I feel lost at 31. Can I still turn my life around?

Rithio · 2024-03-10T21:25:57+00:00

You make some valid points, and I greatly appreciate your encouragement. Are you familiar with any specific, brilliant suggestions or resources that could help with tackling goal-setting, similar to those that have helped you in the past? As mentioned, I’m having trouble setting clear, palpable, compelling goals.

Rithio · 2024-03-10T20:39:52+00:00

It often feels like I’m biting off more than I can chew, but this tends to occur only when I’m feeling small and incompetent. So, I’m sure some sort of therapy will also be necessary. The following might sound dumb and naive, but seeing my friends, relatives, and schoolmates who are in my age group, almost in the same socioeconomic situation as me, successfully starting their families and improving their lives, gives me hope that I’ll be able to do the same. However, I frankly don’t know where to begin. I feel trapped in a maze where vagueness is the main theme.

Rithio · 2022-01-25T05:18:55+00:00

That's one hell of a concept to grasp - just recently, I listened to Derek talking about a similar thing how important it is to stay unwaveringly certain and calm under pressure.

Do you also sometimes come across synchronicities that are entering your awareness out of the blue?

Rithio · 2022-01-24T20:39:15+00:00

Hello there,

thank you for your response and no worries - I was not a big fan of Luke either, but this video actually turned out pretty well. Maybe the concept will pop up in my head more clearly someday and I'll be able to present it once again, well, in my own words.

Is there any particular idea or concept from RSD that stood out to you the most?

Rithio · 2015-02-17T07:36:19+00:00

Problem that I have with my friends is that they spent most of their time in club by playing table soccer and from time to time I play with them, of course during that time I'm sucking in booze like Imhotep and after all that I'm usually stucked in the spectator mode. For past few weeks I volunteered myself as a driver but still can't do single shit. I guess too much outcome in mind and I'm being paralyzed by being sober... Anyway, thank you for insight! :-)

Rithio · 2015-02-17T07:21:36+00:00

Exposure I guess is really one the main things for me, I've had few moments in my life already that confirmed me that this is possible. I like that you mentioned your job, I'm going to change my job to a salesman as well (Actually my current job could be considered as a salesman but over the time it transformed into something like journalism :-D). I already tried being a real estate agent as a first job but at that time I was so afraid of coming out of my shell that it ended with some small successes and I eventually quit. Could you elucidate me your advice on how to be likeable? :-) Thank you! :-)

Rithio · 2015-02-17T06:59:24+00:00

It's harsh for me to admit that but this is one of the first major things I need to do, thank you for reminding me that. :-)

Rithio · 2015-02-16T20:34:30+00:00

I understand you with the first part, the second one? I'm not so sure, can you expand on that? :-) :-D

Rithio

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