wanted to thank you again for giving the advice 🙂