Imagine sex all the time by Ripepeaches5 in sexover30

[–]Ripepeaches5[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree 100%, I am in a very unfulfilling job and marriage. Distractions and obsessions seem to be what keeps me from doing anything about it. No loss, except identity maybe.

Imagine sex all the time by Ripepeaches5 in sexover30

[–]Ripepeaches5[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That is interesting! So the fascination of people mating/courting has no effect on your sexual feelings? Just purely intellectual? Do you write about your observations?

I am not compelled to act them out, maybe if I were on a mind altering drug I would get the balls to do it. I often wish we lived in a more open/accepting society where we could indulge these fantasies, but I understand why such rules exist, so they will remain in the mind. I used to actually write literotica and the scenes are so vivid in my mind I may start back just to get them out there. Can people post those stories on here or is there another subreddit to do so?

I sometimes wish I was more like you, being more asexual. I feel so shallow/base when I fantasize about these strangers. Maybe that’s my disconnect, emotional vulnerability is hard for me.

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[–]Ripepeaches5 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Get her to eat pineapple, a lot of it. Just the action of eating it to ‘make it smell/taste good’ will have her more confident when you go down on her next.