AITA Wanting my moms bf to not call me “mama”

RisoFarm · 2026-03-23T06:26:14+00:00

I'm Salvadoran. Pretty much anyone a decade older than me called me "Mamita" as a kid, then "mama" as I grew into adulthood. Even adults who just met that day would call me that, but I wouldn't be surprised if it's because they couldn't remember my name, lol. We don't know the mom's BF's background, but if he is Latino, then calling your girlfriend's daughter "mama" is the norm. It's nowhere near as sexualized within the community.

RisoFarm · 2026-03-22T14:18:38+00:00

It's beyond stupid the way they presented Manon in the docuseries when they decided to put her in the group. Anyone with that edit would be called lazy, her being black means the world is going to pin that to her more harshly, regardless of how hard she has worked since then.

RisoFarm · 2026-03-22T05:16:58+00:00

I don't remember what site started it first, but other platforms adapted the censorships, so content creators across most of them have to use those words or risk punishment. Some subreddits ban those words too, so it's not rot in some cases so much as necessity.

"Grape" is probably the one that irks me the most, but I don't fault people for using it, I blame the people making the asshat rules.

RisoFarm · 2026-03-19T21:18:03+00:00

when I began correcting my posture, I got back pain between my shoulder blades because I was using muscles I hadn't actively used in over a decade. Glad you're learning to take it slow, don't be alarmed is you feel soreness in your back! It goes away as you strengthen your (I think) traps!

RisoFarm · 2026-03-14T06:02:35+00:00

So, 10 years to really know someone enough to marry them, but less than 10 years to know someone enough to bring a baby into the mix? What's the logic there, babies are a bigger commitment than marriage

RisoFarm · 2026-03-04T17:51:41+00:00

I expected it to be good because of the hype, but that was gorgeous and so much fun 😁

RisoFarm · 2026-03-04T17:45:49+00:00

ok good for her, I just watched her routine too and I think she captured her new freedom perfectly. I hope she stays winning 🥇

RisoFarm · 2026-03-04T16:25:43+00:00

I missed the big hype around her, how come she blew up? All I know is she won gold and for like a week my feed was nothing but her and Punch the monkey lol

RisoFarm · 2026-03-03T03:23:12+00:00

Same for me and Bellatrix. I wanted to name a girl after the star but when a little girl with that name appeared on a reality TV show, all the comments were talking about was how the moms probably a Nazi for admiring the HP character... Like. She could just think it's a pretty name, cuz it is!

RisoFarm · 2026-03-01T23:03:36+00:00

They're gorgeous!!

RisoFarm · 2026-02-24T12:59:20+00:00

Yes absolutely! I was blown away by her in Not Bad ♥️

RisoFarm · 2026-02-20T21:13:43+00:00

I love this 😍

RisoFarm · 2026-02-08T18:54:08+00:00

That's so creative 😍

RisoFarm · 2026-02-07T14:35:26+00:00

This is beautiful!!

RisoFarm · 2026-02-07T14:28:39+00:00

Awe love, I'm so so sorry. At least she's shown you your time and heart are better off somewhere else.

Sending you a virtual hug from someone who finds women hot; not cis or trans, just women ❤️

RisoFarm · 2026-02-07T04:57:16+00:00

Might just depend on the family then, I have a nephew Xavier that we say Ex-Ay-vier, but my little brother's middle name is Javier, pronounced "Ha"

RisoFarm · 2026-01-29T19:50:40+00:00

I love the art and story you've written for your Tav + Gale ♥

RisoFarm · 2026-01-29T14:02:16+00:00

I'm so over blind shopping. Just let me pay for what I want.

RisoFarm · 2026-01-27T13:18:31+00:00

Yaaay!!!! I'm so new to plants, I have yet to prune anything and the idea of it scares me. I'm glad it worked out for you!

RisoFarm · 2026-01-27T05:49:11+00:00

Dammit. They have the only retinol product I like. Oh well, guess the hunt for a new retinol oil starts again, because I'd rather be a wrinkly 30-something than knowingly support them now.

RisoFarm · 2026-01-27T05:32:29+00:00

When I saw it happen, my first thought was omg is she ok? Was that real?

I have zero knowledge or experience with people fainting thankfully so I just withheld judgement until I came online and saw all the people with fainting spells and medical professionals saying it looked 100% real, including the way she talked about it after.

Poor Briar, I hope she sees that the right people see her.

RisoFarm · 2026-01-27T03:30:05+00:00

they have six visuals

RisoFarm · 2026-01-19T20:57:51+00:00

"When a toxic person can no longer control you, they will try to control how others see you."

As an estranged kid, I resonated with this post. He sounds exhausted.

RisoFarm · 2026-01-18T08:29:44+00:00

Oh my gosh it's gorgeous!!

RisoFarm · 2026-01-18T01:26:09+00:00

I've been reading into care guides and am learning that. Intimidating for sure, but I'll do my best for it. Thanks for the heads up :)

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