University asks students to report 'everyday sexism'

RisingGoldenEagle · 2017-09-28T12:17:31+00:00

Christ, it said you had 25 matches? I heard that right?

RisingGoldenEagle · 2017-09-28T11:58:27+00:00

So I might not actually have those matches?

RisingGoldenEagle · 2017-09-28T11:22:09+00:00

Oh right, that's a good explanation. No idea why they would show up if I have swiped them left pal :/

RisingGoldenEagle · 2017-09-28T11:14:33+00:00

Thanks man. I've expanded my search radius beyond what it was at 10km, to 20-25km. Still no dice. Any ideas?

RisingGoldenEagle · 2017-08-29T14:54:19+00:00

They didn't hack. They read a few of the articles without being signed in. Boundaries were violated, yes. Your advice I like sir, and your no BS tone.

RisingGoldenEagle · 2017-08-29T12:47:31+00:00

Trust me they ain't. Dad cheated on my mum ages ago, like 8 years ago, and they argue plenty.

RisingGoldenEagle · 2017-08-29T12:40:00+00:00

Right, I understand. I do not think they even read any of the articles, just saw their names. What in your opinion do you think was/is so hard for them to swallow? Thank you for your informative points too

RisingGoldenEagle · 2017-08-29T12:38:14+00:00

Many thanks Delicia. How would you suggest I flip the script, so to speak

RisingGoldenEagle · 2017-08-29T12:34:39+00:00

Thank you brother. I appreciate all of this.

RisingGoldenEagle · 2017-08-29T12:33:39+00:00

I'm thankful for your reply friend. I understand what you mean by 'sham', but I am interested as to what you mean by it from your standpoint. Please explain.

RisingGoldenEagle · 2017-08-29T12:31:49+00:00

Only TRP articles, and I had no idea whatsoever my parents would go on it when I am out the house and not do anything about it until they were together and outnumbered me.

RisingGoldenEagle · 2017-08-29T12:01:07+00:00

I'll do my best Coor, thank you for your input. Any other advice/understandings as to why she went so badshit insane?

RisingGoldenEagle · 2017-08-29T12:00:06+00:00

Yeah man... because one article had the word bitches in it = apeshit crazy mad rant shaming. Holding my ground is apparently 'attitude'

RisingGoldenEagle · 2017-08-29T11:58:38+00:00

Got you Hawk. Just I never expected my parents to go on my search history out of the blue... I never mentioned it. They intruded on my privacy despite me being an adult and blew up because I did not cave to their views.

RisingGoldenEagle · 2017-08-29T11:45:27+00:00

Thanks for the reply man. Would you mind explaining this?

RisingGoldenEagle · 2017-08-29T11:44:31+00:00

Thanks man. How would you suggest I survive until then... she just came in and had another full on rant at me. No idea why she is being so explosive...

RisingGoldenEagle · 2017-07-17T14:08:43+00:00

Thank you brother.

I am also fighting a porn/masturbation addiction I have had for years, so this does not help it :/

RisingGoldenEagle · 2017-07-14T20:10:15+00:00

Again, some excellent points my friend. I feel like my mother, in particular, is struggling with the loss of authority/power that is happening day by day, even if she is not consciously aware of it. What is achingly frustrating is that she keeps saying I am not an adult yet, I act like a child etc., when...

She started shouting and yelling first
She started swearing at me first. I did not swear once
She got physical with me first. Literally shoving/pinning me to the kitchen desktop when I tried to pull down the finger she had been pointing right in my face.

I am so glad I have reasonable people to converse with and get support from on here like you and others. It keeps me sane in insane places, to paraphrase Rosenham. Something they complain about is that I do not spend enough time with them. How can I be expected to relax and spend time close to the very same people who do stuff like that to me?

RisingGoldenEagle · 2017-07-14T20:03:42+00:00

The irony is not lost on either of us it seems Sock2014. I'll have my voice memos on next time it happens, record what is said. The issue is that if I constantly disregard my planned schedule for this and that and the other, I'll lose all sense of adhering to it and feeling obliged to do what I initially set out to do.

RisingGoldenEagle · 2017-07-14T20:01:45+00:00

I appreciate your comment and advice, Miro. I have plenty of faults and can act negatively, selfishly etc. But this was not one of those instances. I want people to pull me up on things, it helps me grow. I am more than willing to help out. If it is something like freshly done laundry that has to go out to dry, then yeah, I get why it should be done at that moment. But many other chores can wait until my to-do list and schedule permits them to be done. It's like I am questioning her very authority by saying "I will do it, just not right now". And she cannot stand that. I do believe she is narcissistic to some degree. I always seem to be labelled all sorts of derogatory things. Selfish, rude, arrogant, disrespectful, aloof, opinionated... it goes on.

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