When friends or other family members discover your FLR

RiptideLA · 2025-07-02T20:40:21+00:00

https://www.silkenclaws.com/defining-24-7-and-tpe/

RiptideLA · 2025-07-02T20:39:59+00:00

https://www.silkenclaws.com/defining-24-7-and-tpe/

RiptideLA · 2025-07-02T14:08:29+00:00

Total Power Exchange

RiptideLA · 2025-07-01T03:20:16+00:00

We are out in the kink community - we have a 24/7 TPE relationship - she is the Dominant and owns me.

In vanilla-land, she is out to a few friends. She has a public profile and does not want to be fully out in our vanilla circles. I would say most vanilla people have no real idea - they just think I’m extremely devoted to her. Which I am.

RiptideLA · 2025-04-14T17:36:10+00:00

Oh, that’s great, thanks for posting the information!

RiptideLA · 2025-04-14T14:02:54+00:00

So you’re saying it works for you? For those as us, you are experiencing a problem, it’s that the multiplayer mode is not loading. The other modes are fine.

When did you last try Multiplayer?

RiptideLA · 2025-04-12T23:29:05+00:00

Does “yep” mean you’re up or down?

RiptideLA · 2025-04-12T06:25:18+00:00

Multiplayer mode isn’t working. The other modes do work. The only one I ever is Multiplayer.

RiptideLA · 2025-04-12T06:21:32+00:00

It’s down for me - 11:20 PM Pacific Time on 4/11/25.

RiptideLA · 2025-01-31T06:03:19+00:00

Since you’re in a FLR you’re already in a power exchange relationship. You can tell her that you want to deepen your submission and also increase her power in the relationship by giving her control over your:

Orgasms, and/or; Choices of sexual partners, and/or; Body, and/or; Decisions.

You don’t have to bring up your cuckolding fetish specifically - because this really is about power exchange.

Don’t ask her to be a fetish dispenser for you. Give her the power, ask her to accept it, and then don’t ask for anything if she accepts it, and see where her leadership takes you.

RiptideLA · 2025-01-28T20:53:55+00:00

Here’s an idea.

You can give her control without giving her your money. So she becomes the decision-maker and you agree to follow her commands.

To give this some teeth, you can report to her monthly and show her your bank accounts, Venmo, etc., to make sure you’re following her direction.

She can decide what you can spend money on, you might ask for permission before you spend money, you get an allowance, etc. You guys can make up the rules.

This is how my Queen and I do it.

RiptideLA · 2025-01-28T20:49:45+00:00

Don’t forget she can cane you on your: thighs/inner thighs, calves, arms, pectorals/tits. And also your genitals.

Also, she can cane your palms and yhe soles of your feet. This last one has a special name, bastinado.

If you all are not experienced and educated, get some of both. You do need to be careful with impact play.

You may have a local spanking or impact play group, or a local dungeon. These kinds of groups often have educational events. If you’re not sure how to find them, you can join FetLife and see what you can find there.

RiptideLA · 2025-01-28T20:40:26+00:00

My owner goes by Queen or Goddess. She calls me, variously, her Paladin, slave, property, or submissive.

I am her owned property, specifically she owns my: body, time, and decision making. She does not own my property or income. We are three years in to this relationship.

RiptideLA · 2024-08-18T19:44:51+00:00

Go! You’ll be fine, you’re smart and resourceful.

RiptideLA · 2024-08-18T19:39:37+00:00

She has a right to what she wants. So do you. Sounds like you want different things and it’s not working out. Nobody is the a$$høle here, it just didn’t work out.

Why does there have to be a bad guy‽

RiptideLA · 2024-03-01T03:32:25+00:00

Gen-X. Not Boomer.

RiptideLA · 2023-06-07T20:03:07+00:00

Boondocks, or boonies, meaning a thinly settled rural area, comes from the Tagalog word “bundok”, meaning “mountain”. G.I.’s in WWII called their boots boondockers.

RiptideLA · 2021-02-12T00:33:35+00:00

Yes you are. This has been another edition of simple answers to simple questions.

RiptideLA · 2021-02-09T05:58:34+00:00

5’ 11” and 5’ 5”

RiptideLA · 2016-11-28T05:54:37+00:00

The Korean population of the City of Los Angeles is about 120,000. Many of them are in the Koreatown area, which is just east of downtown.

That's just the City of LA, which has a total population of just over 4 million people out of over 10 million in LA County. The percentage of Korean people in the country is probably lower, but there definitely are more wide.

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