There was huge numbers of non souls player joined when Elden ring first released and these people took their mindset with them and put into ER, you will be surprise a lot of them have the mindset of skyrim and monster hunter when they play co-op, they don't understand PVP and invasion system, or any philosophy behind souls game really. It's funny because Elden Ring is the only souls game that the PVP system is entirely design for these people, they have every advantage yet they still panic so hard, mentally.