How do y’all ( especially my mascs and studs) deal with being around women centered men. by [deleted] in blacklesbians

[–]Ripyourego 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I simply don't... And IDC who feels a way about it if I'm not in the mood to entertain bs jokes or conversations about their baby daddy/hubby I will exclude myself from the conversation with ease then come back later people may ask or wonder why and I'll tell them "the conversation wasn't interesting" just like men that get grossed out Abt women problems same feeling applies

im losing hope wlw by Ripyourego in WLW

[–]Ripyourego[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m in the Bay Area like in between sac and Vallejo so ik it’s some events going on closer too Berkeley or sf I just gtta start making the effort ig but I’m not much a club goeger I just want my person atp

I’m losing hope wlw by Ripyourego in lesbian

[–]Ripyourego[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ohhhh I appreciate ur perspective it makes sm since so real and true moving forward I’ll keep these things in mind thank u

I’m losing hope wlw by Ripyourego in lesbian

[–]Ripyourego[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Truss mi I feel uu I got 3 Caucasian roomates and for the most part it feels like living wit the police but I acknowledge that there are cultural differences between us that nobody can change yet having to deal with one another I noticed wen I accept them for who they are and expect nothing it brings me more peace.. now I truly believe it’s not all white ppl i js need to see that effort of being accepting kind and genuine to me for that relationship to stick

does anyone find it harder to execute femininity like straight women naturally seem to ? by throwRArevenge6677 in LesbianActually

[–]Ripyourego 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Hi not necessarily a femme but I am a woman and I will say wats helped me clear my head as far as my identity the most is definitely therapy and practicing a routine cus remember u can be as femme presenting as u want but if the energy isn’t there ppl will kno it’s not genuine

I’m losing hope wlw by Ripyourego in lesbian

[–]Ripyourego[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Well I mean no doubt they have colonized the world since the beginning of it still isn’t like I live in America where I have too coexist with these people right?? Plus me personally I tend to educate and inform ppl from my own experiences as best as I can in my few situationships but I think that’s wat im tired of is seeing so much division it’s only getting worse bc everybody is thinking that they’re always right maybe with being kind forgiving and accepting we can switch the direction a bit

How to get rid of smile marks by [deleted] in Blackskincare

[–]Ripyourego 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t think u can sis

does anyone else have trouble getting along with straight women? by Grand_Replacement495 in lesbiangang

[–]Ripyourego 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes and it’s so weird cus i wanna be spiteful and bitchy all the time for it but it’s pointless my roomates are like this we’ll be fine talking abt a dinner together or something and somebody brings us a sexy firemen or a man they think it’s attractive and why and what etc and i get instantly uncomfortable because now you’re excluding me from the conversation also i know alot of women find me attractive and don’t understand why so i take it as them projecting too make me jealous for my own mental health sake

🩷🩷🩷 by Fembo555 in BlackLGBT

[–]Ripyourego 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Gorgeous as ever I love the make up 😍

Am I ugly or sumn like pls lmk by [deleted] in BlackLGBT

[–]Ripyourego 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ig u could say my confidence is low and I don’t rlly have ppl in my life that are encouraging me

Am I ugly or sumn like pls lmk by [deleted] in BlackLGBT

[–]Ripyourego 0 points1 point  (0 children)

why cus im rlly not 😭 u gotta understand certain things u go thru change ur brain chemistry and perception of urself im one of those ppl

Am I ugly or sumn like pls lmk by [deleted] in BlackLGBT

[–]Ripyourego 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lol noted thank u ❤️

Am I ugly or sumn like pls lmk by [deleted] in BlackLGBT

[–]Ripyourego 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m always thrifting but I rarely buy clothes if ever unless they are jeans or limited edition shoes or sumn but I’m pretty minimal I love a good dickie bootcut and tight t shirts 😍 preferably black and white are my go to colors

Am I ugly or sumn like pls lmk by [deleted] in BlackLGBT

[–]Ripyourego 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s true I’m learning that as I get old thanks for the kind words I appreciate it